Online family life is the daily life of countless people complaining, the life of a new family composed of two people is not easy, marriage is a matter of two people, family life is not a simple matter of two people, there are various mother-in-law relationships, all kinds of concubine relationships, and some people will care about whether the sister-in-law at home is easy to get along with.
Really get along well, the days will be very comfortable, get along badly, the days are a kind of torment, if you want two people to marry happily, and finally accompany each other to the old, deal with the various relationships within the family, naturally is the top priority, "ten years to see the mother-in-law, ten years to see the daughter-in-law" in the mutual care, do you know what it means?
Ten years to see the mother-in-law
In the family of modern society, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seems to have a very sharp and profound contradiction, in China's thousands of years of history, those people are very bitter ten years of daughter-in-law to become a wife? It seems that it is not always the case, it is said that women suffer for women, since they have all experienced that stage, they must also be able to empathize, everyone wants their children to be happy, the woman's parents are this mind, the man's parents are not?
Ten years is only an expression of time, and the "Left Biography" says, "One kaoru and one pot, ten years still stink." "Ten years is to say that the time is very long, two people after marriage will live a long time, how can your mother-in-law look at you, can only be careful to get along with each other, after all, a lifetime of life is your two little mouths, sons marry into the door, practice in two, people who live a good life, are working hard, the relationship between mother-in-law is really not so big.
"Ten years to see the mother-in-law" said, that is, at the beginning of contact, there will definitely be a process of mutual adaptation, the mother-in-law here is actually looking at and reminding each other to pay attention to the meaning, since the elders of the family let their sons marry their daughter-in-law into the door, they will definitely hope that the days of the two children will become more comfortable, young people will inevitably do wrong things, and they also need some elders to remind.
The times are progressing, to say that the experience of life, many elders still experience more, can provide a lot of advice to the two newcomers, so that the new people's life is better, their care is sometimes just a kind of life advice, whether you can listen or not is your own business, of course, the times are developing, society is progressing, there is no generation gap is impossible.
This "look" word also has the meaning of the mother-in-law's care and protection, the life of two people is not easy, in life, how many happy families are indispensable to the care of the mother-in-law, a long time to live, how many happy families are under the supervision of the elders of the family, only to avoid the fragmentation of life, those because of some trivial issues of quarrels, many are under the persuasion of the mother-in-law, did not become irreconcilable contradictions.
When the woman marries the girl, many times worry that the woman is a vulnerable group, suffering in the man's family, in fact, when living a life, a good mother-in-law will often educate her son to be better for the daughter-in-law, and her own mood when she marries must also be able to feel the mood of the daughter-in-law at this time.
The mother-in-law here may also be a kind of expression of the relationship between the sister-in-law, after all, the mother-in-law also has the meaning of a married woman, the sister-in-law of the family will also get married, how to look at the sister-in-law or sister-in-law in the family, will bring no small impact on the family life of two people, no matter how they are relatives, they must hope that the two newcomers can live a good life, whose sister-in-law, not hope that their brothers can live a good life.
People say that "it is better to demolish ten temples than to destroy a marriage", and the mother-in-law of the family is all people who come over, don't they understand these truths? Only by making the appearance of the elders can we get the respect of the younger generations, this is the original way of life, time is the medicine to cure everything, all the beauty in life, and the warmth brought by family harmony.
Ten years to see the daughter-in-law
After marriage, the woman is the hostess of the new family, in life, many things must learn to be responsible, family life, women also have their own responsibilities, only such a life, is the original way of life, who married a daughter-in-law who will only lie every day, even take care of themselves can not do it, do not make trouble?
In the long-term relationship, two people run into each other, mutual adaptation, mutual care, in order to get the happiness they deserve, the mode of male and female protagonists, more is to tell that in the family, women are more meticulous than men, the care of the family will be better, only the home that two people struggle together is a warm harbor.
Women are also relatively more patient a lot of times, all say "mother and child nature", pregnant children born in October, must be closer to the mother, the mother will naturally have more advantages than men in educating children, the story of Meng Mother's three migrations tells everyone that when educating children, mothers will pay more attention to the grasp of details, in a family, the father plays a good role of the pillar, the mother plays the role of a good hostess, such a family should be perfect.
After a long time, whether the family can be sorted out better, others are more willing to say the merits of this woman, just like the famous sentence "Behind a successful man must stand a successful woman", the praised couples have women's contributions, which can not simply be said to be a kind of bondage, but a kind of family responsibility.
In "Children of the Qiao Family", Qiao Yicheng's first wife, Ye Xiaolang, I don't know how many people shout that she is not worthy of marrying Qiao Yicheng, Qiao Yicheng alone bears everything, thinking about how to make life better, even Ye Xiaolang's parents are treated like biological parents, and how does Ye Xiaolang take care of this family? Just want to quickly get out of this environment, get rid of the difficulties in her eyes, her eyes only have herself, no family and no Qiao Yicheng, such a family is doomed to be separated the moment she flies away.
When men are working outside, the most hopeful thing is that the rear is stable, the daughter-in-law's look is not to take care of someone, but to take care of this home, a stable rear, is the ultimate goal of the person who struggles in front, in order to make the family happy, only to sleep and forget to eat and struggle, if in the blink of an eye, the back of the home is gone, such a life is like no goal.
epilogue
Life is not easy, the stability of a family is not easy, since it is all the experience of life, why not let life develop towards a better place, the face of poverty can be solved by hard work, inner poverty, the need is to enrich themselves at all times, self-confidence and self-love people, will enjoy the inner richness.