Have you ever had such an experience.
When you want to send WeChat to someone, you get a reply like this:
"×× turned on friend verification, you are not yet his or her friend. Please send a friend verification request before you can chat. ”
This is what I fear most in my feelings.
One had gone far, and the other was still waiting foolishly in place.
One person has started a new life, the other has not yet come out of the past.
How distant you are now, how close you were.
Until now he deleted you, your relationship has ended completely, and only you yourself are still thinking about it.
02
You were once inseparable, and now you will never see you again.
From the moment you delete your friends, you are not the same you you were before.
If it was deleted by someone insignificant, it would certainly not be so sad.
Even if he deletes you, you are still reluctant to delete the other party, and you are reluctant to delete the chat history that was once so warm in the dialog box.
But no matter how much you don't give up, your feelings still come to an end.
Someone said:
"When it is deleted by someone else, the system will not tell you,
Because I'm afraid you'll be sad.
When you delete someone, does the system ask "OK"?
Because I'm afraid you'll regret it. ”
The reality is that since something has happened, we have to accept it.
So, the best way to deal with a relationship that has been lost is to let go and let go of each other.
03
Friends that have already been deleted, don't add them back.
Adding back the deleted person will only bring a second disappointment.
Some people, after being deleted, want to add the other party back.
Thinking about how good it is for both sides to be able to reconcile and start over.
But many times, whether it is a friend, or a couple, a relative, but who has been deeply hurt by the other party, or even to the step of deleting friends, the wounds in the heart cannot be healed.
Because reconciliation does not mean the same as before.
Every time I see people's feelings from intimacy to determination, I feel sad.
The feelings between people are really too fragile, so fragile that if you touch them with your hand, they will shatter. If a relationship can continue, it is unlikely to go to the step of deleting friends.
04
Some people lose, but should feel fortunate.
In life, passers-by come and go, and you don't have to be too attached. Delete is deleted, how big a deal, there is no need to think.
Maybe the moment will be difficult, but I believe that time will make you see clearly.
There is still a long way to go, and those who don't care about you, there is no need to stay.
The person who stays with you in the end is the most precious, and it must be cherished