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I think the love of youth is the most sincere.
Especially when I just graduated a year or two ago, I just had some experience foundation, because the comparison with the student era is incremental and satisfied, I can buy something for the people I like without hesitation, and I am not in a hurry to plunge into the abyss of work, and I am busy like a top for performance and salary.
There is also the expectation of an ideal life in my heart: I will meet a person who likes Haruki Murakami or which writer as much as I do, we often listen to the same style of music, eat a type of breakfast, save money with the efforts of two people, settle down in this small city for three or five years, travel three or five times a year, and share the housework equally.
At that time, we really believed that liking someone could have a good ending. Just like playing the movie of Huan Zhu Gege, in the end, Xiao Yanzi will marry the fifth brother, and Erkang is loyal to Ziwei.
But gradually, we learn that love is just another way of life, full of temptations, calculations, trade-offs, and even become competitors in life, allowing you to choose how to prioritize.
What is your favorite love movie?
My favorite is "Philharmonic City", I like two young people with dreams to meet at that time, although there is no money and no chance, but there is a heart that hopes that you will be appreciated and you will always be praised by me.
We love each other's dreams higher than life. Even if one day we don't show up in each other's lives.
But it is enough to stay in your dreams, to praise, to advance.
As Zhang Hang sang in "Bright Fire":
We were on the distant road day and night for each other to be a bright fire.
But behind these mutual achievements, there will also be tearing and torture.
The most impressive thing is the heroine Mia played by Sister Stone and the male protagonist played by the high commander, one likes acting, and the other takes jazz as life.
When Mia finally got the chance to perform and started acting in New York, Xiao Sai was busy touring with the band. There may have been many times in the middle of this negotiation, but I found that the compromise made for each other made both sides more painful, so I said goodbye in a friendly way.
The camera flashed, and a few years later.
Sister Shi then walked into the coffee shop where she once worked, which is already a famous New York film queen, she bought a cup of coffee, sat in a luxurious car and looked at her past scenery, looking at the past, where it was her youth.
She carried her husband to the street where she used to date Xiao Sai, and perhaps wondered if she would meet the old man. They walked into a bar on the side of the street, but the man on the stage, the spirited man who picked up the microphone and wanted to greet everyone warmly, saw her in the crowd supporting each other through the difficult times of youth, and then saw the man she held in her hand.
His gaze dimmed suddenly, and he said only one word: Welcome to Sai's bar.
He sat on the edge of the piano and played the song he had played before, witnessing each other's young fame and hopelessness, and deciding to give up, and also witnessing each other's perseverance for their dreams.
No wonder "The Truth is True" is the background music of the per capita CP in station B:
He was the one who accompanied me to bleed and break my skin
I exchanged memories while I was insomniac
It is because of him that he has made me
If you change someone else, you lose the ending
There was no flower in the red carpet of youth
If it wasn't for him, how would I have walked through the nameless
Sai sat at the piano playing the song, and in another parallel time and space, he and Mia were married, had children, and they frolicked together in the house, and tonight it was the two of them walking arm in arm, turning their heads to be within reach.
But there is no if.
Loved ones become the backs of the crowd, and dreams of being inspired by each other later shine brightly. The one who doesn't show up in your tomorrow makes your tomorrow shine brighter.
To use a passage written by another self-media person, Na Jie: What she wants, he understands. Even to a certain extent, they achieved each other's dreams. But they stand on both sides of the river of destiny and can no longer share in each other's success. What a pity, maybe this is life, love is complete in regret.
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In my first book, I described a love affair in the first few years of my graduation, titled "Thank You Not You, Accompany Me to the End."
At that time, I was too young, I felt that if I loved, I would love to the end, and there was no room for myself, but the other party was a rational and experienced person, who knew when to change jobs, knew what to exchange with life, knew what kind of girl to fall in love, and what kind of girl was suitable for marriage.
A headless and brainless person who encounters an abacus cannot be said to suffer losses, but sooner or later he will hit a wall. This kind of wall encounter is also a kind of growth, it is like a wake-up call to all the girls who have been in love with the brain: you have to learn to be like a boy, hold the important nodes and choices of life in your own hands, and you can't always arrange yourself according to the plans of others.
So later, I also had my own rhythm of life, when to change jobs, when to change cities, when to buy a house, and I gradually became a person with ideas, execution and clear goals in the eyes of others.
No one will know that behind this is the exchange of young and failed love, replacing a realization with fate.
Some people come into your life, perhaps just to give you a precious lesson.
That's how we grow up, meet love, meet confidants, see something special in each other, and then take nourishment for ourselves.
If love must be good or bad, then good love, good lover, can inspire you a better side and make you a better person.
We've all talked about the kind of vigorous but flawed love, although love ended because of failure, but in the end, we gained self-recognition.
Even if it is deeply attached, even if it is love, it has once existed in a swinging intestine.
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In the movie "Her", the shy otaku buys a virtual girlfriend, and then chats with her, discussing the spiritual world, Scarlett's voice is really sexy, she is shy at first, and then she is enthusiastic, wise, will joke, and even talk to you about physics.
In the end, you find out that you are nothing more than a tool for her to move towards a smarter expression of emotion.
You ask her how many people she's talking to at the same time, and she says, 641.
She said that the more you love, the more capacity of your heart will grow.
Artificial intelligence is like the top building of wisdom and love, the so-called fraternity.
The kind of backward-compatible love that understands you better sometimes doesn't exist to be with you, but rather sucks in your nourishment and becomes a wiser self.
The film doesn't teach us how to coexist with such intelligent virtual love, it just raises the possibility that people who fully understand you and can catch up on any of your topics and emotions may be like AI beings, who love you, but not just you. Loving you is not their goal, but to achieve better progress through love and communication is their purpose.
"Loneliness is the whole world, it is all people, it is all history, and it is the way you will eventually learn to get along."
This is probably what all love movies teach us.