Despite her family's obstruction, the Jiangsu woman married her 40-year-old terminally ill boyfriend, who died 17 days later and left three words
I make a wish to Dusk, and I hope you will stay with me forever!
On February 14, 2014, Valentine's Day, the streets of Lanxi, Zhejiang Province, were full of couples, arm in arm, with each other's eyes in their eyes.
At the same time, the second ward of the Second People's Hospital of Lanxi City was full of people, roughly estimated to be two or three hundred.
The person who happened to pass by did not realize it and then asked, "What is this doing?"
Someone replied: "There is a wedding going on, it is a special wedding".
As soon as the words fell, people saw the bride in the wedding dress coming out of the room, the bride looked sweet, and looked particularly young and beautiful against the background of the white dress.
Soon the bridegroom also came out, dressed in a black suit with black-rimmed glasses and a haggard face on his head.
In the presence of the crowd, the two sides swore an oath to each other, and the groom said: "Today I am very happy, it is the most special day of my life, I love you"!
The bride choked up and said, "No matter how many difficulties and obstacles there are in the future, I will accompany you"!
Those present shed tears, and they all said that "it is not easy."
How do the bride and groom meet?
Why is this a special wedding?
Let's step into today's story and explore this love that spans life and death.
A Bridge of Fate:
The bride, gao min, was born in 1973 in Taicang, Jiangsu Province, and went to the society when she was young, and on the way to work, she combined a man, and the two gave birth to a child.
However, as soon as the child landed, the husband disappeared.
The world's prejudices weigh on this single mother like a mountain, and over the years she has suffered from the strange eyes and gossip of others.
She gradually lost hope in love and was in a state of extreme pessimism for a long time.
In 2012, she was 39 years old, the child was 5 years old, and she knew the harm of gossip, so she didn't want her child to continue to bear this pressure.
So she was ready to remarry, and she fell into a long wait after registering her personal information on a dating site.
However, for Gao Min, she did not have much hope, after all, she was almost forty years old and had a five-year-old child, and no one was willing to accept this marriage.
A month later, just as Gao Min lost hope, a friend application popped up on the mobile phone page.
The message column reads" "My name is Yao Wangzhou, and I saw your information through the dating website."
Gao Min immediately agreed to the friend application, and after a brief exchange of contact information, the two exchanged contact information.
Because of the divorce with the baby, Gao Min's personality has changed from the original optimistic and cheerful to the current depressed, and he does not have much interest in fresh people and things.
In this way, Yao Wangzhou and Gao Min just sent messages and nagged each other about things in life.
But "no matter how big the iceberg can't withstand the roasting of the flames", Yao Wangzhou is a warm-hearted person, after learning that Gao Min is a single mother, he constantly channeled and encouraged Gao Min, and over time, Gao Min was touched by Yao Wangzhou's enthusiasm.
She began to take the initiative to contact Yao Wangzhou to share some interesting things about life.
Just as the relationship between the two gradually warmed up, things changed.
After June 21, 2013, Gao Min lost information about Yao Wangzhou.
At first, she persuaded herself that she should think that the other party was too busy, so let's wait.
However, this wait was more than ten days, and finally she decided to personally look for Yao Wangzhou.
Through the information on the dating website, she learned that Yao Wangzhou was a native of Jinhua, Zhejiang, so she settled her child with relatives and immediately took a train to Jinhua.
When she arrived in Jinhua, she began to inquire about Yao Wangzhou's news, and the kung fu paid off, and through several days of hard work, she finally learned that Yao Wangzhou was suffering from leukemia and was receiving treatment at Lanxi Hospital.
After arriving at Lanxi Hospital, she found Yao Wangzhou's ward.
After pushing open the door and seeing the scene in front of him, Gao Min's eye sockets were immediately moist.
Yao Wangzhou was lying on a hospital bed, wearing a ventilator, and his face was slightly yellow and haggard.
Most people will choose to back off when they see this scene, but Gao Min did not have the courage to go forward and choke up and say: "Yao Wangzhou, don't you want to marry me?"
After hearing this, Yao Wangzhou lowered his head and fell into contemplation.
Love across the mountains and seas, mountains and seas can be flat:
From that day on, Gao Min stayed in the hospital to take care of Yao Wangzhou the rest of the time, except for returning to his hometown to visit his five-year-old child.
During the day, Gao Min would eat with Yao Wangzhou, help him go to the toilet and wipe his body, and at night, Gao Min would look at the stars with him and tell stories.
The patient next to the hospital bed will joke a few words from time to time, "Your daughter-in-law is really good to you", after learning that Gao Min is a netizen known by Yao Wangzhou on the Internet, the patient said: "Such a woman can't repair her blessings for eight lifetimes, so she quickly married it."
Gao Min originally thought that through his careful care, Yao Wangzhou's body could gradually improve, but the reality was diametrically opposite.
Under the torment of illness, Yao Wangzhou's body was not as good as a day, and a big man of one meter and seven pounds weighed less than a hundred pounds.
However, even in the face of such a situation, Gao Min still took care of Yao Wangzhou as always, as in the past, massage, wipe his body and so on.
Gao Min's behavior Yao Wangzhou saw in his eyes, he did not want to delay a Gao Min's future because of his own physical reasons, so he said the sentence "Let's break up" one night!
After hearing Yao Wangzhou's words, Gao Min was stunned for a while and did not know how to answer.
At this time, her heart is full of mixed feelings, looking back on the past bits and pieces, she found that she has fallen deeply in love with this man, she is not willing to back down, and wants to accompany Yao Wangzhou to face hardships.
After a long time, Gao Min replied simply: "I will go back to my hometown, you must wait for me."
As soon as her eyes turned, Gao Min had returned to Taicang, Jiangsu Province, and she was discussing something with her parents.
"Mom and Dad, I met a good man and I want to marry him".
Parents think it's a good thing when they hear it, and it's better for the daughter to divorce and have a man to take care of her.
So the father asked, "How old is this man, where is he..."?
Gao Min responded one by one, and just when his father was happy, Gao Min said: "My boyfriend has leukemia."
After hearing this, the parents immediately exploded, they resolutely opposed the marriage, and the father said even angrily: "If you marry this man, don't go back to this house."
As soon as the words stopped, Gao Min walked out of the house.
At this time, Gao Min only wanted to hurry back to Jinhua to see Yao Wangzhou, because she was worried that once she went late, Yao Wangzhou would die.
Fortunately, after Gao Min came to the hospital, she found Yao Wangzhou still lying on the hospital bed, and she shouted excitedly: "Yao Wangzhou, let's get married, I will accompany you in the future days."
Yao Wangzhou once again fell into contemplation after hearing this, saying that "if my health improves, we will both get married."
Gao Min nodded silently, indicating acquiescence.
During the Spring Festival in 2014, Gao Min took his five-year-old child to Taicang and accompanied Yao Wangzhou for the Spring Festival.
Romantic Tragedy:
On January 18, 2014, the hospital issued a critical illness notice to Yao Wangzhou.
Yao Wangzhou knew that he did not have much time to live, and he wanted to leave a little thought for Gao Min before he died to fulfill her wish, so he called Gao Min over and said, "Let's get married twice."
After hearing this sentence, Gao Min said with tears in his eyes: "Do you know how long I have been waiting for this sentence?"
In this way, the two completed this simple marriage proposal ceremony without a word.
February 14 is a memorable day, valentine's day Gao Min and Yao Wangzhou are preparing to get married in the hospital.
After learning of the story of the two people, a jinhua studio promised to decorate the wedding scene for the two of them for free.
With the help of all walks of life, Yao Wangzhou and Gao Min's wedding began.
The second ward of Lanxi People's Hospital gathered two or three hundred people, who were full of expectations and waited for the beautiful appearance of the bride and groom.
Along with the wedding march, Yao Wangzhou wore a black suit, sunglasses, and slowly came to the center of the stage in a wheelchair, and Gao Min wore a snow white dress, following Yao Wangzhou's steps.
The two read their vows to each other and, in the presence of the crowd, exchanged diamond rings.
When Yao Wangzhou and Gao Min kissed together, the atmosphere at the scene reached its peak.
Many patients were left with tears of excitement, and they said that "it is not easy for these two people to come together."
It is worth noting that Gao Min's parents, who had previously tried to stop Gao Min, were touched by the true feelings of the two and also came to the wedding scene.
After marriage, Gao Min took care of Yao Wangzhou's three meals a day and lived as usual.
However, this ordinary life lasted only 17 days.
On February 28, a series of complications such as leukemia caused Yao Wangzhou to be unable to breathe normally, and he was sent to the intensive care unit of the ICU, and on March 1, Yao Wangzhou completely fell into a coma.
At 7:50 a.m. the next morning, Yao Wangzhou's heart stopped beating, and his life came to an end.
Outside the ward, Gao Min choked and shouted, "Yao Wangzhou, you are definitely not dead, you respond to me."
But she could no longer wait for Yao Wangzhou's response, and at 7:50 a.m. on March 2, 2014, death took Yao Wangzhou's life.
Afterwards, while sorting out Yao Wangzhou's relics, Gao Min found a notebook.
The notebook wrote down the whole process of the two people from acquaintance, acquaintance, and love, and wrote the three words "I love you" on the last page.
It's simple, but it's true.
Time flies, in 2021, when Gao Min was asked in an interview with reporters whether he would remarry, Gao Min shook his head and said slowly: "There is no such plan at present."
Today, she is still alone with her children, who are 14 years old and have a good academic performance.
Mr. Lao She said: "Once upon a time, there was no rouge, a woman's face was only red for the lover, and a woman's blush was better than a large section of dialogue."
Looking back at the time when Gao Min and Yao Wangzhou were together, her blushing face was perhaps known only to Yao Wangzhou.