On February 27, 2021, a special wedding was held in a rural area in Gaodian Town, Biyang County, Zhumadian City, Henan Province.
The bride looked to be in her twenties, dressed in a pink cotton jacket with a red flower on her chest, and was sitting on a stool wailing and crying.
The groom next to him was a middle-aged man in his fifties who greeted the guests while wiping the bride's nose with a tissue.
The girl avoided the groom's hand and continued to cry, and her cries were so loud that they attracted the attention of those who came to the wedding.
"Don't cry, you're here to enjoy the blessings, normal people don't have this treatment from you, you see, how good the groom is to you."
A middle-aged woman came up, patted her on the head, and comforted her with a smile on her face.
When the girl saw the woman, she immediately hugged her and made a constant piercing cry, as if she were resisting.
Seeing that the girl was so disobedient, the middle-aged woman broke away from the girl's embrace and walked out happily.
As she walked, she counted the brand-new bills she held, paying no attention to the girl's shouts.
What's going on here?
There are a pair of patriarchal parents
The bride, named Wang Xiaohua, was born on February 15, 2000, in a poor rural village in Gaodian Township, Biyang County, Zhumadian City, Henan Province.
Wang Xiaohua's parents were uneducated and had always adhered to the backward idea of emphasizing men over women.
Adhering to the principle of having many children and many blessings, the couple has been eager to have more sons after marriage and pass on the generations.
However, it was not until the third year of marriage that Wang Xiaohua's mother became pregnant with a child.
The couple had high hopes for the child, and they hoped that the first child would be a healthy and healthy big fat boy.
However, Wang Xiaohua's birth shattered the illusion of the two.
The couple looked at this little baby girl who kept crying and was very unhappy.
They had wanted to throw the child away, but the kind neighbor stopped them.
Neighbors told them, "It's illegal to throw children around and you're going to be jailed." ”
This sentence frightened the honest rural couple not lightly, dispelled the idea of losing their children, and left Wang Xiaohua at home.
Although they kept Wang Xiaohua, they still had a lot of concern for her.
Not long after Wang Xiaohua was full moon, her mother threw her on the bed, and she followed her husband to work in the fields.
She would only go home to feed Wang Xiaohua when she was eating, and even if Wang Xiaohua was so hungry that she cried, she didn't feel any pain.
When Wang Xiaohua was five months old, the cruel couple kept their children alone in their homes, and they brought gifts to relatives in town.
They felt that it was a great shame to go out with their daughter, so they fed her enough milk and locked her up at home.
At this time, Although Wang Xiaohua could not climb, he was already able to flutter with his hands and feet and use the ground.
She lay on the bed, constantly fluttering, and finally rolled out of the bed, and her head also hit a huge bag on the edge of the bed.
Wang Xiaohua cried out in pain, but her parents were not at home, and the neighbors were far away, so they couldn't hear her cries.
The young Wang Xiaohua cried alone in the room until she ran out of strength and stopped.
As she rolled out of bed, the small blanket on her body fell off her.
She wouldn't cover herself with a blanket, and she wouldn't climb into bed by herself and just lie on the ground and sleep for a night.
At noon the next day, the big-hearted couple finally returned home.
As soon as they opened the door, they found their daughter lying on the ground, blushing.
They thought the child was so naughty, so they scolded her and carried her back to bed.
When she put her daughter back on the bed, Wang Xiaohua's mother finally noticed the child's abnormality.
She touched Wang Xiaohua's forehead and found that the child had developed a high fever.
She had wanted to send her daughter to the village clinic for a check-up, but her husband stopped her.
Wang Xiaohua's father felt that the clinic in the village was too expensive, and it was enough to cool the child with cold water, without wasting money.
Wang Xiaohua's mother was persuaded by her husband to put a cold towel on the child's forehead and follow her husband to farm work.
However, she was worried about her sick child, and would come back every few hours to take a look and change a towel for Wang Xiaohua.
At dinner, Wang Xiaohua's mother touched her daughter's forehead and found that her daughter was still feverish.
She told her husband about it, and Wang Xiaohua's father finally came to the bed to see the child.
He noticed that Wang Xiaohua's lips were purple and his breath was weak, and he realized that something was wrong.
Therefore, the couple immediately sent Wang Xiaohua to the village health center for treatment.
The doctor examined Wang Xiaohua's body and prescribed anti-fever medicine to her before her body temperature returned to normal.
His parents were eccentric and raised by his grandmother
When Wang Xiaohua was eight months old, her mother was pregnant with her second child, and she ignored Wang Xiaohua even more.
She put Wang Xiaohua on the ground all day and let her crawl around by herself.
When eating, she spread a blanket on the ground and filled a small bowl with some rice and vegetables for Wang Xiaohua to eat on the ground.
Wang Xiaohua is too young, her fingers are not flexible, there is no way to use chopsticks and spoons, and she can only grab rice with her hands and eat it by instinct.
When Wang Xiaohua was more than one year old, she still couldn't talk and walk like other children of the same age.
At this time, Wang Xiaohua's mother had already given birth to a little boy, and the couple did not pay attention to their daughter's situation at all.
They took good care of their long-awaited son, fearing that he would be hurt in the slightest.
Wang Xiaohua is like a wild child, her father does not hurt, and her mother does not love.
They focused all their attention on their son and completely ignored Wang Xiaohua.
When his younger brother, who was more than a year younger than Wang Xiaohua, was already able to walk against the wall, Wang Xiaohua still had no way to speak and walk.
Her parents saw that their daughter was different, but they didn't want to waste money, so they never took her to the hospital for examination.
Wang Xiaohua's younger brother, doted on by his parents, developed an arrogant personality.
When he saw that his sister could only crawl on the ground, he punched and kicked Wang Xiaohua and often pulled her hair.
When Wang Xiaohua was beaten to tears, her parents would only scold her for not letting her brother go.
Wang Xiaohua's father is the second eldest, and her grandmother has been living with the eldest son and rarely cares about the affairs of the second son.
However, when the neighbors saw That Wang Xiaohua's younger brother was so fiercely bullying his sister at such a young age, they really couldn't see it, so they filed a complaint in front of Wang Xiaohua's grandmother.
Later, Wang Xiaohua's grandmother saw that this granddaughter was really miserable, so she took her to her side to take care of her.
Wang Xiaohua's grandmother took her out of her eldest son's house and moved to the old house.
She decided to take care of the child herself, and her two sons only needed to give her living expenses every month.
Although Wang Xiaohua's father preferred sons to daughters, he was very filial and immediately agreed to his mother's request.
When grandma saw that Xiaohua was three years old and could not speak or walk, she scolded her second son bitterly, and then began to teach her granddaughter carefully.
Grandma taught for five months, Wang Xiaohua still did not make half progress, not even the most basic ability to eat with a spoon.
The old man with rich experience in life found out the child's abnormality and immediately took Wang Xiaohua with his savings to the hospital in the town to check the situation.
However, the medical level of the hospital in the town is too backward to check the specific situation of the child.
Therefore, Wang Xiaohua's grandmother carried her by car to Zhumadian People's Hospital for examination.
The doctor gave Wang Xiaohua a comprehensive examination, and finally Wang Xiaohua was diagnosed with intermittent psychosis.
The doctor also told the elderly that when the child was young, he had a high fever and burned out his brain, so his IQ developed very slowly.
Grandma looked at this little girl sitting obediently on a stool, and her heart was very painful, and she did not understand why a good child had become like this.
This time the examination had already spent all the savings in Grandma's hands, and there was no way to give her follow-up treatment.
She told the second son's family about the child's condition, hoping that they would pay for the child's treatment.
However, Wang Xiaohua's parents felt that their daughter was just like this, as long as her son was healthy and healthy.
In desperation, Wang Xiaohua's grandmother could only dispel the idea of treating her granddaughter.
She was afraid that her granddaughter would always be like this, so she taught her to talk and walk over and over again.
Under the careful teaching of her grandmother, Wang Xiaohua finally learned to walk and eat with a spoon at the age of six.
At the age of seven, she was able to stumble and say simple words like "grandma," "hungry," and "pain."
Although the grandmother spent a lot of energy to teach her granddaughter, Wang Xiaohua still could not live independently, because her IQ was stuck at about three years old.
And, when she has a psychotic attack, her temper becomes very grumpy and sometimes runs around.
But when she returns to normal, she will become a well-behaved child, always following Grandma and making Grandma's little tail.
Grandma died and her parents married her to a 55-year-old man
In October 2020, the grandmother who took care of Wang Xiaohua for more than ten years passed away in her sleep.
Wang Xiaohua did not know what death was, she looked at the old man lying motionless on the bed, and thought that her grandmother was playing a game with herself.
She sat next to her grandmother, alone with the quilt and playing with it for a long time.
At noon, Wang Xiaohua was so hungry that she couldn't stand it, so she pushed her grandmother with her hand to shake her awake.
However, no matter how hard Wang Xiaohua tried, Grandma did not open her eyes.
Wang Xiaohua saw that her grandmother had been ignoring herself, so she sat on the bed and cried.
Grandma's house was very close to Uncle Da's house, and Uncle Da heard Wang Xiaohua's cries and rushed over.
It was only at this time that people found that this kind and kind old man had passed away.
Her two sons held a solemn funeral for her to express their respect and longing for her.
After her grandmother's death, Wang Xiaohua did not have the ability to live independently, and could only follow her parents back home.
Her parents simply could not take care of her patiently and meticulously like her grandmother, and Wang Xiaohua became a dirty wild girl again.
Her parents' family was small, with only two bedrooms, and the three younger brothers were reluctant to give up the room to their sister, so Wang Xiaohua could only sleep on the floor.
Even so, Wang Xiaohua's parents still feel that their daughter is an eyesore, and they think that she is lazy and lazy and does not work.
Later, they came up with a good way to send their daughters – to marry.
Wang Xiaohua's IQ is flawed, and she has intermittent psychosis, and her peers are not willing to marry her at all.
They ask the matchmaker, do not care about the man's personality, age, family lineage, just need to find a home for the daughter.
They regardEd Wang Xiaohua as a burden, they didn't care at all whether she would be happy in her future life, they just wanted to get rid of her quickly.
Later, after many inquiries, the matchmaker found a man named Zhang Qiang.
The man's family was poor and he used to work at a construction site in Guangdong.
Later, he injured his leg on the construction site, and could not continue to work, so he had to return to his hometown to farm.
In order to cure his legs, Zhang Qiang spent all the savings he had saved during his part-time job.
People saw that his family was poor and his legs were sick, and they were reluctant to marry their daughters to him.
He wandered like this for more than thirty years, and now he is 55 years old, until the matchmaker came to the door and introduced Wang Xiaohua to him.
The matchmaker was a kind person, and she told Zhang Qiang about Wang Xiaohua's situation in 1510.
Zhang Qiang didn't care about Wang Xiaohua's IQ problems, he just wanted to find someone to accompany him through the rest of his life.
Finally, in December 2020, Wang Xiaohua held a wedding with Zhang Qiang under the control of her parents.
On the day of the wedding, Wang Xiaohua seemed to know that her parents were going to abandon her, and she sat on the bench and cried.
Zhang Qiang saw that his wife had been crying, not only did not get angry, but gently wiped her snot and tears.
Wang Xiaohua's mother, dressed in a festive big red dress, stood to the side and watched all this with a smile on her face.
Later, Zhang Qiang gave Wang Xiaohua's mother a dowry of 10,000 yuan, and she went out happily to count the money, completely ignoring her crying daughter.
She was afraid of the gossip of the villagers, and explained to people, "Zhang Qiang is very good, I am very happy that Xiaohua can get married, and finally someone can take care of her for a lifetime." ”
Later, a young man saw Wang Xiaohua crying incessantly, so he filmed the process and posted it on the Internet.
As soon as the video was sent, it caused a heated discussion among netizens, many people sympathized with Wang Xiaohua's unfortunate experience, believing that this was an act of forced buying and selling, and some people said that the woman was still an underage girl, but married to an old man, which once caused heated discussion.
After the Gaodian Town police station learned of the incident, it also conducted an investigation.
After the police conducted a visit and investigation, it was found that the marriage was carried out in the knowledge of the two families, which did not constitute a violation of the law, and the woman Wang Xiaohua was 20 years old and not a minor.
However, the police also said that Wang Xiaohua had no capacity for civil conduct, so the marriage was an invalid marriage.
On December 5, 2021, the publisher of this video updated the recent situation of Wang Xiaohua and Zhang Qiang on Tik Tok.
Although the Civil Affairs Bureau did not give them a marriage license, the two still lived together.
Zhang Qiang was honest and generous, diligent and hardworking, and took good care of Wang Xiaohua after marriage.
He saw that Wang Xiaohua did not have new clothes to wear, and he also took her to the county town to buy several sets of new clothes.
He is very good at taking care of Wang Xiaohua, always cleaning her up clean, much more meticulous and thoughtful than Wang Xiaohua's parents.
After Wang Xiaohua became familiar with the environment of Zhang Qiang's family, she did not cry again.
Every day, she would follow Zhang Qiang, who went to work in the fields, and she would sit on the field and play.
When Zhang Qiang was about to finish his work and go home, she would carry a large bouquet of wildflowers and wild grasses home with him.
In Zhang Qiang's view, Wang Xiaohua is a small child who needs to be carefully cared for and carefully cared for.
Although these two people have not been together for a long time, they are very happy.
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