I live in the east side of the city, opposite a five-small one. The student I used to bring, he came to me as a parent and said I was retired, he sent me his daughter from school opposite me, ate at noon, ate in the evening, went back after finishing his homework, and we lived upstairs.
Who knew that there were more than 20 students coming at once, and my space and energy were limited in my house, and finally all of them were rejected. In fact, to tell you the truth, I am not the most perfect, at least English is not the most professional.
No matter how capable a person is, it is always better than a team. This year, I was invited to cooperate with a custodian institution in the city center (hereinafter referred to as Mr. Chen), who also has five primary school students.
Educational reform, suspension of training institutions. Five or so suddenly mushroomed, three hosting centers popped up, my teacher Chen far lost the advantage of competition, and the existing students could not afford the cost of the school bus. Only the original five elementary school students can be abandoned.
There I went to dock with the custody agency near the five small (referred to as Teacher Li), I took the child I made the decision, at that time I gave It to Teacher Li, negotiated the most preferential price and service quality, informed the parents, and explained to the parents clearly, I do not want your child, but because the teacher Chen where I am now is too far away from the five small, with the school bus transfer in the car delay time, several times a day, it is not safe.
After my repeated explanations, the parents finally reluctantly agreed.
Parents can come to Teacher Li immediately, in front of me, they talk thoroughly and explain clearly. I withdrew completely.
I left a way for them to communicate with each other when they couldn't come, and I opened the phone, left it hands-free, and let the parents and Teacher Li talk until they were satisfied with each other.
I spoke to Teacher Chen again and asked her if the original five children were also handed over in this way, and she said that she didn't need me to take care of it. I'd love to worry about it! But herein lies the problem.
On September 1 (that is, yesterday), the child officially went to class, and at noon he needed to be picked up and dropped off at the custodian institution.
Who knew that it was almost 11 o'clock yesterday, and Teacher Chen let her children arrange. I was angry, but did it anyway.
In the end, I finally communicated with Teacher Li and received a message confirmed by Teacher Li. This was a relief.
Wanwan did not expect that at 4 o'clock in the afternoon, Teacher Chen called to say that his student Wang Shuai's (virtual) mother called and said that the child had waited at the bus stop to pick up his teacher at noon.
Let me call Wang Shuai's mother and reassure her that Wang Shuai's mother is about to collapse, and she can't solve this matter anymore.
I called Wang Shuai's mother, and there was a roaring sound, and I scolded with my head covered. In fact, I was a mother, a student who had just entered the second grade, and waited at the bus stop for a noon, and the mood was understandable.
I never spoke, quietly listening to her complain, vent, complain. When her mood subsided, I sincerely said to her: I'm sorry.
She rushed back from the provincial capital and went to Teacher Li to ask for explanations. Teacher Li dodged and let his subordinates receive him. Shouted me over again.
I first apologized to Wang Shuai's mother in person, thinking that I was relieved to entrust this matter to Teacher Li, who knew that this incident was caused by my failure to follow up further.
Second, I also praised the good son educated by Wang Shuai's mother, obedient and obedient, did not run around, what if the child was lost?
Third, I told Wang Shuai's mother that this is also a good thing, teaching us how to educate our children, when there is an accident, the correct solution.
Fourth, the child (the child was picked up by a friend and said that everything was normal) is now fine, not hurt and hit, and don't mention it again. Don't leave any bad influence on your child's heart.
I said again, you haven't seen the child yet, go back and see if there's anything in contact with me. Only to send her away.
Lessons from this incident:
1. I only arranged, and there was no assessment result, the reason is me.
2. Teacher Chen procrastinates and solves it early, and there will be no accidents.
3. Teacher Li does not have a strong sense of responsibility, does not receive children, does not communicate with parents, and does not communicate with our counterparts, and has the greatest responsibility.
Description: Education requires patience, care, and care. Which point is not in place, it may poke out a big hole. Pay more attention in the future!