Some people say: "Life is a double-edged sword, it is possible to fight with you anytime and anywhere" We will face it all the time, and when you face him, you may also hold your head high, or even hang your head in frustration.
Although I am still young, but I have just turned eighteen years old and have already lived a 30-year-old life, you say not tired, feel sweaty, you say tired, and feel as if you can endure it, not all women can live a safe and stable life. Most women in the social status is to wash and cook, will only do housework with children, and men are working outside to be responsible for earning money to support the family, the family is probably like this, but if women can also change their lives, I think men do not need it at all, in the countryside is often like this, there are many parents may have been working outside, keeping children for grandparents to take care of, maybe just adulthood.
Children's growth is definitely inseparable from their parents, the countryside is the low end of education, in the countryside you may face the risk of marriage at the age of 20, and then face a new family, and then begin to learn to live with a new family, to face the baby, do housework, labor, and so on.
Although these things are small, when you stand up with a big belly in the face of the mother-in-law's difficulties you know, but also to give birth to a child, in the face of the mother-in-law is a man or a woman to decide that the mother-in-law is good to you, you think that you are 20 years old and early married to think that the man can rely on, often in the end only rely on yourself, you say that I take the baby at the end of the day, you are tired of work, go home to rest, you lie in bed to sleep, and I have not slept until midnight, the child cries and cries to feed, after feeding and has been crying, However, the mother-in-law shouted loudly from the side: You can't coax the child, do nothing at home every day, think about what it feels like, you feel nothing, how long can you endure such a day, how long can you endure in the next ten years,
Adult collapse in an instant, wait for the child to grow up, he is very naughty, the mother-in-law is very irritable, the husband is very hard at work, a long time do not go home, you look at what is in your pocket, even the cost of the child's school, every day or rely on the husband's salary, at the same time facing the family, you think about it or go back to the mother's house for a few days, the mother is still your mother, you are afraid to say the situation at home, in fact, the mother's heart is still clear, so the mother's family will give you some money, wait until you return to your home, The mother-in-law asked at the door: Why do you want to go back to your mother, what do you bring back to your mother, what you have to do when you don't come back, you have to endure the scolding, you can only silently go to the kitchen to cook for the children to eat, you feel that you should face it when you grow up.
Women can't live in the shadow of men all their lives, and they can't be meaningless, alas! Who knows how to cry like this, in fact, may wish to see from a little girl who is a few years old has begun to decide the status of the family, this is probably the countryside! A woman who wants to live a stable life, do you still think that men are the most suffering in the family, a monthly menstruation torture, a whole week of discomfort, you know! The pain of giving birth to a child you never know how painful, how tired, you have the ability to experience the experience, women are born to be thrifty and thrifty, laundry and cooking, etc. This ending determines the life of a woman for a lifetime, she faces so many things, but you as a man even your own job is always changed and changed, but also always criticized by the leader, the salary is still low, such a situation, a family depends on your husband at all. Why do women want to marry early, because they are so old, they hope to find a good family to remarry, even if they are living well at the beginning, and so on for a long time, you will find that sometimes regret it, they think and think, they feel that they have nothing, facing various reasons, but they make themselves a person who sighs quietly, and at the same time they have to swallow their breath and hesitate to speak.
Gradually, you are also getting older, 40 years old and 50 years old you are still working, your physical strength is not enough Labor force can not catch up, the tuition fee for your son's college fee is far more than you imagined, despite this, it is full of challenges to life, life despite this, in fact, you are very poor and difficult, life, although the score is high and low, but it does not distinguish between poverty and low. As long as you are willing to pay a drop of sweat, believe that your life will change, you should have the life you want.