Text/Knife II
Speaking of perfect idols, it has to be Andy Lau.
Can sing, dance and act, first-class business ability, so that the current small fresh meat is incomparably shameful.
But the perfect Hua Tsai has a solid black spot.
That is hidden marriage.
Andy Lau's marriage has always been a public fact in the circle.
Jackie Chan once mentioned the reason for Andy Lau's hidden marriage in an interview, at the peak of his girlfriend powder too much, once public, it will really be difficult for someone to accept suicide.
Jackie Chan's words are not without reason, and the Yang Lijuan incident caused a sensation in the country that year.
The young girl scattered her family wealth to see Andy Lau, and the old father did not hesitate to sell his house to cut his kidneys in order to realize his daughter's dream, and finally was forced to jump into the sea to commit suicide.
Yang Lijuan, who is not married to Andy Lau, what is going on now?
One
Yang Lijuan was born in Gansu in 1978.
Yang Lijuan's family is ordinary, her father is a people's teacher, and her mother is at home to take care of children and the elderly.
The couple's child was born late, and when they welcomed their daughter, Yang's father was already forty years old.
A man who only gets his first child at the age of forty is naturally spoiled to the bone.
Father Yang has no requirements for his daughter, only hopes that she will grow up safely and smoothly and healthily.
When Southern Weekend first reported on this absurd matter, it once described Yang's father this way: as long as his daughter is happy, he can do anything.
Yang's father responded to Yang Lijuan's needs, and once his daughter wanted to drink. Father Yang had no money on him, so he ran to the supermarket to steal a bottle of drink.
Yang Lijuan wanted to drink the second bottle after drinking, and when Yang Father went to steal the second bottle, he was caught and preached.
It is said that the female eldest avoids her father, but when Yang Lijuan was in her twenties, Yang Lijuan's father personally wiped her body and bathed her, and the family did not feel that there was anything wrong.
Things that are incomprehensible in the eyes of outsiders are common in the Yang family.
It is Yang's father's pampering and indulgence of his daughter that makes the family slide into an irreparable abyss.
In 1994, Yang Lijuan's sleep appeared with a painting of a handsome man, next to which there was a sentence: "You especially walked into me, you and I met sincerely." ”
After that, Yang Lijuan often dreamed of this man.
She and her friends were playing with sandbags, and the man came up and looked at himself with tenderness in his eyes.
Sometimes the two meet at the top of the mountain, and they hold hands and play around, saying warm love words.
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One day, she learned from her classmates that her dream lover was Andy Lau.
Yang Lijuan was addicted to the dream, and her heart was full of this man.
Perhaps out of love for his daughter and wanting to make her happy, when Yang Lijuan mentioned his dream, Yang's father actually said that he also dreamed.
This makes Yang Lijuan firmly believe that there is a special induction between herself and Andy Lau, and a special red line has been tied between the two.
She collected all of Andy Lau's records and watched all his movies, and the walls of the room were full of Andy Lau posters.
Yang Lijuan's life is only Left Andy Lau.
She was not satisfied and decided to quit school to chase the stars.
Yang Lijuan, who does not study or socialize, hides in her room all day and dreams of falling in love with Hua Tsai.
Slowly, she wanted to see Andy Lau.
She felt that as long as the two met and exchanged heartfelt words, the red line between them could be tied.
Seeing Andy Lau became Yang Lijuan's obsession, the old couple was very opposed.
But Yang Lijuan said: "Without seeing Andy Lau, I will never marry." ”
In desperation, Father Yang nodded.
Two
In 1997, Yang's father took out his family's savings of 9900 yuan, and the family participated in a tour group to Go to Hong Kong.
Staying in Hong Kong for a few days did not see Hua Tsai as Yang Lijuan hoped.
With nearly 10,000 yuan of savings left, the family can only go home.
This failure did not hit Yang Lijuan's confidence, but made her more addicted to Andy Lau.
She pays attention to all the movements of Andy Lau, and when Hua Tsai comes to the mainland to run the trip, she will follow.
The air ticket and hotel fees generated by star chasing made Father Yang unable to bear it.
They began to borrow money from relatives and friends, even to loan sharks.
But no amount of money can fill the hole in Yang Lijuan's star chasing.
So in 2003, Yang's father sold the family's house, and the family of three moved to a cheap rental house with a monthly rent of 400 yuan.
In 2004, Andy Lau ran to Gansu to shoot a film.
Yang Lijuan was overjoyed, unable to blend into the crew, she stood on the roof every day, and it was a whole day.
She hoped that Andy Lau would be able to walk through the crowd to herself, just like in her dream.
Star chasing is a hobby piled up with money, and it doesn't take long to spend very little money from selling a house.
She has not been able to meet Andy Lau, nor has she dispelled Yang Lijuan's passion, and she has inquired about Andy Lau's residence everywhere.
In 2005, Yang Lijuan took the address that had been difficult to find out and rushed to Andy Lau's home in Hong Kong with her father.
As before, they still haven't been able to see Andy Lau.
But on the way to Hong Kong this time, there was an accident.
Yang's mother was poisoned at home because she forgot to turn off the gas, and then her leg was accidentally hit by a heavy object, resulting in disability.
A large amount of treatment costs made the already tight family worse.
The pain of Yang Mu's body did not recall Yang Lijuan's sanity, and she still ignored the noise to see Andy Lau.
On the one hand, the wife wants to be cured, and on the other hand, the daughter is clamoring to chase the stars.
Both pits had to be filled, and Father Yang was in a hurry, and he thought of selling kidneys.
Although Father Yang is old, he feels that he is in good health.
He thought he could sell a kidney, his life would not be in danger, and he could raise a large amount of money, enough for Yang Lijuan to go to Hong Kong to see Andy Lau.
At this time, Yang's father felt that as long as he could live, he did not know that he would give his life for his daughter's absurd dream.
When Yang Lijuan heard her father's decision, she just said: "Selling kidneys is too dangerous, you better borrow money." ”
There was no wave in her eyes, and it seemed that what she heard was not that her father was going to sell his kidneys, but just throwing away a piece of garbage.
Selling kidneys and selling houses is only to chase stars, and the family is ruined and still has not been able to see Andy Lau.
After such absurd things were reported by the media, they aroused heated discussion in public opinion.
Countless media flocked to it, seemingly seeing the traffic password, and taking Yang Lijuan's wish as a joke that attracted people's attention.
The Yang family did not refuse the media, but instead cooperated in accepting interviews, making this matter bigger and bigger, making the city full of storms and rains.
They hope that through media reports and the power of public opinion, and put pressure on Andy Lau to achieve Yang Lijuan's dream of meeting Andy Lau.
The media rushed to report and grab the headlines, as Yang Lijuan wished, Andy Lau knew about her.
However, Andy Lau did not have a deep affection for her as Yang Lijuan thought, but advocated through the studio and did not encourage fans to chase stars so crazy.
To get such an answer, how willing the Yang family is, to know that Yang Lijuan has paid 13 years of youth in order to chase a dream.
She refused to give up, hoping to meet Andy Lau, always feeling that once the two met, things would develop like in their dreams.
In 2007, a media outlet promised to help Ms. Yang meet Andy Lau.
The media wants to be hot, and Yang Lijuan wants to meet idols.
The two sides hit it off.
On March 25 of the same year, Yang Lijuan went to Hong Kong for the third time and met Andy Lau with the help of the media.
In just 10 seconds, Yang Lijuan was very happy, and her eyes were full of Hua Tsai.
I thought that Yang Lijuan had achieved her wish, and she could let go of her obsession and go home to live her life with peace of mind.
Who knows that the next day came bad news.
Three
On March 26, Yang's father committed suicide by jumping into the sea.
Before his death, Yang's father left a 10,000-character suicide note at the convenience store.
It was full of accusations against Andy Lau.
"What's so great about you!"
"You're too selfish!"
"You failed my daughter's 13 years of youth!"
As for the reason why Father Yang jumped into the sea, he wrote it in his suicide note.
The short contact of 10 seconds was not enough for Yang Lijuan to tell the truth, and Hua Tsai did not fall in love with herself as she imagined.
She was disappointed, thinking that if the two could have more time to contact and talk about the things in the dream, maybe the dream would come true.
So when the singers' friends left, Yang's father ran to stop Andy Lau's car, hoping that he could talk to his daughter alone, but was refused.
Leaving the scene of the singers' club, the Yang family ran to the convenience store to rest.
While his wife and daughter were asleep, Yang's father left a suicide note and jumped into the sea.
He wanted to exchange his death for the opportunity for Andy Lau to meet his daughter.
"I'm dead. You Andy Lau still want to see my child, otherwise death will not be blind and intolerable! ”
Words cry blood!
The front page of the Hong Kong media is full of news of Yang's father's death, and the seven-page suicide note is placed on the most conspicuous page.
Andy Lau became the cusp of the storm, and he could only respond through his agent: "I feel very shocked." ”
Of course, I was stunned, which was simply a senseless disaster for Andy Lau.
But things are far from over.
After Yang's father jumped into the sea, singer Yang Chen just donated 20,000 yuan to Yang Lijuan, saying that it was the cost of dealing with her father's posthumous affairs.
It is said that it is a singer, but the representative song that Yang Chen just named is "Mouse Loves Rice".
To put it ugly, it is an eighteen-line artist who has luckily red a saliva song.
This time, he was willing to help Yang Lijuan, not because of his kindness, but for the heat.
Yang Chengang directly held a donation meeting, at which countless media were called out, and the flash lights were on non-stop.
But regardless of Yang Chenggang's starting point, Yang Lijuan has received tangible benefits.
When everyone thought that Yang Lijuan would take 20,000 yuan home to deal with Yang Father's posthumous affairs, her actions once again shocked everyone's attention.
When she was interviewed by the media, she still asked to see Andy Lau.
Yang Lijuan said: "This is Daddy's last wish. ”
Mother Yang said, "Husbands can't die in vain!" ”
The mother and daughter spoke in unison and asked to see Andy Lau again.
Andy Lau was pushed to the cusp of public opinion, and some people asked him to refuse Yang Lijuan's request, which could not promote such a sick star-chasing atmosphere.
Some people also say that Andy Lau is too desperate to put a life in his eyes.
Andy Lau had a hard time riding the tiger, and his acting career was affected.
At this time, he resisted the pressure and refused to be kidnapped by morality, saying that he did not see Yang Lijuan.
Andy Lau rarely says something serious, saying in an interview: "She doesn't need help. ”
He was shut down by the company, attacked by public opinion, and the perfect idol that self-discipline and self-examination and hidden marriage had been maintained for many years was almost destroyed.
Many years later, when he mentioned the absurdity of the file, he said that he had seen a psychologist because of it.
But isn't the most wronged person in this matter Andy Lau?
It's ridiculous.
Four
Unable to let Andy Lau come out to see himself, Yang Lijuan turned the gun head and complained to a newspaper.
In April 2007, a newspaper published a news report on Yang Lijuan, which said that Yang Lijuan did not change her clothes or bathe for ten days and other negative remarks.
Yang Lijuan said that the article violated her right to privacy and reputation, deliberately scandalized her and caused her mental trauma, demanding that the newspaper compensate her for 300,000 yuan.
Not surprisingly, Yang Lijuan lost the case.
Did not see Andy Lau and did not earn money, may be disheartened, she and her mother returned to her hometown.
After she returned home, she burned posters and records related to Andy Lau and burned her 13 years of youth.
Letting go of Andy Lau is a choice that Yang Lijuan had to make.
After the death of her father, there will be no one to provide Yang Lijuan with no complaints to chase the stars.
In public opinion, she became an unkind, unjust, and filial piety person.
Andy Lau's "desperate love" broke her dream.
Logically, Yang Lijuan can no longer love Andy Lau.
She disappeared and stopped giving high-profile interviews.
It was not until 2009 that the outside world heard news related to Yang Lijuan again.
Someone met her and Mother Yang on the bus, and both mother and daughter had tearfully accused Andy Lau in an interview, and the matter was so big that others recognized them at a glance.
People who met by chance said that Yang Lijuan did not stop on the bus and kept telling people around her how hateful the media was, and she could not be blamed for her father's death.
She talked incessantly, not like she was talking, but like convincing herself.
It seems that by doing so, she will be able to alleviate the guilt of a little burden.
Mother Yang pampered her daughter as she had done before, nodding her head in agreement.
When getting out of the car, Yang Lijuan walked easily with her bare hands, while Yang Mu, who had white hair on her sideburns, lifted her weight.
Yang Lijuan is really lucky, her parents regard her as a pearl in the palm of their hands.
It just falls in the eyes of others, and the drowning is like a killer.
Until the death of Yang's father, Yang Lijuan had a little growth.
Seven years later, when Yang Lijuan had faded from people's memories, she walked under the flash again.
The theme of that episode was "Crazy Fans", and Yang Lijuan's appearance seemed so ironic.
She is no longer yang Lijuan who shouted "Andy Lau" in the past, and she tearfully advised everyone not to chase the stars.
She said that as soon as she got home, she burned all the surrounding areas of Andy Lau.
She said it wasn't worth it at all.
Indeed, Yang Lijuan paid a huge price on the road of chasing stars.
Money, time, father's life.
No wonder yang Lijuan mentioned Andy Lau at that time, and her tone was full of resentment.
But she didn't know that the person who paid her off the loan shark was Andy Lau.
She was always like this, letting others pay for her waywardness.
First Father Yang, then Andy Lau.
No matter what price the Yang family paid, Yang Lijuan's life was finally calm.
When she first returned from Hong Kong, Yang Lijuan felt that everything was like a nightmare, her life was muddy, and her mother lived on a low guarantee of a few hundred yuan.
But if people want to eat, how can a few hundred yuan be enough to live?
The Yang family has no top pillars, her mother is not in good health, and Yang Lijuan can only resist the heavy responsibility of making money.
She tried volunteering, as a clerk...
But it doesn't take long.
In 2016, Yang Lijuan finally found a suitable job and worked as a promoter in a supermarket.
I was tired at work, and I had to stand for eight hours and keep talking and selling.
The salary is also not high, only 2,000 yuan a month.
But Yang Lijuan is satisfied, she knows that she is not highly educated and it is difficult to find a job.
She needed the 2,000 pieces to support herself and her mother.
The mother and daughter live in a low-cost rental house, and the annual rent has not exceeded 1,000 yuan.
The interior of the house is simple, but it can also be lived, which is much better than sleeping on the street in order to chase the stars.
Over the years, Yang Lijuan has not talked about friends getting married, no socializing, and shuttled between the supermarket and the home line.
The days are simple but also fulfilling.
In the eyes of colleagues, Yang Lijuan is a kind and good talker, which is completely different from the hysterical she was in the interview.
In 2019, in Lu Yu's interview program.
She said that she had been able to face reality and live a real life, unlike in the past when she was immersed in dreams.
She said that if she could never come, she would not do such ridiculous things again.
She said that every year Qingming would go to worship her father, hoping that he would forgive his ignorant self.
Yang Lijuan felt very guilty, her original self was too willful, so that her family could bear a lot.
Her eyes and tone became mature, with vicissitudes.
14 years on, the harsh reality has worn out all her edges and corners.
The girl who had been held in the palm of her father's hand had finally grown up.
But the cost of growth is too great.
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