If there are parents of children in the family, it is only natural to go back to see the children, to see the parents, and there is no need to think about it so much.
For no particular reason, I would suggest better not to go home for the following reasons:
1. It's too cold at home
After working for several years, I have adapted to the weather in Guangdong, and I can't stand the cold when I return to Henan, and I feel cold no matter how thick I wear.
2. The cost is too heavy
Visiting relatives and friends, the cost of contacting feelings is too heavy, and the New Year gifts are more generous.
When you see a child, you have to wrap a red envelope, get together to eat and drink, it costs money, some also have to give gifts, relatives and friends are more, and naturally it costs more.
And the part-time job a year to eat and drink, the rest of the money is not much, go back to a trip all spent, and have to start from scratch.
3. Wasted time
The people in the hometown have nothing to do, they all stand on the road on the edge of the village and chat, talk about the family, and make some jokes.
Pure passing of time, nothing to do, wasted precious time.
Of course, returning to your hometown also has advantages:
1. Exercise communication skills
In the hometown, I often see neighbors, villagers and relatives, and there are more places to communicate.
Meeting and greeting, finding topics to ask about things, visiting relatives during the festival, and exercising interpersonal skills.
This communication needs to be used in many ways, such as work, socializing, playing, and people who can talk will have a better life.
The people who work outside are all people from various provinces, no one knows anyone, and the human touch is relatively weak.
Just like I was in the neighborhood, 3 neighbors on the door, 2 never spoke, only know what they look like.
2. Enhanced self-control
Relatives to see friends naturally have to eat and drink, courtesy to make the wine appear affectionate, let the more powerful the more intimate.
At this time, the self-control is tested, and if you drink in moderation, don't drink any more.
Drinking too much makes it uncomfortable for himself, and he is drunk and foreign.
3. The family is more powerful and pays attention to money
People in their hometown will ask what kind of work they are doing when they come home, and have they earned any money?
People do work harder, although not as many opportunities as outside, but they also try their best to find work to earn money.
There is no rest all year round, which is worth learning.
Second, do you want to drive home for the New Year?
If you don't get stuck in traffic, the total mileage home is 1300 kilometers, it takes 16 hours to drive, and you have a 2-hour break in the middle, and the overall feeling is OK, not too tired.
It will be more convenient to have a car at home, and it will be more convenient to go away when visiting relatives and friends.
If there is a traffic jam, especially on the day and the last day of the free high-speed fee, people are in a hurry to go home, the road will be very congested, 15 hours of driving, hard to drive to 42 hours.
Therefore, it is necessary to go home two days in advance before the restriction of the highway, or to postpone the return of the home for two days after the exemption of the highway
On the day of the highway- free, it will be more congested, and the next day will be better, and you can choose to go at this time.
The last day of the free high-speed is more congested, and it is better to go one day in advance.
Like the first six nights after 12 o'clock in the evening, the highway is not inevitable, a day in advance, in the morning of the 5th, the road is not very congested.
Leave on the afternoon of the 5th and wait for the traffic jam!
Also note the following:
1. Pay attention to rest, never sleep.
Car accidents happen within a few seconds, and it is better to slow down than to drive fatigued.
I was also sleepy in the middle of the way, and I didn't drive reluctantly, just stopped and rested for an hour, and then continued to drive.
After all, in order to catch up with those few hours, compared with the time of the second half of life, it is still a big loss.
Save the songs in advance, put some of your favorite playlists on the road, and sing along.
Singing and singing will become more and more spiritual, feel like a song god, walking KTV!
2. Don't take the provincial road
When you are stuck in traffic at high speed, sometimes you will be blocked for 1 hour, and you will not be able to love it.
You may take another shortcut and take the provincial highway at high speed.
Do not take the provincial road, the personal experience of the old driver tells you that the provincial road is more congested and more likely to have accidents.
There are a lot of vehicles with the same idea as you, thinking that the provincial road will not be so congested, and then you will see a big convoy, where to go to the blockage.
After walking on the provincial road for 8 hours, I saw all kinds of broken cars on the road, some rushing onto the flower beds, some overturning the manhole cover tires and falling into them, some falling into the ditch, some rear-ending...
High-speed traffic police dredging vehicles, provincial roads are not, traffic police can not arrive in time, driving is more crowded, two lanes can go into four lanes, the opposite lane is also occupied, blocked is to cry without tears.
3. Drink less water and eat salty food
Needless to say, it is inconvenient to drink more water to go to the toilet, and the service station cannot enter at all when the traffic jam is on the highway, and it is to go to the toilet or refuel to rest.
You can also prepare a bag or bottle yourself, emergency backup.
Prepare some salty snacks or eat, and those who eat something salty will have the strength to drive.
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