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01, people who firmly believe in their dreams can always change their destiny
Man has no ambition and does not stand. A person with no ambition is really not worthy to talk about why he is not successful and why he is not favored by Heaven.
Because you are not even qualified to be selected to doubt life, the opportunity is only left to those who are prepared.
Tolstoy said: "The ideal is the guiding light, without the ideal, there is no firm direction; without the direction, there is no life."
Ideals and direction coexist, and the establishment of goals is the driving force for a person to strive forward; those who have ideals and work hard for them, they can always change their destiny by their own struggle.
Sun Ling, from a small mountain village in Hunan, the family situation is not very good, because the family is poor, once suffered from two times forced to drop out of school; but under her strong attitude, her parents finally compromised and agreed to continue to provide her with schooling.
However, the weather was unpredictable, and in 2009, Sun Ling failed the college entrance examination and did not get into college. She went to Shenzhen alone to work, became an assembly line worker, and started a deep drift. But she did not give up on herself from then on, waiting for fate to arrange herself, but to fight with fate to the end.
In order to change her fate, Sun Ling saved money and applied for several training courses that she was interested in, and took classes while working. Life was very hard, but she still insisted on learning everything she wanted to learn. In 2011, she left the factory with relatively stable wages, resumed learning programming and English, and prepared to study abroad for self-examination undergraduate.
Kung Fu pays off, Sun Ling achieves her wishes, and returns home. After many interviews, she waited for a very satisfactory job offer and became a programmer for a company in New York.
All of this, Sun Ling spent ten years, relying on her own groping to achieve a leap from Loudi to New York, from the field to the elite. Become the pride of other people's children, the hearts of parents.
There has never been a one-time success in this world, and some are more of the endless learning of picking up the lights and fighting at night, as well as the firm belief in not accepting defeat, and finally living into the envy of everyone, Sun Ling is like this.
If you don't chase some dreams, it will slowly decay in your body; if you chase some dreams, it will awaken the desires in the subconscious of the body, give you motivation, help you move forward, let you become a better self, live as you want!
Fate is in your own hands, as long as you firmly dream and continue to work hard in the direction of hope, then you can rewrite your life and harvest a different and beautiful ending.
You may not be born good, but your acquired efforts are visible to heaven; when you start to act, you have essentially won the majority.
02, people who never give up can create miracles
Giving up is easiest, but sticking to it must be cool!
Accidents and hardships are the norms of life, but different mentalities will create different endings.
A good mentality, no matter how difficult it is, can shine and make people admire; if the mentality is not good, it can be easily destroyed and decadent.
Those who can face life with the best mentality in any situation, they can always inadvertently create some surprising miracles!
Li Zhihua was born into a poor family in Inner Mongolia. I should have a different life, but accidents always come suddenly. She was just 100 days old when she lost her hands because of a fire in her home. Fortunately, she met her loving parents, and with their company and encouragement, she learned life skills such as drinking water with her feet, wearing needles and mending clothes, and cooking on a fire.
However, she was unable to attend school due to her physical disability. But she was eager to learn, the school did not allow her to enroll, she secretly listened to lectures outside the classroom window during the day, and came back at night to let her father tie a pencil between her toes to practice writing with her feet, and she had to practice the simplest circle for several days.
Finally, Li Zhihua impressed the teachers of the school with her persistence and never giving up, and specially approved her admission.
Li Zhihua cherished this enrollment opportunity very much, and in order not to drag her feet, she studied until 12 o'clock in the evening every day. In 1998, Li Zhihua successfully passed the key middle school with excellent results. However, at this time, her mother suddenly became seriously ill, and she had to use her feet during the day to fry medicine, feed medicine, cook for her mother, and read at night.
In this way, Li Zhihua relied on his own efforts and strength to enter the junior college from secondary school, then admitted to the undergraduate, and after graduation, he went to the School of Psychology of the Chinese Academy of Sciences to study for on-the-job graduate students.
During this period, because she has been creating miracles with her own feet, in addition to the support of well-wishers, she has also worked as a tutor, helped people make posters, and even worked as a typist to earn tuition for herself, never giving up self-reliance.
Now, Li Zhihua is the chairman of a decoration design company and an inspirational lecturer, giving more than 100 motivational speeches every year, inspiring and inspiring many people to work hard with her experience.
And in order to repay the society, she has been active in the nursing home and children's village for many years, helping poor students who are out of school, and raising funds for children with leukemia. After success, I have not forgotten my roots, and my charity has been practiced!
There is a saying in the Confucian Tao, "I don't have arms, so I cherish the world more than everyone else; I can't embrace it, so I want to protect the world more than everyone else." ”
Li Zhihua used her strong perseverance and the spirit of never giving up to create her miracle and ushered in her fruitful results; guarding more of the same people to overcome difficulties and find themselves.
She proved to us with her actions - my life is up to me!
A girl who has lost both arms and has achieved her transformation and goals by persevering without fear of hard work, what right do you have to stage complaints and decadence there?
All miracles rely on the light of life that the acquired man has continued to create after persistence.
Don't envy her achievements, because you can also write a new chapter of life for yourself and create your own miracle of life through the firm belief of never giving up.
03, do not attach to anyone, live as a light of your own
People are inert, but when they have dependence, they don't want to act again. Too many comfortable days, it is easy to live as a parasite.
Therefore, only those who always stick to themselves and do not rely on others to live can grasp the main control of life, face all gains and losses calmly, and maintain a calm and calm.
A popular TV series "The First Half of My Life" wrote the reality of life and marriage. A Luo Zijun who relies on her husband to live as a parasite, and a Tang Jing who strives for independence and autonomy by her own efforts; two different women form a sharp contrast.
There is a saying: "A woman's efforts are not to become a strong woman; but to be able to rely on people with peace of mind and to be wonderfully self-reliant." ”
Just like Tang Jing, the representative of independent women, she is in her 30s, lives seriously, and does not love the brain. She has a strong ability to work, and can arrange for herself to meet more than 20 clients a week; attitude determines the height, so she rises so high that she also has a place in the man's territory.
She said: "Women should maintain their independence, whether married or not, should not allow themselves to be overly dependent on others." ”
She said that she also did it, even if she broke up after a few years of fruitless love, Tang Jing did not let herself be immersed in sadness all the time, but chose to pick up her spirit to work and clean herself up more exquisitely.
No matter when, she will always be that confident and powerful Tang Jing. She was very tired at work, but she never stopped the pace of fitness; her figure was very good, but this was not innate, it was the refinement maintained by her self-discipline the day after tomorrow; life became a light of her own.
Women who do not accept defeat and are independent are the luckiest. Looking up has courage, bowing down has confidence, they have both the rivers and lakes that can be inhabited everywhere, and the courage to chase the wind and chase dreams.
Life doesn't have to be cool, but it's all about it, and there's only one kind of success in this world called: living your life the way you like.
For the rest of your life, please let life be more passionate and become your own sun, without relying on anyone's light!
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