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"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

Du Xudong is a "villain professional", and the appearance of "crooked mouth" will be vividly interpreted.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

He has participated in wonderful works such as "Divine Doctor Xilaile", "Big Mansion Gate", "Sibao Linjiang", "Have Something to Say" and is one of the "Top Ten Actors" in the national TV series.

Maybe he has played too many bad guys and is often called "bad guys".

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

However, in real life, Du Xudong has good intentions and is a "great filial piety".

His mother died, and he asked his father to remarry.

When his father died, he made his stepmother dependent on the elderly, and he also let the mother-in-law who had lost her husband's illness have a dependence.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother
"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

Du Xudong, born in Beijing in 1956, grew up in Hebei, the eldest son of the family, and two younger brothers.

When he was a child, he was very naughty, did not walk well down the stairs, fell from the 2nd floor, and fell unconscious on the spot.

His parents quickly sent him to the hospital for treatment, fortunately, he was sent in time and there was no danger to his life.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

He was in a coma for three days and three nights before he woke up, and although his body was getting better, he had sequelae and crooked mouth.

Du Xudong did not feel inferior because of this, he loved art and was full of confidence every time he sang.

At the age of 12, Du Xudong was sent by his parents to the Hebei Zizi Theater Troupe to learn qu art. At the age of 16, he became a literary and artistic soldier with the help of tongzigong.

After changing careers, he entered the Haizheng Repertory Theatre as an actor and entered the show business circle by chance.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

Since 1989, Du Xudong has participated in countless classic works and become a "golden supporting role".

He came to Beijing from Hebei to develop, and his parents were very supportive of his son's career.

As he became more and more busy, he had little time to go home, but every year he had to spend the Spring Festival at home with his parents.

The family sat happily at the table and ate a reunion dinner, the picture was very beautiful, and soon this picture was broken.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother
"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

In 1999, Du Xudong's parents had retired and enjoyed the joy of heaven in their hometown, and a disaster came, separating the couple from yin and yang.

Du Xudong's mother suddenly suffered a cerebral hemorrhage, and the rescue was ineffective and died. Before leaving, she said to the children:

The most reassuring thing for me is your father, who must be happy in his old age.

His father was devastated, unable to accept his wife's death, and had lost his head the night before.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

After the death of his wife, Du Xudong's father became a non-talkative person, often sitting alone in a chair in a daze.

Once Du Xudong went home to visit his father and found that his father was completely old and very lonely.

He couldn't bear to leave his father alone at home, and he decided to let his father live with him, but his father explicitly refused.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

Du Xudong had no way to take his father, and thinking of a countermeasure, he said to his father:

You're not going to Beijing to live with me, you're going to live with your brother, or you're going to find a wife.

Father said: I am so old, I don't want to cause you trouble, I can take care of myself.

Du Xudong insisted on letting his father make a choice, and when he saw that his son did not let go, his father whispered: Find me a wife.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

He hurried to give his father a blind date, and was introduced to Wu Xinju. She was 16 years younger than Du Xudong's father, only 53 years old, and was widowed at an early age.

Wu Xinju was a kind and virtuous woman who made a good impression on Du Xudong's father.

After the first meeting, the two met several times and felt good, and they decided to re-establish the family and put the marriage on the agenda.

When he told the child the news, Du Xudong was very happy, but was opposed by his brother.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

The younger brother thinks that his father is so old, and finding such a young object is to seek his property, not really being together, and increasing our burden.

Du Xudong knew that his brothers were worried and said, "The position of mother in our hearts is irreplaceable. But have you forgotten your mother's instructions, she wants her father to be happy?

Since the death of my mother, you know better than us how my father is, and during this time with Aunt Wu Xinju, the whole person has been in a new state.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

Father has someone to take care of, and we are also at ease. Aunt Wu Xinju we all know, people are very good, have a kind heart, and our father is sincere. ”

When the younger brother saw his brother say this, he nodded and did not speak.

In 2000, Du Xudong gave his father and Aunt Wu Xinju a simple wedding ceremony, which meant passing through the door.

On the wedding day, Du Xudong took his brothers in front of his family.

He changed his name to Wu Xinju "Mom" and said, "Since then we have been a family."

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

But did the younger brother really accept the aunt?

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

Since Wu Xinju passed the door, Du Xudong returned to his home in Beijing and went home to see when he had time.

His younger brother ran home at both ends of the three days, afraid that his father would be fascinated by Wu Xinju's ghost, and took money to subsidize his aunt's children.

The younger brother secretly instructed his father: Don't give money to your aunt, you must look after it, and the family's expenses must be checked.

The younger brother told Aunt Wu to keep accounts and would check it from time to time.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

She has been doing her best to take care of her father Du Xingcai and take good care of this home, but she did not expect her children to do this to her.

Wu Xinju hoped that Du Xing could discipline the two sons, but the son said: You should intervene less in our family's affairs.

Upon hearing this sentence, his father Du Xingcai was not happy, and he was angry and said to his son: How aunt Wu is an outsider.

Although the father lost his temper, the two sons did not completely take it, and they blamed all this on Wu Xinju.

Du Xudong was completely in the dark when his brother did all this, and he didn't find out until 2003.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

On that day, Wu Xinju was ill and did not have the strength to cook and clean, so Du Xingcai called his two sons and asked them to send his aunt to the hospital.

As a result, the son refused: it was not our mother, why let us take care of it, and she was not childless.

Just as Wu Xinju heard their conversation, every word stung her heart. Call your child with the last of your strength and ask them to take them to the hospital.

After being discharged from the hospital, Wu Xinju did not want to stay in this home and returned to her own son. After all, du Xingcai and Du Xingcai are legal couples, and it is impossible for him to be uninhabited in poor health.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

Wu Xinju went to take care of him during the day and went home at night.

When Du Xudong went home to visit his stepmother and father, he found that after dinner, Wu Xinju packed up his things and went outside.

He said:

Mom, what are you doing?

The stepmother did not speak, but she shed tears.

Father said: I have separated from your aunt, and my two younger brothers often look for trouble with her, so she will go back to her house at night.

Du Xudong was very angry and told Wu Xinju:

Mom, you will live in the future, don't go anywhere.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

He then called his brothers and told them to hurry back.

Du Xudong first counted his brother down, aren't you afraid of being poked in the spine by others? When you are old, and your son does this to you, do you feel good in your heart?

The younger brother retorted: It's not for our father's good.

Du Xudong said: Is this for your father's good? You are adding to the father's confusion. Aunt Wu married into our family, how much she paid for our family, how good it was for our father, don't you see it in your eyes.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

The brothers did not speak.

The next day, Du Xudong took his brother to Wu Xinju's home to pick her up and set off firecrackers.

He wanted to tell everyone that Wu Xinju was part of this family, and also told my brother that she was our mother, and Wu Xinju was very moved.

After that, the younger brother never "bullied" Wu Xinju again.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

In 2005, Du Xudong was already in the entertainment industry, and when he got a foothold in Beijing, he wanted to take his father and stepmother over to live together.

Du Xudong said: Mommy and Dad, you have lived in this small place for many years, follow me to Beijing to see.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

The father and stepmother also yearn for Beijing, but they are afraid of causing trouble for their son, saying: It is enough for you to have this filial piety, and it is already very happy to see us every year.

After du xudong's repeated persuasion, his father and stepmother agreed to move to Beijing to live together.

A total of three bedrooms and a living room house, Du Xudong will light the best one bedroom, vacated for them to live.

Usually, when they go out to shoot movies, their father and stepmother will help them clean up the house and clean up.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

The father and stepmother try not to cause trouble for the son because he still has a mother-in-law to take care of.

After Du Xudong's mother-in-law lost her husband, she suffered from dementia in her hometown, and he took care of it when he was not busy at work.

Once, when his mother-in-law was sick and vomited, Du Xudong carried his mother-in-law to the hospital and got him all right, without any complaints.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

Sometimes Du Xudong took his mother-in-law to his side and lived with his father and stepmother.

However, one did not look at it, the mother-in-law was lost, and the whole family searched for a long time to find it.

The father and stepmother found that it was not easy for Du Xudong to take care of his mother-in-law, and they could not add to the chaos of their son, so they planned to return to their hometown.

Du Xudong wanted to refuse, but his father and stepmother insisted on leaving, so they sent them back.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

So he decided to go home every month to visit his father and stepmother, year after year, and buy something for them to bring back.

The stepmother and father are at home, there is no shortage of food and clothing, never willing to buy valuables for themselves, and the son is not willing to use them when they buy them back.

Du Xudong said:

Mom, give you money, buy you something, you can use it, don't save us money. You and your father are healthy and our greatest wish.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

The stepmother's eyes were moist when she heard this: It is a blessing for her to meet a son like you in her later years.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

In 2007, Wu Xinju heard that an old man had died, and his wife, who was halfway married to him, was kicked out of the house by her stepdaughter.

She was shocked and afraid that after Du Xingcai's death, she would be treated like this.

For the sake of her old age, Wu Xinju began to secretly save money, without telling her wife or her stepson.

One day, Duxing found out about this matter and had a big fight with her, and from the beginning to the end she did not say the reason for saving the money.

"Great Filial Piety" Du Xudong: Let the widowed stepmother have an old dependence, you are still my mother

Du Xingcai thought that Wu Xinju had other thoughts about himself and decided to divorce her. Du Xudong's two younger brothers were very happy and supported their father.

Du Xudong, who was far away in Beijing, knew about this, hurried home, and patiently asked his stepmother: Why did you do this? Do we have a place that we don't take good care of?

The stepmother said with tears in her eyes: You are very good to me, and the reasons are told truthfully. It turned out that I was afraid that I would not be able to rely on it when I was old.

Mom, you can rest assured, I will definitely take care of you, if dad leaves early, I will also take care of you, you are still our mother, should be pensioned, filial piety and filial piety.

Wu Xinju was very touched that it was a blessing to meet such a stepson, which was cultivated in the previous life, and felt remorseful for having such an idea.

And Du Xudong also realized that he usually did not give his stepmother substantial protection.

The next day, he summoned Wu Xinju's biological children and gathered at home for a simple meeting.

Du Xudong proposed:

We have to give our parents protection, especially stepmother Wu Xinju. I want to set up a "Healthy Pension Fund" for my mom.

We put money into it according to our own conditions, and this money can only be used for the mother's pension, and no one can move.

Other siblings have supported.

Whether it is Du Xudong or other children, they will do a filial piety for their mother, and they will take out a part of the funds every month.

Stepmother Wu Xinju was moved to tears, and remarriage to Du Xudong's father was the right decision.

Before 2012, Du Xudong's father fell ill, and Wu Xinju was around day and night to take care of him.

It was the eve of the Spring Festival, and Du Xudong was busy at work and needed to be in Beijing and could not return to Hebei.

As long as he had time, he would drive more than a hundred kilometers and go home to accompany his father.

When he was busy, he was also very concerned about his father's health, and often asked his stepmother about his father.

However, three or four days before the Spring Festival, Du Xudong was accompanying his father and received a call from the troupe to go back to the performance.

Before leaving, my father and Du Xudong talked a lot together. He felt that his father was in good health and said:

I will definitely be able to come back before Chinese New Year's Eve.

Unfortunately, Du Xudong's father could not wait for him to return.

On the twenty-ninth day of the New Year, Du Xudong's father suddenly lost his health.

The family rushed to the hospital to take his father, but could not rescue him.

Du Xudong, who was working, received a call from his brother and heard that his father was gone. I put down my work and rushed home, but I still couldn't see my father for the last time.

When he got home, his father was already lying in the crystal coffin. He fell to his knees and cried so much that he could not extricate himself.

While cleaning up his father's belongings, he found a pictorial newspaper under his father's pillow that collected Du Xudong's publication.

It turned out that when his father could not persist, he read his son's pictorial newspaper, and his father's death became a regret in Du Xudong's life.

After the death of his father, Du Xudong did what he said, let his stepmother rely on the elderly, and treated like a biological mother.

He still pays his stepmother living expenses, and every month he still drives from Beijing to Hebei to visit her stepmother.

Du Xudong could not bear to let his stepmother rent a house, so he took money to buy a house for his stepmother and retire in it.

Each time his stepmother told him that he had money to spend and that he didn't have to do it.

Since you married my father, we have been a family, you have taken good care of my father, I should give you a pension.

The stepmother also treated him like a biological son, often showing off to the neighbors that she had such a good son.

Du Xudong is not only a good actor, but also a big filial piety.

In his view, filial piety is the basis of being a human being, whether it is for the biological parents or the stepmother, filial piety has been put first.

It was Du Xudong who treated his father and stepmother in this way, in exchange for his daughter's filial piety.

As the saying goes: only filial piety to parents can relieve worries!

Transferred from: Su Zihe

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