Ma Qingqing: Don't imagine, I've always had such a plan.
29 years old, older leftover girl. Oh no! Elderly leftover women. I still live with my parents.
I don't know when it started, no longer settled in every night when I had to go out, I had to answer the old mother's soul three questions: Where are you going? With whom? What time is it coming back?
For them, going out at this time means walking into the wolf's den. What they don't know, however, is that at 10 p.m., the nightlife for young people has only just begun.
Besides, it is still in Charity. Enshi!
When night falls, the various dynamic update frequencies in the circle of friends are calculated in seconds. Dinner table, late night bar, night running stroll, street wonders, street car night tour, high platform lookout city.
Living in such a circle of friends, I am nestled in the sofa at this time, and I am simply a scum that drags the entire Enshi nightlife hind legs!
#我要这样生活! Enjoy the freedom of movement of a true adult with absolutely private solitude.
I want to have big parties at home without worrying about taking care of the emotions of my family.
I want to raise cats and dogs and spiders at home! Plant flowers and plants, plant durian! As long as I want!
No one asked me to get up before 9 a.m., and no one asked me to change my socks the same day and wash them the same day.
No one demanded that toothpaste not be squeezed from the middle, and no one demanded that the meal must be eaten with a bowl by hand and not placed on the table.
No one asks that the quilt must be laid out after getting up, no one asks, just say so!
Zhang Wei: You never knew the concept of a house for a man.
I have been married to my daughter-in-law for more than a year, renting a house and getting married. I couldn't believe that the old man would actually agree to this marriage. Of course, the mother-in-law was angry enough.
I could tell that every time the landlord came to collect the utility bill, my daughter-in-law always had a sad face. I know it's not because of the amount of utility bills, but there's a very disgusting feeling in my heart. It feels like sending people under the fence hurts dignity.
I saw it, but there was no way.
Nice host, never raise the price for water and electricity. Greetings are always given during the New Year's Festival, but the more I do this, the more uncomfortable I am. There is a general feeling that the vulnerable are cared for.
Again, you never know what the concept of a house is for a man.
#我要这样生活! No matter how big or small, you have to have a small nest of your own. Don't worry about buying or not buying large appliances, because in your own home, you don't have to worry about moving.
Don't worry about the time of the family party, just when the landlord knocks on the door to check the water meter, after all, this is really a very, very, very embarrassing thing.
Don't worry about the home decoration can not be changed, their own home, want to smash it and tear it down.
The bottom line is that I can proudly say to my mother-in-law, yes, I have a room!
Zhuang Zhou: I don't know why I chose to work in Jingzhou at that time, not because the work was not good, but because I often think of Enshi, which I can't reach.
The university has a roommate, a native of Jingzhou. After graduation, he stayed in Enshi to work. That's right, that's my hometown.
Every time I talk to him, I always feel like I've found another version of myself. We swapped homes and places of work, and then lived off-site lives that were equally unsuitable.
Occasionally we talk deeply and make jokes. Why don't you discuss with your parents that our whole family moved to Jingzhou and your whole family moved to Enshi?
Of course, it's just a joke.
I have married a local daughter-in-law from Jingzhou. Moreover, looking at this work situation, basically the second half of his life will have to take root in Jingzhou.
For us, the hometown is a pure land, and going back occasionally is an inner washing, and for this second hometown, we are used to it, and we are used to it.
However, for the hometown, there is a lack of a small apartment that can go away. After all, that side is also home.
#我要这样生活! Settled in Jingzhou for my loved ones, but I will not forget my hometown.
I want to have a suite in Enshi, as long as I can put down my luggage, it doesn't matter if it's big or small.
Maybe one day, I am in a different place suddenly wet eyes, I would like to take my wife and children, open the quilt and carry the suitcase, a ticket can go.
Hometown is not someone's concern, it is a pure feeling. The same night, the same starry sky, but sleeping there, is completely different and stable.
Xiang Shuyi: Divorce, for a 36-year-old woman, requires a lot of courage. I struggled internally for 2 years and finally made this decision.
House, nothing. Kid, follow him. All I have left is some memories.
No, no, no, I'm not trying to express to you a miserable life after divorce. On the contrary, I feel that after the divorce, I have lived out my true quality of life.
Divorced, we were all calm, no quarrels, no retention. It seems to have signed a mutually beneficial and win-win business contract. That's all.
I'm really tired of marriage and don't want anyone to talk to me about love again. These two words, mention not to mention.
However, this does not mean that my life will not go on. A person can live a more sexy and delicate life.
How dashing is a woman who can live completely geographically and alone, without dependence on the outside world in life and spirit?
In the past, I didn't dare to think about it, but now, I have become my idol.
#我要这样生活! Be your own master and do your own joy. I have a taoyuan that no one can squeeze in anymore.
I would hold a glass of red wine in the middle of the night, jump into the couch or lie down in a chairlift and smile. Just as if nothing happened yesterday.
I would put a lot of study notes in the room, photos of play, and of course, my favorite lipstick.
I would put the name of each lovely person I met on the wall and look at the name to think about their story.
I would invite the women around me who were tired of feelings, take them to my house, pour them half a glass of juice, and listen to them tell their stories. It's like seeing who you once were.
#我要这样生活! I prefer to be just as delicate as possible, and I don't want to make my home look extra "generous". If I could, I think the smaller my home is, the better. Of course, although it is small, there should be everything that should be had. The shelves can hold a lot of books that I like. There is also a wall with photos of traveling out. There should be a staircase in the house, and the living room is the living room under the wall. Other than that, nothing else matters.
#我要这样生活! The windows in the home were too small. I had to install the entire façade as floor-to-ceiling glass windows, and when the night was dark, I could look through the window at the sea of lights. Lay another opaque curtain, close the curtain, and outside day and night; push open the curtains to welcome the sun all over the house. It would be better to have another dog.
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