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Ye Haiyang and daughter Doris
There is no love but want a family, skip marriage and directly have children, the CEO who is worth tens of millions of dollars spends 500,000 yuan to buy sperm, and finally gives birth to a daughter of mixed blood in five countries.
Now, years later, with the same method, the same person's sperm pregnant again, just to give her daughter a half-father and mother relative, how did she face the controversial behavior?
Is "mateless parenting" worth advocating? In the face of the reality of not having a father, how should she respond to her daughter's inquiries?
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The "tomboy" CEO who is worth tens of millions
In Changchun, Jilin in 1988, accompanied by a cry, Ye Haiyang descended on an ordinary rural household.
At that time, people were more or less a bit of a son-preference, Ye Haiyang's parents were no exception, they hoped to give birth to a son, in the future can contribute to the family that is not rich, but did not expect to give birth to a daughter.
At this point, parents have to accept reality, but for their daughters, they have always been raised as boys.
When other people's girls wear skirts and braids, Ye Haiyang has a refreshing short hair, and follows boys of the same age up the mountain and down the river to call brothers and brothers.
The poverty of the family did not make Ye Haiyang give up on herself, but inspired her to grow into an optimistic and cheerful, self-reliant and strong person, knowing that she had no talent for learning, Ye Haiyang dropped out of school early and went out to work.
Shortly after the financial crisis in 2008, the domestic economy was in a recovery stage, and Ye Haiyang, who was in his early 20s, resolutely chose to drift north.
Although he lived a frugal and two-point life every day, Ye Haiyang was not defeated by reality, and the dark and damp basement would not bury that ambitious heart.
When a busy day lies on the bed, looking at the dim light leaf ocean darkly determined, in the future must achieve wealth freedom, live the life of a rich man, do not have to worry about three meals a day, anything you want to buy can be pocketed.
By chance, Ye Haiyang unexpectedly found a business opportunity, that is, the cosmetics industry.
Everyone has a heart for beauty, and makeup is not only to please themselves, but also to build self-confidence.
Considering the huge base of Chinese, the future of the cosmetics industry must be bright, so it has become a fragrant food in the eyes of most people, and everyone wants to participate in a piece of the pie.
In Ye Haiyang's view, investing time and energy in an industry with bright future prospects is much better than working at two points and one line now.
When all was said and done, Ye Haiyang quit his original job and came to Guangzhou with a start-up fund given by his parents.
Started from scratch with the ambition of the Birds
At this time, the cosmetics industry has experienced a budding period, the initial period of industrialization, and is in a period of rapid development, although many people have caught up with the "outlet" to make a lot of money, but the overall situation has not reached a saturated state.
The major brands have done everything they can to meet the needs of consumers.
In such a fierce competition, Ye Haiyang, with his own efforts and amazing business talent, never had money and no power as a "migrant worker", and finally worked all the way to the position of CEO of the company.
Today, Ye Haiyang is not only the founder of DC Pharmacy, but also the chairman of Yifo Trading Co., Ltd., and his value has soared all the way to tens of millions.
Ye Haiyang was interviewed
The ambition of the birds in the basement of Beijing, after years of hard work, finally became a reality, but when Ye Haiyang stopped, she began to think about the purpose of such desperate work?
This year, Ye Haiyang was 28 years old, recalling the road he had traveled, he had obviously succeeded, and he had obviously reached a point that most people could not reach, but his heart always felt empty.
The mother's urging also kept ringing around Ye Haiyang's ears at this time, watching other people's parents hug their grandchildren and granddaughters, but their 28-year-old daughter was still alone, as a mother, she was anxious in her eyes.
Only then did Ye Haiyang understand that he should think about his future life, even if he earned more money, it would still be useless without the company of his family, after all, his parents could not be with him forever.
Over the years, Ye Haiyang has always focused on her career, even at the age of nearly 30, she still does not have a favorite opposite sex.
From entering the society to today's achievements, Ye Haiyang has never lacked excellent men around him, and when he gets along with them, Ye Haiyang treats them more as good friends and good buddies.
Every time her mother saw Ye Haiyang with a male friend, she always had to come forward to ask if he was her son-in-law, but in fact, the two were just ordinary good friends.
Unable to see her daughter's actual actions, her mother had to go out on the horse herself, and under her zhangluo, Ye Haiyang could only put down the work in her hand and keep kissing.
Due to the more neutral dress, coupled with the identity of the "older leftover woman", the men who came to the blind date were reluctant to have further development with Ye Haiyang, so for several months, no one could successfully enter her heart.
Spending every day under the nagging of his mother, Ye Haiyang suddenly had a bold idea - can he have children without getting married?
Smashed 500,000 heavy gold to buy sperm, gave birth to 5 mixed-race daughters
Her maverick personality made Ye Haiyang immediately take action, and in her spare time, she began to understand IVF technology.
As early as 1978, IVF technology caused a sensation in the global scientific community, and the first case of IVF was born in the United Kingdom on July 25 of the same year.
After years of development, the technology has also been relatively mature, and it is even possible to select the child's future skin color, hair color and pupil color.
Ye Haiyang did IVF
Various reasons have made Ye Haiyang more determined to be a single mother, after all, giving birth to a beautiful and intelligent child is the common wish of every mother, but for the sake of safety, Ye Haiyang still decided to go to the more technologically advanced United States to buy sperm and have children.
Painstakingly persuading his mother, in 2017, Ye Haiyang spent 500,000 yuan to buy the sperm of mixed blood in Four Countries, and then underwent surgery and successfully conceived a mixed baby, followed by the waiting for the pregnancy in October.
Full of excitement, Ye Haiyang was always ready to welcome the arrival of the pregnancy reaction, but perhaps because of the special physique, the pregnancy reaction has not appeared in her, but the prenatal depression has found the door.
Leaf ocean during pregnancy
Every time I went to the hospital for a maternity check-up, watching other couples come and go in pairs in the ward, the look of snuggling and happiness made Ye Haiyang very uncomfortable.
Coupled with the fact that during pregnancy, her weight suddenly soared to 186 pounds, Ye Haiyang became more and more inferior in her heart, and she began to doubt whether she could become a good mother. Can you successfully raise your child as an adult?
Looking at the tortured daughter, in addition to comforting, the mother can only pray silently in her heart, praying that the child will be born soon and must be healthy and healthy.
After 9 months, the girl named Doris was born smoothly, looking at the healthy and cute baby of the five countries, even if it was bitter and tired, Ye Haiyang felt that it was worth it.
Doris was born shortly after
It is said that the power of maternal love is great, and after the birth of the child, Ye Haiyang's personality has also undergone great changes, from a strong woman who is strong in everything to a gentle and intellectual mother.
At the same time, she also has a new goal of effort, that is, to devote all her time and energy to the growth of her children, and she is willing to give everything for her children.
When Doris was growing up, Ye Haiyang resolutely implemented elite education for his daughter, and the kindergarten with a tuition fee of up to 300,000 a year was reported, and various interest training classes were uninterrupted.
Leaf Ocean takes Doris on a cruise ship
As long as Doris has what she wants, Ye Haiyang will always use his own ways to buy it for her, no matter where Doris wants to go, Ye Haiyang will take advantage of his free time to take the girl to play in the mountains, appreciate the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and become a "daughter slave".
However, since the birth of Doris, Ye Haiyang has also faced various pressures from the outside world.
Insist on facing the doubts of the original heart, and the peak circuit turns to regenerate the second child
Some people think that such behavior is extremely irresponsible, that families without male participation are missing and incomplete, that children grow up without the company of their fathers, and that their minds in the future are doomed to be unsound.
In the face of all kinds of remarks, in fact, Ye Haiyang had expected that her behavior would not be recognized by everyone, just like when she was working alone, no one thought she would succeed.
Leaf Ocean and Doris
But as a result, she surprised everyone, from an ordinary low-level person to today.
In Ye Haiyang's eyes, she never felt that her behavior was selfish, spending a lot of money to buy sperm and give birth, pregnant with October difficult to give birth, Ye Haiyang did not disturb anyone in the society, in her own words, "closed the door to live her own life."
As a mother, she will try her best to give her child the maternal love she deserves, and at the same time give her father's love as much as possible, no matter where she is, Ye Haiyang will always be a solid backing for her daughter.
As her daughter grows older, when she sees the fathers of her peers, she will inevitably ask where her father is, and for this problem, Ye Haiyang knows that she will have to face it sooner or later.
As for the way to deal with it, she also thought about getting married, taking advantage of Doris's young age to find a nominal father for her, but if you think about it, the lie will always be exposed one day, and then it may cause secondary harm to her daughter.
In a small talk with a friend, Ye Haiyang suddenly came up with a very "low-level" lie - his daughter jumped out of the watermelon.
Most ignorant children will ask their parents where they came from in childhood, and parents will always tell their children a very strange reason, such as from the garbage dump, the door and so on.
Ye Haiyang is different, she specially bought two large watermelons, and then dug out the urn inside, put the child in, and finally recorded the photos with her mobile phone.
Doris's watermelon photo
When the child was a little older and asked where he came from, Ye Haiyang took out the photo and said, "You came from a watermelon." ”
Simple and low-level lies may be able to trick children for a while, but they can't deceive a lifetime, and when her daughter grows up and has some understanding of the world, she can understand Ye Haiyang's good intentions.
This will not hurt the child's mind, but it will be particularly interesting to recall.
In order to record the bits and pieces of his daughter's growth, Ye Haiyang often posts about his daughter's daily life on social platforms.
With a quirky personality, fair and delicate skin, Doris's appearance instantly captured a large number of fans.
Ye Haiyang with his mother, Doris
As the concept of "equality between men and women" has become deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, the people who once questioned Ye Haiyang seem to have disappeared without a trace, and have been replaced by more understanding and support.
People look at single mothers like Ye Haiyang as role models, believing that she is an independent woman in the true sense of the word, and it is not only men who can dominate the issue of reproductive rights.
As there were more and more similar voices, Ye Haiyang also considered that she could not accompany her children for a lifetime, so she decided to give her daughter Doris another relative.
In May 2021, Ye Haiyang posted a "Holy Will" on social platforms, saying that he had asked Doris for advice and decided to have another sister for his daughter.
Ye Haiyang's "Holy Will"
Also Doris's father, the same four-country mixed blood sperm, this time Ye Haiyang went to Russia for embryo transfer, and afterwards successfully conceived a second child, spending a total of more than 150,000 yuan before and after.
Even if the decision to have a second child is made, Ye Haiyang can still not be bound by the worldly idea of "having both children and daughters", but chooses to respect his daughter's idea, which has to be said to be really valuable.
Judging from the daily life shared by Ye Haiyang, this time her mentality seems to have a significant difference, and she is more relaxed than before.
Leaf Ocean during hospitalization
Even though pregnant, Ye Haiyang is still active on social platforms and can often be seen taking Doris on her life journey.
Even if Doris wanted a sailboat, Ye Haiyang personally conceived and drew a picture and built a sailboat for his daughter himself.
Leaf Ocean and Doris on a sailing boat
Just yesterday, that is, February 10, 2022, Ye Haiyang posted a video on the social platform again, and the second child who was pregnant in October was finally born, named Hatti, and the picture can be seen doris holding her newborn sister with great love.
2 5-nation mixed-race babies, the future can be expected
I believe that in the days to come, Doris and Hatti can grow up healthily in the company of Ye Haiyang, and in Ye Haiyang's life plan, she hopes that her daughters will be able to study abroad in the future.
While growing up healthily, establish the correct three views, not to speak ill of others because of skin color, and learn to respect the culture and customs of each country and place.
Doris and Hatti
Loving nature and fearing life, she hopes that her daughters will know that not every creature can be taken to taste the early.
Ben is an ordinary woman, but with her own efforts to achieve class leaps, starting from scratch not only allows Ye Haiyang to harvest money, but more importantly, harvest a spirit of daring to fight and dare to surpass.
It is precisely for this reason that in the face of many doubting voices from the outside world, she is strong enough in her heart to still be able to unswervingly go on.
Doris and Leaf Ocean
In reality, how many families frequently clashed because of trivial matters in a place, but Ye Haiyang did not have such troubles.
With his own strength, to create a worry-free life and a good education for his children, without having to face the war between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the contradictions between husband and wife, and to accompany his children to grow up happily in a harmonious environment, Ye Haiyang has become the most envied appearance of most married women.
Ye Haiyang and mother, Doris
epilogue
As for the father of the child, Ye Haiyang always believes that since he can give birth to the child with the body of the mother, he will certainly be able to use the identity of the father to give the child the fatherly love he deserves in the future.
Of course, such behavior varies from person to person, falling in love at the age of love, marrying at the age of marriage, having children happily after marriage, and working together to raise children, which is the happy life of most ordinary women.