Ximei has some single male friends around her. From time to time, they would show me screenshots of their interactions with women and ask me how I could parse the text and emojis and how I could better respond to them. Most of these screenshots have some meaning and implication, so it's important to get them right.
Indeed, many men show a more rational and traditional masculinity when it comes to relationship problems.
Their lives are simple and their thinking is relatively direct. Sometimes, they are elusive in women's minds, and they are always cautious when chatting with women, afraid of saying the wrong thing.
In order to avoid making mistakes, when they pursue the woman they love, they usually ask their close female friends for advice to help them better analyze and solve problems from a woman's point of view. This way of "learning from experience" can not only avoid unnecessary mistakes, but also improve the skills of chasing women, which is worth a try.
This passage is very apt, because the performance of women is indeed so. If she has no interest or affection for you, she may behave condescendingly and avoid meaningless socializing with you. This is a common phenomenon that needs to be understood and accepted by male friends.
The opposite is also true. If you get her attention, she may be a little arrogant and indifferent to you. But as soon as you hesitate a little, she gets nervous and worries that you'll actually leave. This is a general psychological reaction, and we should pay attention to details and fully understand the other person's thoughts and emotions.
In order to know whether the woman he is trying to pursue really likes him, how should a man distinguish between them? If you want to avoid wasting time on a woman who is not loved, it is advisable to pay attention to how the woman calls herself. This small detail may reveal her true feelings for you.
Xiao Bo (not his real name) is a programmer who spends his days at the company talking to a group of men in science and engineering who are studying computer science, and they often talk about women in addition to code.
Sometimes, when a friend's relationship is in trouble, other friends will join in and try to give advice. Everyone seems to have a lot of emotional experience, and they hope that their advice can help this friend.
Recently, Xiao Bo has developed a crush on his roommate, who goes by the pseudonym Kerr. This is because they both love to cook and often talk to each other in the kitchen. This shared interest became a bridge for communication and deepening friendship between them.
During this time together, I learned that Kerr does not currently have a boyfriend. I found her to be cheerful and had a lot in common with me. I would love to develop a relationship with her further.
The protagonist's attitude towards Kerr has not been clear, so he doesn't dare to act rashly.
As they make meals together every day and occasionally taste each other's cooking, the atmosphere of conversation between the two becomes more and more natural. Slowly, Ke'er no longer called Xiao Bo by his name, but directly called him "Xiao", which also shows the intimacy between the two.
In order not to miss the opportunity with Keer, Xiao Bo made an excuse, saying that he had been promoted and raised, and invited Keer out to celebrate. In a pleasant atmosphere, Xiao Bo expressed his desire to associate with Kerr.
Unexpectedly, Ke'er readily agreed, saying that she had already had a good impression of him.
The different names that women refer to men represent their state of affection. When women refer to men by certain names, it usually means that they are genuinely emotional. This is a detail that deserves our attention.
Women call you by your nickname or nickname
When interacting with people of the opposite sex, women often use labels to show their relationship with each other. This is a better way to express the degree of intimacy between us.
For ordinary friends of the opposite sex, women mostly keep a proper distance, and even if they show enthusiasm, they will not make you feel intimacy.
Once women get acquainted with you, they show more care. They may ask about your personal life and experiences, such as past experiences and your nickname. This kind of proactive questioning attitude usually only occurs after you have established a close relationship.
In daily communication, she unconsciously changed her name and gradually narrowed the distance between them.
In fact, these behaviors are intentional by women. If she is familiar with you, it means that she has developed a crush on you; If she is close to you, then her feelings for you are real. These are one of the ways in which women send love signals to men.
It should be understood that when a lady calls a man by his nickname, it means that she no longer rejects this man in her heart, and even subconsciously has a good impression of him. From the beginning of the salutation, the distance between the two gradually narrowed. It also means that women are starting to pay attention to and value this man, which is a positive sign.
Don't ignore the delicate emotions of women. When they are soft-spoken and quietly close to you, you should notice that they have genuine feelings for you. This is not trivial, you should take it seriously.
Women give you special nicknames
Women tend to show their true selves when it comes to their friends and girlfriends, but they usually maintain a certain amount of reserve and caution when it comes to dealing with men.
People tend to feel shy and shy when they first meet, but when they come into contact with time, especially when women are in front of the men they like, they can become as innocent and cute as children.
In this case, the woman will subtly give the man a unique nickname, both to increase the level of intimacy with each other and to show the outside world their right to independence.
Women tend to harbor romantic ideas. For them, a particular nickname is like an emotional symbol that binds two people together.
When a woman is truly in love with you, you will find that she likes to call you by a special nickname. And this nickname can only be called by her alone, and no one else can be called. This is what she uses to express her deep affection.
Most women add sweet nicknames to their phone contacts for the person they love or who is already in a relationship, such as baby, darling, etc. Some women also force their names to be changed to similar names.
In fact, it is also a way of asserting sovereignty. Although such a title is only superficial, it will make women feel happy and satisfied.
When you are called her person, that feeling is deeply engraved in your heart. In her heart, you have become the person she loves deeply, and this title hints at her affection for you.
Once women use this title to refer to men, they will unconsciously use the same address in their daily lives. This is important for building interactions with each other.
This natural expression, as well as the penetration and integration of all aspects of life, can truly convey the deepest love of women, without too many words and cumbersome forms.
Conclusion:
Love needs to be fought for by yourself. When a man gets along with a woman, he should not only observe the woman's behavior, but also pay attention to the woman's attitude towards herself. Only through careful observation and positive action can you seize the opportunity to fall in love. Men need to be brave enough to express their feelings to women and treat each other sincerely in order to usher in the beauty of love.
For example, when a woman is initially not interested in you, she will be cold and will not initiate contact with you. She will also use her full name when addressing you, which is very polite.
As time goes on, she will slowly become attracted to you, start chatting with you, and her tone will become softer. She will joke with you, sometimes even say something less serious, and call you by your name in a peculiar way. These are her ways of expressing her liking for you.
All in all, if you want to know if a woman likes you, a man just needs to pay attention to how he calls you when he chats with you on weekdays. If she doesn't have an interest in you, she probably won't even be able to call you by name. It's a simple but important way to see if women are interesting to you.
If a woman is emotionally active, she will not only want to contact you from time to time to discuss topics, but will also occasionally naughtily call you by cute addresses. Please stop ignoring her sincerity.