If you are comfortable chatting with a person, it does not mean that he is your confidant, it is likely that he is just backwards compatible with you; his emotional intelligence, knowledge, and pattern are far more than you, so

If you are comfortable chatting with a person, it does not mean that he is your confidant, it is likely that he is just backwards compatible with you;

His emotional intelligence, knowledge, and pattern are far more than you, so what you say, he can catch, your feelings, he can also empathize.

If he says something, you will feel very much at the same frequency as you, feel that he can speak deep inside you, don't get into it too quickly, don't think he's special.

It's quite possible that he's just saying the usual things and doing what he normally does, but you haven't met anyone in your circle who is as good as him.

The person he can talk to, you may be one, not the only one