Author | Ru Fengjun Source | Rufeng Everyone (ID: rufengdajia)
Ending song: Hu Xia - Those Years
The ancients said: "The great things under the world must be done in detail." ”
Details see character, small things see people's hearts.
Those seemingly inconspicuous actions can often reflect the truest appearance of a person.
People who pay attention to the subtleties generally do not have a bad character.
Prompt response
Communicating with people, the most feared thing is that the message is sent out, and the result is that the stone sinks into the sea.
Prompt response is not only polite, but also a responsibility.
If you fail to reply in time for any reason, you should take the initiative to explain the reason.
Everything has an account, every piece has a fall, and everything has an echo.
Such a person has a sense of responsibility.
There is a sense of time
Mr. Lu Xun said:
"Life is based on time, wasting one's own time is equivalent to chronic suicide, wasting other people's time is equal to seeking wealth and killing."
In this fast-paced society, everyone's time is precious.
Punctuality is the most basic courtesy and respect for people.
Such a person, talk about credit.
Don't take advantage of it
The Book of Rites says:
"Coming and not coming, not being polite, coming and not coming, not being polite."
People are always mutual.
Don't take the efforts of others for granted.
Eating doesn't have to rush to pay, but you can take the initiative to AA, or ask back.
What should not be taken advantage of, do not take a penny.
Such a person has a pattern.
Be kind to strangers
A person's attitude towards strangers represents his true character.
Because they are strangers, they have no interest in us.
Attitudes toward stakeholders, depending on IQ and emotional intelligence;
Attitudes towards unrelated people depend on quality and cultivation.
If a person can be kind to strangers, he will be kind to those close to him.
Such a person is educated.
Do not expose people's shortcomings
The Disciple Rules say:
"If people have shortness, they must not reveal it; if they have selfishness, they must not say it."
Speak with a sense of proportion, see through not to say broken, everyone is better on the face.
Others can laugh at themselves, but you can't go along with them.
Such people have emotional intelligence.
Don't snoop on other people's privacy
The ancients said: "Don't look at incivility, don't listen to incivility." ”
Others enter the password, take the initiative to take a step back, look away;
Someone else is on the phone, don't make a lot of noise, and you shouldn't eavesdrop.
Don't be too curious about everything and learn to respect the privacy of others.
Such a person has a sense of boundaries.
Don't cause trouble for others
When you visit the door, you should say hello in advance.
Don't engage in "surprise attacks", and you should not go to the door empty-handed.
Just because you can do whatever you want, doesn't mean you can do whatever you want.
Don't treat other people's homes as your own.
No matter how good the relationship is, it can't cause trouble for others.
Such a person knows how to measure up.
It's not easy to be considerate of others
People with good character always have others in their hearts.
Don't rush to close the door when taking the elevator, wait for the people behind you.
Slow down as you drive past puddles and don't let the muddy water splash on pedestrians.
Snowy road slippery, give the delivery staff some time, do not easily give bad reviews.
It is often said that when a rose is given, the hand has a lingering fragrance.
Such a person is very kind.
Speech does not boast
Zeng Guofan said:
"Don't do anything out of the ordinary, don't talk about the reason for exaltation."
Talking is like doing things, and they must be put into practice.
Rhetoric will not solve practical problems.
A person's ability depends on his own efforts, not on his lips.
If you have some ability, just say a few words, don't brag.
Such a person is the most reliable.
Emotional stability
Temper tantrums are instinctive, and temper restraint is cultivation.
No matter what situation you are in, be the master of your emotions.
Control your emotions, your popularity will get better and better, and your life will become smoother and smoother.
Such a person has the dignity.
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