introduction
In today's social development, there are also many boys and single men and women, one is because of the fear of marriage, the pressure is high, the second is because of poverty, and the third is because a person lives very well and does not need many people to wait.
In fact, whether to marry or not depends on how people choose, some are not necessarily married, and some are not married and have a very bad life.
When you are young, it is easy not to get married, there is no work pressure, then when you are old, or single men and women, will you feel very lonely? Looking for a husband? Or is it a regret that you didn't get married in the first place? These three masters spoke their hearts.
Uncle Guo / 70 years old
My family is very difficult, I also have 2 brothers, although I did not need any money to get married at that time, and some of them were completely free to marry wives, just be generous and honest, it is impossible to find.
But I fell in love with a rich family, and the two of us fell in love sincerely, but my girlfriend's family disagreed, saying that I was a poor person, and at that time his parents also stipulated that I must have a motorcycle, a TV, and a tape recorder in my home.
These three things I did not have in the family, because I did not have money to buy at home, and then the girlfriend's parents were afraid that the girlfriend would leave with me, and soon forced the girlfriend to get married, at that time the girlfriend did not understand the argument, listened to her relatives, I was particularly cold to her, so I would not meet love again, and then I would not find a daughter-in-law.
Gradually, I reached the age of 45, at this age I did not get married, and everyone in the village said that I had no doubt that I was not good at any level, so I could not find a daughter-in-law.
At that time, because I didn't care so much, it just happened that daily life could be a little bit, my country made up some money to help me, returned me a suite, originally lived in a thatched house, now thick bottom room, life is not so difficult, but I found a person so lonely.
The spacious house that I deal with every day, my 2 brothers are much older than me, they have passed away, I have no family, I really regret the choice at that time, otherwise now I have no doubt that the family is happy, my brother's children sometimes talk about me, but just to mean it, it is not easy to be filial to me.
Now that I am old, all I have to face every day is loneliness and loneliness.
Uncle Han / 70 years old
I like to read, in the eyes of everyone I am a reader, I do not have the impulse to get married, my hobby is to use my life to travel all over China, after that, I did travel to every region in the country, to every region, I will leave a souvenir.
I was not married, but because I had many girlfriends, emotions can still be, these girlfriends and me for a period of time, they want to marry me, I immediately proposed to break up, I don't like to get married, I like to be casual, I don't want to be bound by divorce, beating me is not easy to get married.
Others say that if you don't get married now, you will regret it when you get old, and I won't think so at that time.
Now that I am older, a person is really lonely, so regret that I was too stubborn at that time, so I asked my sister-in-law to take care of my life and live with the nanny for a while, I actually fell in love with her, originally wanted to grow old with her for a lifetime, but I really did not expect that she had a purpose, at this time. I found that it was indeed more difficult to find a sincere old partner than to ascend to the heavens.
When I was young, I was very arrogant, I felt that a person lived very well, did not have to get married and give birth, did not think that now that I was old and had two companions next to me, I was really lonely, I saw other people's children and grandchildren full of halls, the family was especially prosperous, I was so envious.
Uncle Sun / 70 years old
I'm a more optimistic person, I don't like to compete with other people, even if it's a big deal, I still feel that nothing is going on and immediately ignore it.
Some matchmakers helped me introduce my boyfriend because I turned a blind eye and thought it was okay to get married or not.
After that, I went on a blind date with multiple goals, and others saw me with a look of indifference, saw that I was very unaccustomed, and felt that I was not a person who lived a life, and refused to be with me.
My parents were in a hurry at that time, I thought there was no nest fire, was it so crucial not to get married? And the unmarried days are also very good, and perhaps there are many people who think the same as me, just live each day well.
Unexpectedly, when I was 65 years old, I was sick, I was walking outside at that time, and immediately passed out on the ground, fortunately, others saw it and hit 120, otherwise I would have lost my life.
During the period of hospitalization, I found that it was a happy thing to have a daughter-in-law and a child around to take care of, but now I have no one to rely on, no one to give water, I feel that no one cooks for meals, there is no way, I can only invite an aunt to take care of my life.
After that, my illness was almost over, and I had to go home to recuperate, so I asked someone to tell my wife and children to help me, but no one came to meet me, because there were some women of the same age who thought that I was too old, or that I didn't have any money, and no one was willing to come with me.
Originally thought that a person lived very well, did not think of giving birth to a disease, only to find that there are children and old partners around them is the happiest and happiest, now want to find a husband can not find, only a lonely life, indeed regret is not as good as when young and did not bother to talk about the object.
epilogue
If two people are in love, they will definitely move towards a happy marriage, and if one of them does not want to get married, there is no need to use any method.
There is no reluctance to get married in life, in many cases because of the family, or because of damage, so they are especially reluctant to get married, feeling that marriage is too inconvenient and there is work pressure.
These single men and women of the elderly feel that they only need to be rich in their hands, and they can live very well when they are old, in fact, this view is not necessarily right, money is not omnipotent, money is difficult to buy true feelings and emotions, so no matter how much money there is, the old age will also be lonely.
When the elderly are old, they very much want to have a companion next to them, and they are white-headed and old for a lifetime, but these people who choose single men and women for a lifetime have to be lonely until they are old?
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