Many times girls will punish themselves when they are wronged, which is a way for them to face the world.
When they were young, they punished very seriously. Will stand motionless with his head bowed. Some will even have tears of grievance falling to the ground.
When they grow up, they become smarter, and when they are wronged, they will let men accept punishment instead of themselves, standing in the doorway and thinking about it.
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Heart-wrenching girl with her head down
The cold wind swirled and flew wildly from east to west.
At the entrance of a playground, a girl stands with her head bowed next to a measuring pole that measures the height of children to facilitate charging.
A staff member next to the girl tried desperately to show that he was kind and persuaded something. The girl lowered her head slightly, staring at the ground in front of her, teardrops swirling slightly in her eyes, and the stubborn girl used all her strength to prevent it from falling out.
The girl wears a cotton thread hat and a white down jacket. The clothes were unzipped and open in their arms.
The staff next to them communicated for a while, looked at the girl's stubborn look, and couldn't help but laugh. She quickly reached out and asked the parents of the girl next to her to carry the child on the parent push stroller she was riding.
The mother of the girl who was filming next to her was overjoyed to see, and did not forget to bring the camera closer to the girl and photograph her like this.
The girl's father, under pressure from his wife, had to temporarily play the role of mother and coax the child.
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Human beings are born with a variety of emotions
Whether it is a child or an elderly person, colorful emotions run through their lives.
This emotion is innate, especially in children and the elderly.
Many people think that children don't know anything, ignoring their inner softness and feelings about the world.
The emotions of children are the most serious and pure.
Aggrieved, scared, angry, happy. They expressed every emotion to the fullest.
Why is it that a fortunate childhood will use childhood to heal a lifetime, and an unfortunate childhood will use a lifetime to heal childhood?
If the little girl in the video is in a state of grievance every day, then her aggrieved emotions and the uneasiness and fear caused by the grievances and lack of comfort will continue to strengthen and amplify. Such a childhood does not experience warm emotions, and it is difficult for her to get happy when she grows up.
And if every child has a pair of parents who care and love her. Someone can comfort her when she is wronged, and someone to coax her when she is unhappy. Someone taught her to be strong and happy to face life, then when she grows up, there will be no difficulty to stop her.
Write at the end
3 years old to see the old, see the cute little girl, when the grievances are coaxed by the staff, but also the parents comfort, you know that her future must be sunny.
A positive society does not produce flawed people.
Wherever we went, we were able to meet kind and kind people.
China, which is rich, strong and great, is becoming more and more civilized and prosperous.
A good environment, the youth is strong, the country is strong.