【Original】Idle Cloud Wild Crane
Li Xiaoman, 23, is bent on marrying the man she likes, and she thinks it is a very happy thing to marry the man she has always liked. So, as soon as I graduated from college, I hurriedly got married.
After getting married, Li Xiaoman found that this man did not love her as much as she imagined. She even had to please her husband every day, and sometimes she felt that she was very annoying, but because Li Xiaoman loved him very much, she felt that it was nothing.
In this way, Li Xiaoman has been living a married life of "cold face sticking hot ass". Li Xiaoman, who is outgoing, is more active and enthusiastic, but her husband's tepidness makes her really unbearable.
When she wanted to make her married life a little more passionate, her husband said: "Old husbands and wives, why do you still make so many tricks?" Li Xiaoman could only shyly retreat without success, and he did not say anything more, and he could only hold some words in his heart.
After a long time, Li Xiaoman found that this was not the life he wanted, and she also longed for the warmth of love.
The married life of the two people is lifeless, and the husband is not willing to talk to her every day after coming home from work and eating. Sometimes, Li Xiaoman talks to him more than two words, and her husband will find her annoyed, and even feel that Li Xiaoman disturbs him to play games. Sometimes he feels that playing games is more important to her husband than to her wife.
The husband will be willing to spend 200 yuan to buy a game skin, but will not spend 200 yuan to buy her a dress.
Once, when the couple went out to the mall together, Li Xiaoman took a fancy to a piece of clothing and said, "Husband, do you see that dress looks good?" ”
"Well, yes." The husband replied casually.
Li Xiaoman didn't care about his emotions after listening, so he asked the boss who sold clothes to pick up the clothes and hand them to her and walked into the fitting room. When she came out of the fitting room, she walked over to her husband and turned around, and said happily: "Husband, you see that I am wearing the right clothes!" ”
"Ok for the price" The husband replied impatiently.
After some bargaining, the clothes were sold for 200 yuan, and Li Xiaoman turned around and made a grimace with her husband and said: "Husband, you paid for the clothes for me!" ”
"Aren't you paid?" Where do I have the money to buy you clothes. Guarding the boss who sold clothes, the husband shouted loudly.
For a moment, Li Xiaoman stood awkwardly on the spot...
Li Xiaoman felt that his marriage was also very boring, and he did not know why he married such a man in the first place. At that time, when the two people were just together, Li Xiaoman really loved him, and her husband was also very kind to her at that time, caring for her everywhere. But now only Li Xiaoman is holding on to this relationship, and she feels particularly tired.
Just when Li Xiaoman lost his enthusiasm for life, a new male colleague came to the unit. Li Xiaoman is responsible for taking this male colleague to work, this male colleague is very funny and humorous, and often tells some cold jokes to Li Xiaoman. Li Xiaoman was also very happy with him, as if he had found the self he was before marriage.
For a while, Li Xiaoman was busy with the work on hand, and she often worked overtime until late. And this new male colleague in the company is also happy to accompany Li Xiaoman to work overtime after his own things are done. The overtime time is also the time when the two of them are alone, and Li Xiaoman can't help but be attracted to this male colleague.
Because two people are often alone, the hormones in the body also explode, and a relationship occurs.
Li Xiaoman was afraid that her husband would find out that something was wrong, and every night he would take a bath at the unit before returning home. Because she didn't want her husband to find out that there was something abnormal about her.
Seeing his wife, who came home after taking a shower at work every day, the husband began to suspect. He asked his wife, "Why do you want to take a bath in the unit?" ”
"Because I wanted to sleep when I came home from work, I took a shower at work first." Li Xiaoman replied disguisedly.
The husband was suspicious of his wife's words, because no matter how late the work was, the wife would still go home and take a bath. But during this time, his wife was very strange, always taking a bath at the unit, and he even wondered if his wife was suffering from some unsavory disease and did not want him to know.
The husband really doubted the reason why the wife was bathing at work. One night, the husband came home from work and did not play games anymore, but went to his wife's unit to investigate what work his wife did in the unit at night. Unexpectedly, he saw his wife and other men's unbearable scenes.
When the husband came to his wife's unit, he found that the lights in the unit were turned off, and he thought to himself, is it the wife who is off work? Just as he was about to leave, he heard movement inside.
He saw a bare-backed man turn on the light, and then he saw his wife with disheveled hair sorting out her clothes, and he didn't have to think about it to know what had just happened inside the two of them.
The husband did not rush in immediately to expose them, but stayed outside alone for a long time. How could he not understand how his wife, who loved him so much, could cheat and betray him? I couldn't believe what was happening before my eyes.
The husband thought for a long time without understanding the reason why his wife would cheat, and when his wife came home, his emotions completely exploded.
As soon as Li Xiaoman returned home, her husband rushed forward angrily and slapped him, angrily shouting: "Do you still have your face back?" ”
After being beaten by her husband like this, Li Xiaoman was also a little confused, and she also said loudly: "What nerves do you have?" They beat me. ”
"What you have done, you know in your own heart, I deliberately went to your company tonight to investigate you, and you actually did that faceless thing with don't beat a man..." The husband scolded angrily.
When Li Xiaoman heard her husband say this, he was neither afraid nor surprised, but instead he was relieved and said, "I have long wanted to tell you, and now that you know it, it is better that I don't have to hide it all day." ”
Seeing such a calm wife, the husband was a little flustered. He asked his wife, "Aren't you afraid that I will divorce you when I find out?" ”
Li Xiaoman said: "Divorce is divorce, anyway, such a marriage, it is not interesting to continue." ”
"Didn't you say you loved me very much?" It's fake, right? You are such a hypocritical woman. The husband listened to her and said with some fear in his heart.
"Yes, I love you very much, that was also once, and my love was slowly worn away by your indifference." You don't understand that love is a two-way street, I've always been the only one who gives, and you will only enjoy my love for you, and I will be very tired of such love..." Li Xiaoman said leisurely.
After the two people had a big fight, they all said their dissatisfaction with each other. In the end, the husband still decided to end the 10-year marriage, and Li Xiaoman also chose to accept it. They all feel that such an emotionless marriage, even if forgiven, will not last long.
Twisters:
The failure of a marriage does feel very difficult to accept. Many people feel that this ending is caused by Li Xiaoman's infidelity to feelings and the failure to live up to her husband. However, if you think about it carefully, the husband has not done what he should do as a husband, and Li Xiaoman's infidelity to his husband has also accumulated little by little.
There is no right or wrong in feelings, and cheating is not a one-person problem. Every woman, like Li Xiaoman, also longs for the care and love of her husband. But in reality, there are many men who do not understand the mind of women, they feel that after marriage, this woman is their own, and will not run away, so the heart to treat them is not really what it used to be, and even often perfunctory.
In fact, every good relationship marriage requires both husband and wife to pay each other in both directions, so as not to lead to the unfairness of the couple's feelings, and will not cause so many marital contradictions. Regardless of men and women, no matter how good a person is, if you get not to cherish him (or her), sooner or later one day it will leave you.