What manifests self-confidence and he proposes a key concept called impersonator syndrome, and what kind of consequences it may have for your life when you have impersonator syndrome, the author also gives some advice on how you can be more in control of your life.
Impersonator syndrome
A confident person, first of all: he should think that he is capable of achieving his goals, and second: a confident person, he believes in his own ability, talent and efficiency, then such a person, is a confident person, then when you have self-confidence, we will be more actionable, we will be more accomplished in doing things, but also can lead us to continuously achieve self-transcendence, out of the comfort zone. That confidence, I think everyone has this feeling, when we are confident, we feel very good about ourselves, then we will have a very brave posture, can face the risk, encounter trauma is also easy to smooth out and can extract very valuable things from these failures, mistakes and growth, this kind of thing is called vigorous vitality.
Individuals who lack self-confidence will be more likely to accept the state of condescension, accept the withered life, accept the thinking of the dwarfed self, accept the insignificant part of the self, and then shrink the small box of the life of the aggrieved confinement
This is the difference between confident people and people who are not confident.
A woman with vigorous vitality and self-confidence
Then I think everyone wants their life to have vigorous vitality and tenacious upwards.
According to a lot of research and data, men are more confident than women, so why? Because women tend to blame their failures on themselves, it is because of my reasons that led to my failures, then men are more inclined to attribute failures to external factors, such as if they fail, they will think that I failed this time, probably because this exam is too difficult, or the teacher is too strict, and so on. And women are easy to attribute mistakes inward, and when faced with success, women are easy to attribute outwards, because they are lucky, because of some other external factors so they succeed, and men are just the opposite, when he succeeds, he will think that it is because of his own ability, so he succeeded.