Why some people have been single, maybe this is the sobriety of the world

There is a friend who has not been in love since college, looks and personality is good, and there are many female friends around him, but there is no girlfriend. Every time he asked him, he said he couldn't find a girlfriend. This is the background.

Later, I didn't see each other for a long time, and when we were drinking together, we asked me: "Why don't you look for a girlfriend, don't tell me what you can't find, you didn't look for it at all." ”

He was slightly stunned: "What do you say you are in love for?" Without waiting for me to answer, he continued, "If it was for marriage, it might not be necessary now." After investigation, it was found that the probability of college breakup is as high as 90%, even if you insist on not breaking up, after the graduation season, do you stay here, or return to your hometown, back to your hometown that is a different place, we do not say. If you all stay here, you want to get married, you have to have a house and a car and a deposit, even if the bride price money is not wanted by the woman, then you can't help it. It will take a few more years, and how many years have you seen the results of love long-distance running. ”

I didn't speak, he continued: "Not only is it responsible for getting married, it's also about falling in love." You have consumed a girl's youth, then you always have to give him a future. Then you have to work harder, meaning you have a girlfriend, you have to be better for her, so why don't you get better and go to a girlfriend? ”

"And I don't want the girl I like to become my ex-girlfriend or my ex-boyfriend," he sighed, "and I think that after a long time, my old friend didn't ask me how my ex-girlfriend was, but exclaimed: You're still together." So, I never want to talk about love, but I want to wait until the person to talk... ”

I think there are many boys or girls in college who don't fall in love, and many of them think like my friends. They know exactly what they want, so they wait.