Regarding life, love is a mood, marriage is a process, and family is an ending. The unfettered mood is always beautiful and pleasant, and the freedom to do as one pleases is always in a passionate fantasy, beating the beat of youth, and making oneself different everywhere.
Instead, it is not love that makes people married, but time. We can't afford to waste time in life, compromised by all kinds of care and expectations, love and non-love are just illusory hopes in words. Marriage is largely proof that we are physically free of defects, and having children is the most powerful proof, otherwise the sneering eyes make you feel like a Martian, no matter how long your ML time lasts 1 hour or more. However, having a child like a father is genetically having a child like a neighbor is a matter of the environment, let Darwin examine it.
The family needs to be understood and respected. The gap between reality and ideals can never be narrowed, and when the ideal becomes an unattainable moment, the indispensable feeling of loss in the heart will be generated, coupled with the unsatisfactory nature of real life, the idea of rebellion will be deeply rooted. This process is the most provocative pole. When the indispensable edges and corners will become smooth with the run-in, when everything returns to nature, the love melts into affection, and it is in a stable, boring and dull time, this is the family.
Either way, as long as there is breathing, life will continue. Time is beating, life is moving, ideals are moving, and everything is an empty process.
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