<h1>A normal, healthy person must have seven passions and six desires, which is normal. The key lies in how to control yourself strictly, not to be emotionally flooded and greedy. After all, we are human beings, and if we are human beings, we must have the ability to control ourselves and the perseverance to self-discipline, and we must follow the rules. Man, unlike birds and animals, is a high-class animal, educated, must have moral concepts, must follow public morality and good customs, must have a sense of reverence, and cannot do what he wants and cross the red line of the law! You can enjoy noble sentiments and don't pursue low-level fun. We must always keep our responsibilities and responsibilities in mind, and put loyalty and goodness into words and deeds. Otherwise, what is the difference with livestock? Not even as good as a beast! </h1>
Once, when buying vegetables at a nearby farmers' market, because there were too many people, he accidentally touched her, and immediately smiled at her and apologized: "I'm sorry, I'm sorry"! "It doesn't matter"! She replied with a friendly smile. If they had gone their separate ways like this, there would have been nothing that would have happened later, but...
No coincidence, no book, no chance to meet!
A little thing, an apology, civilization made both sides very friendly to resolve the embarrassment, see that it is all right, is going to continue to buy the required fruits and vegetables.
"Whew! uncle! Is it you!? How can you also buy vegetables here? Does your family live nearby? She looked at me in amazement and let out a series of curious questions. I looked at her carefully, without the slightest impression, not at all. "Beauty, did you recognize the wrong person?" It's as if I've never seen you before, where have we seen you before? How else would they know me"? Hearing me say this, she felt a little embarrassed, her face seemed to be red like a fever, and she looked at me again and said, "Yes! "Uncle! Is your name Wang Fafu? The hometown is xiantang huajiang"? "Yes! You are? "I felt very strange, a little confused, like the golden steel of Zhang'er, one by one, I can't figure it out." My name is Hu Xiuping, and I am the daughter of Hu Weijun." "Oh, your dad is a substitute teacher in the village, when I worked in the village, I had a good relationship with your dad, I knew your name, at that time you were still very young, and now you have grown into a big beauty, completely changed, you don't say, there is really no way to recognize you." 」 "Yes, yes, yes, uncle has a good memory!" It's been almost twenty years, and my uncle is still the same as he was then, and I recognize you at a glance." "Where, where! Uncle is about to become an old man, hehe! "Listening to her say that I am still the same as I was then, I don't love vanity, and my heart is also beautiful." My dad later turned right, and is still teaching in primary school, because the source of students is getting smaller and smaller, there are less than two hundred students in the first to sixth grades, and my dad is now the principal, but he is still teaching part-time. My family lives on the 4th floor of Unit 3, Building A, community behind the market, and I have time to come to my house to play Ha." "Okay! I live a little above the market, less than 300 meters from the market, if your father comes to the city, ask him to come to my house to play, I haven't seen him for a long time, I want to talk to him about the past." "Yes! I'll call you when the time comes." "Oops! Uncle, I don't have your phone yet." "138XX..., you call, I'll save yours too." Then wechat was added to each other.
In the future, I often met in the market, greeted each other, and occasionally chatted for a while, and gradually became very familiar. After graduating from college, she applied to be a financial director in a private company, and through the introduction of a friend, she knew her husband, who was not admitted to college, took his father's class to work in the railway department of another city, gave birth to a girl, and just went to kindergarten. Couples get together less and more, just married can still be together for a day or two a month, the past two years sometimes half a year also do not come back, only occasionally make a few phone calls or videos, sometimes send video invitations in the past also do not answer, said no Wifi, open traffic is too expensive. She suspected that her husband had another new partner, but there was no evidence, and the pay card was also with her. I advise her not to think wildly, the man is career-oriented, to understand and tolerate more, and to support him to work with peace of mind.
A year later, her husband's lover called her, saying she was pregnant, begging her to fulfill them, saying that she loved her husband very much.... She didn't make a fuss, she didn't cry, she calmly agreed to the love enemy, she said that it was not worth it to shed tears for such a negative person! She went to the Civil Affairs Bureau with him and went through the divorce procedures.
As a fellow countryman, I am an elder, giving her the most is comfort, as well as more care in her daily life, introducing her to a few, and wanting her to start a new life, but she can't see any of them.
Holidays, afraid that she is sad alone, it is called by insiders, let her bring her children over to celebrate the festival together, she is also very casual, treating us as her own family, and often jokes with insiders: "Uncle is very much like Xu Wenqiang, is the idol in the hearts of countless girls." Her family sometimes had to change a light bulb, fill the gas, buy rice and carry the heavy work, which I was responsible for. Sometimes she would stuff me with cigarettes or something, and when it rained, she would sit with her for a while.
Gradually, I found that she had a special sense of dependence on me. When I was alone, my speech and eyes were a little abnormal, and I was worried that something would happen.
Once I told my insider about my worries, she laughed at me for being nervous, scolded me for being sentimental, said that she was 15 years younger than me, in her early thirties, and that she was kind to her uncle, and warned me not to think otherwise, so as not to frighten her. I don't want to say anything more, as always, what to do and what to do.
On a cold winter rainy night, it was past eleven o'clock, I was soaking my feet, the phone rang, and the insider answered, "Good! Don't worry! Your uncle will pass right away. "Hanging up the phone, she urged me not to soak my feet, saying that Xiuping's child had a high fever and asked you to go over and help her take her to the hospital together." I didn't say a word, made an exception to call the driver of the unit, asked him to drive over, explaining that this time it was to save people, only to use the bus once for private.
In less than ten minutes, the car came, and the insider and I got in the car and drove to her house, about 500 meters apart, and in a few minutes we arrived downstairs.
She was already waiting in the rain downstairs with her child in her arms, tears flashing in her eyes, "Get in the car!" As soon as she got into the car, I quickly closed the car door and went straight to the emergency department of the hospital, registered, for examination, and the doctor said that it was fortunate to come in time, otherwise it would be very dangerous. It is a viral cold fever, the body temperature is measured at 39 degrees 5, and the infusion is required to be observed. After everything was arranged, it was already one o'clock in the morning, and the insider asked me to accompany her to the hospital, and she took the car back to rest.
The infusion is very quiet, a drop is very slow, I socks also did not come and wear, felt very cold, see her also from time to time in the shiver, then asked her did not eat, she said did not eat, the child in the afternoon on the cold, gave her a small cold punch, has been with the child, thought it would not be very serious, and later found that the head is getting hotter and hotter, frightened before calling me. alas! What's the use of blaming her for being careless at this point!
Touching her clothes, all wet, her forehead was also burning, and she went to the doctor's duty room to ask the doctor to prescribe her some relief. I took off my coat, told her to put it on, and went outside to buy a cup of hot soy milk and a few salt tea eggs (only these things are sold at the entrance of the hospital), and told her to eat them while it was hot.
Two hours later, the child's fever subsided, the liquid was also infused, and the doctor said that there would be no problem in going back to take the medicine on time. It was already 4 a.m.
Walking out of the hospital, she met a taxi passenger and called her home.
The children slept soundly, and we were cold, hungry and sleepy.
"You take the kids to rest early, I'm going back"! "It's so late, it's wind and rain outside, don't go, sleep here"! "How does that work?" You have a bed, and there is no quilt on the sofa, and it is not good to say that it is passed out"! She was silent for a while, "Uncle, just a few hours, grievances, squeeze to sleep"! After saying that, her cheeks were red to the root of her ears. To tell you the truth, she is in her early thirties, born beautiful, and can dress up, can be called a beautiful woman, in a deeper quiet night, lonely men and widows alone in the room, if not moved is false, but must strictly abide by the bottom line. I laughed and said, "Is it a joke on uncle, uncle is afraid that he will not be able to hold on to it, and he will make low-level mistakes." "I'm not afraid, what are you afraid of, willingly, eager for uncle to make mistakes", while saying, he lowered his head, that shy tone and form, people are confused.
What to do? The worry has finally appeared, and now it is necessary to deal with this problem with extreme calmness, which can neither hurt her self-esteem, nor can she let herself lose her mind, let alone cause external public opinion.
"Xiuping: Uncle is not stupid, your kindness to uncle, uncle heart received." You are really excellent, if you were not born in the wrong era, your uncle would definitely marry you. But Uncle can't hurt you because of a momentary fever, nor can he ruin the image of Uncle in your mind. In the future, your uncle will still be your uncle, and you will always be your uncle's good girlfriend."
After listening to me, she hesitated for a moment, then gently nodded at me and cried, "Thank you uncle"! I didn't do anything I shouldn't have done, and I didn't leave until she calmed down.
I have not told anyone about this, and until now we have been innocent.
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