After studying Gu Ailing's mother, I knew how genius came about.
Gu's parents are all high-achieving students, Gu's father Harvard, Gu's mother Peking University, Stanford, biologist, synthetic bovine insulin expert Professor Shen Tong closed the door disciple. In the 1990s, he either worked on Wall Street or returned to China to start a business, and in 1998, he established China's earliest venture capital firm. In January 2022, Mama Gu was selected as the manager of the Freestyle Ski Jump and Slope Obstacle Course Team at the Winter Olympics.
That's already very powerful, and genes have determined that this child is not simple. [Crying is silent] [Crying is silent] [Crying is silent]
The report of the character, Gu Ma's education is very eye-catching, Gu Ailing's skiing, is Gu Mama with money and time to smash out. I absolutely believe that Gu Ailing's genes, the genes of learning, are really in my bones. [Cover your face] [Cover your face] [Cover your face]
But without money, Gu Ailing couldn't come out. If you have money and no genes, you may become a little slower, and you may not be able to reach the peak. Another tiger mother, fully devoted to the education of her children, lived together.
We're just saying that we've got it [shh] [shhh] [shhh]

In the end, the child really can't do it, it's not her fault, it's the parent's problem.
What do I have to do with a child? Suggest mom roll it up first.
Children can ask me, why don't you make more money? [what] Why don't you try to get into one of the top 100 universities in the world? [what] You are so selfish, how can you be willing to give up so much time to accompany me. [what] I have no use for rolling, you see how you are. [Thinking] [Thinking] [Thinking]
Okay, bunny cub, your mother said goodbye. [Crying is silent] [Crying is silent] [Crying is silent]
A few elements of Tiger Mama:
1 Give up your work/entertainment/travel/social time and spend a lot of time with your children doing what interests you. Gu Mama 4 hours drive to send ski training, the average person can do it? I know a Haidian-shunyi mother (who first settled in Haidian and went to Shunyi), her son learned to swim, she accompanied her to Hong Kong to brush the competition; her son learned the pulp board, she accompanied her to Beijing Yanqi Lake brush competition; the son fell in love with cycling, she accompanied to Moganshan and Tianjin to compete.
2 Rich. Nothing to say. [Thinking] [Crying is silent] [Crying is silent] [Crying is silent]
3 Guidance is skillful. Rough persecution has long been outdated, and it has become less popular with Cai Mei'er (the Chinese-American tiger mother who forced her daughters to study music, Cai Mei'er herself is a tenured professor at Yale Law School. Later, both daughters went to Harvard or Yale. That's it. I don't know what method, motivation, preaching, leading by example - maybe Gu Mama herself loves skiing, and she also devotes herself to skiing, just to accompany her daughter? Just like I love to play badminton myself, I also hope that children will be able to play badminton in the future. Or she chooses a sport and I accompany her (mainly if we are not playing with one thing, we don't have so much time). In short, the tiger mother can make the child - in a hobby, let her stay interested for a long time + do it persistently.
I think That Mama Gu's concept of education may be "never back down", or it may be "as long as you insist, nothing else matters". With the nature of playing tickets, learning + sports gene foundation, plus money, idle, how can the result be bad?
You say that she is chicken, yes, you can also say that there is no chicken, completely go with the flow, because these premises of her natural nature are the upper limits of the threshold for ordinary people, and generally no one has them.
Just like the first one, the child asked me to send her to learn ballet, it was a 15-minute bus ride, I thought about it, well, it costs money again, you look at your little short-legged genes, with me, let's be sober.
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