My name is Wang Chuangui, and I am an ordinary information technology teacher at the First Junior High School in Andi Town, Yinan County. Since graduating in 1999, I have been rooted in rural teaching for 23 years, without complaint or regret, without giving up on a student.
Home visit work is an important help for teachers to educate children, so it should be a regular job of teachers, on Thursday, February 10, 2022, the weather is clear, and I once again embark on the road of home visits paved with sunshine.
Before the home visit, I did a series of preparations. Coinciding with the Spring Festival, the student's family lives deep in the mountains, and the family conditions are not too good, so the first idea is to buy something for the child, eat is a must buy, but to be healthy, so I bought some fruit. Considering that the child's usual habit of taking notes has not yet been formed, so he bought 10 notebooks for the child, hoping that through this home visit, students will gradually develop the good habit of taking notes.
Then, I went to the school to analyze and summarize the child's performance in the past two semesters. The main thing is the analysis of academic performance, so as to be targeted in communicating with parents and students, and to guide children's learning in a targeted manner. First of all, I carefully analyzed the situation of the latest final exam, and then compared it with the previous midterm exam, and found that Xiaoxin (pseudonym) has made great progress in several disciplines.
I was very happy in my heart, happy for the progress made by Xiaoxin, indicating that Xiaoxin had worked hard, and may still need my help in learning methods and learning strategies, which pointed out the direction of my efforts, and I suddenly felt that the notebook was bought correctly. I must seize the opportunity of this home visit, encourage Xiaoxin well, let Xiaoxin regain confidence, and ignite the fire of learning again.
I feel that encouragement is the best way to educate children, usually in teaching, I often remind myself that we must find more advantages of students, and give encouragement in a timely manner, so that the students' learning process is not lacking in motivation, and I will definitely amplify the advantages, so that students always feel the attention of the teacher to them.
After analyzing the learning situation of Xiaoxin, I called and communicated with the parents again, expressing my desire to visit home, the parents said that they were very happy, and I was full of expectations for this home visit!
Leaving the school, I drove with full confidence on the road of home visits, and my new home was in the northernmost part of shore embankment town, surrounded by mountains and an authentic small mountain village. After driving for half an hour to Xiaoxin's home, only my sister and Xiaoxin were at home, my mother went to the field to do farm work, and my sister said that my mother generally did not go home to eat at noon, and would work until five or six o'clock in the afternoon. After listening to it, I suddenly felt in my heart how difficult it was for the little new mother.
Since I came, if I can't communicate with my parents, it always feels like a pity. Therefore, I asked Xiaoxin's sister to go to the field to call her mother home, and also to have lunch by the way, and arranged for Xiaoxin to boil water, and I also planned to help cook. But my sister felt embarrassed. After some discussion, it was finally decided that my sister was cooking at home, and I asked Xiaoxin to take me to the field to visit my mother, maybe I could help do something.
After walking for more than three miles, I finally reached the ground, and the little new mother saw me coming, stopped the farm work in hand to meet me, and I also took two quick steps to catch up.
After some greetings, we first pulled up the family routine, learned that Xiaoxin's father went to work in the field in the eighth grade, and he supported everything in the family by himself, and suddenly felt the greatness of his mother! Of course, at this moment, the education of Xiaoxin is indispensable, and I want my children to know how to be grateful and know that filial piety to parents is a compulsory course!
At this time, her mother's eyes were a little moist, but Liu Xinbao seemed to understand something!
Poor parents in the world, maybe the mother understands their children, but I think this is the wish of all parents in the world, in the chat, the mother told me the most, is to hope that Xiaoxin can work hard, every day can improve a little, "you learn more and learn less, go forward, learn a sheet, don't bully other people's children, listen to the teacher's words." ”
This is the original words of the little new mother, what a simple word, and the words reveal the ardent expectations and love for the child. Thanks to the little new mother, it made me an unforgettable home visit, which I call "the head of the ground home visit". And wish the Xiaoxin family everything they want to do, all the best.
At this time, I have a deeper understanding of the educational concept of "home" proposed by Principal Gai.
"Home-school co-education, happy home", the family of each of our students is also part of our happiness education, educating people is our greatest wish to be educators, looking forward to jackie chan, hoping that women will become phoenixes, is the biggest wish of all parents in the world, is this not the original intention of happiness education? It's our mission! In order not to delay the little new mother's work, in the end, I respected her idea, I went home to continue to communicate with the little new sister, and my mother stayed in the field to continue to work.
"Manna into the heart, drizzle soothing". Back at home, in a harmonious atmosphere, Xiaoxin and I had in-depth exchanges, involving learning methods, learning attitudes, learning motivations, and learning goals! According to the analysis of the learning achievements before the home visit, the efforts of Xiaoxin before the affirmation, and put forward praise, emphasizing that all the achievements of the achievements are the results of their own efforts, requiring Xiaoxin to pay attention to the learning process, have a plan for the next step of learning, have goals, and then run towards their own goals and continue to work hard, once again emphasizing the profound connotation of "a journey of a thousand miles, starting with a single step"!
Seeing Xiao Xin's eyes and facial expressions, I knew that the conversation between us was a success! Happy, I handed the notebook I bought to Xiaoxin's hand and told Xiaoxin that in order to better improve the learning efficiency, I hope that Xiaoxin will learn to follow the lessons and learn to summarize! The look in Xiaoxin's eyes when he took the notebook also gave me a positive answer, and at this time I felt that I had succeeded! Maybe this is also the starting point for Xiaoxin to start the road to success!
"Spring wind and rain, moisturize the heart, one will not give up." Next, I carefully checked Xiaoxin's winter vacation homework, although it was not very ideal, but there was still nearly a week to go away from school, and I had reason to believe that Xiaoxin would work hard!
Through the inspection of homework, I also found the existing problems of Xiaoxin, and pointed out the direction of efforts for Xiaoxin, hoping that Xiaoxin would first review the two subjects of geography and biology to meet the upcoming middle school entrance examination, and other disciplines should also make a good study plan.
Finally, I told Xiaoxin to know how to be grateful to her parents, and in addition to arranging her own studies, she should also help her parents do some housework as much as possible. Learning to be grateful is also an important part of our "happiness education". It is our mother who gives us life, it is our parents who take care of us, food and clothing, healthy growth, what reason do we have not to honor them? I said to Xiaoxin: "Learn to be grateful, pass on happiness, and make people's lives better!" ”
In the midst of Xiaoxin's constant nods, I ended today's home visit!
Through this home visit, I had in-depth communication with parents, gave full affirmation and encouragement to the growth of children, found ways to let children regain their confidence in learning, and also discussed with parents the experience and methods of educating children, and listened to parents' opinions and suggestions on the school's "happiness education" concept! At the same time, in view of the upcoming 15th Lantern Festival, we also emphasized the safety aspects, and made further requirements for epidemic prevention and control, anti-telecommunications fraud, prohibition of firecrackers, etc., to ensure a safe, healthy and happy winter vacation!
This home visit has narrowed the distance between me and the parents, me and Xiaoxin, parents and the school, so that the children feel the care of the school teachers, so that parents feel the warmth of the school's "happiness education", home visits not only into the family, but also into the hearts of children and parents, the school "happiness education" and "achieve a happy life" school philosophy passed to every student's family, with sincerity, love, home warmth to build a bridge of communication between home and school!
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step, run hard, and achieve a happy life! Let's work together!