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Zhang Xiaoli One-day narrative: winter vacation loneliness, fun in the bucket room - "girls' dormitory" reading trilogy

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Original Zhang Xiaoli New Nets Division 2022-02-02

Zhang Xiaoli One-day narrative: winter vacation loneliness, fun in the bucket room - "girls' dormitory" reading trilogy

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Zhang Xiaoli One-day narrative: winter vacation loneliness, fun in the bucket room - "girls' dormitory" reading trilogy

I am a high school Chinese teacher, and the lecture I drew when I joined the staff was "Xiang Ridge Xuanzhi" by Youguang. There is a passage in it that I particularly like. "The shelves of books are full, and the songs are sung, and the people sit silently, and there is a sound; and the court is silent, and the birds come to peck, and the people do not go." On the night of march and five, the moon is half walled, the gui shadow is mottled, the wind moves the shadow, and the shanshan is lovely. "Today, I will borrow the life of the old man in the "bucket room" of Xiangjixuan as the source of inspiration for the title of my article!

Affected by the epidemic, this year's winter vacation came early and suddenly. The arrival of the holidays did not make me happy, after all, this is a measure of last resort at special times. However, my children are still very happy. The "children" include high school children at school and two girls at home. I'm reluctant to criticize and blame them, especially the high school kids. After all, high school life is too hard, sudden holiday, or a vacation that is not sure when the school will start, from the perspective of children's desire for freedom and desire relaxation, it is understandable. Although he is a high school student, he is still a child.

My two daughters are even happier, the eldest has just entered the first grade of primary school, and often asks me whether the school has slides and other questions, which shows that she has not fully understood what the concept of elementary school is. The second is just two years old and has not yet entered kindergarten. But the little one will still articulate to me the happiness that "mom doesn't go to work" brings her. For a child like Erbao, who is very attached to his mother, what he wants is really too simple, that is, "mother is here". But for the mother who works, it is too difficult to be "in", especially the mother who is a high school subject teacher! At this time, I couldn't help but think of a sentence in Grandma Cai Gao's picture book "Bao'er": The most selfless and fearless thing in the world is not maternal love, but the love of children. Indeed, the more I calmed down and thought, the more I realized that children loved me more purely than I loved them.

At this time, the "Dream of the Red Chamber" in my hand also gave me such an answer.

Construct memories of reading Dream of the Red Chamber during adolescence

The holiday came early, and the homework was arranged in a hurry, but there was one homework that was arranged early, and this homework was to read "Dream of the Red Chamber" during the winter vacation. If, according to the concept in The Purpose of Education, when we assign students a learning task, we explain to them why it is important to do it. First of all, I would like to say to my children: As a Chinese high school student, it is necessary for us to construct the memory of reading "Dream of the Red Chamber" in adolescence. Memory is important because it can be ignited at any time.

Writer Bi Feiyu once said: I have always suggested that young people read "Dream of the Red Chamber", especially the only child, without reading, they will not understand China's clan relatives, they will not be able to understand the huge, invisible, mysterious China, they will not be able to understand why Chinese society is a "humane society", they will not be able to understand the warmth of "human society" and the evil of "human society".

In "Literature Faces Eternity", Bi Feiyu told a small story about himself and "Dream of the Red Chamber". "I was 19 to 23 years old in college in the Chinese department, and my teacher talked in class about how well written 'Dream of the Red Chamber' was, but I threw it aside before I finished the first chapter. After graduating from college, I wanted to give a lecture, afraid that the students would ask about foreign appearances, so I took it out again, and when I saw the thirtieth time, I really couldn't hold on. Finally, one day— by this time I was over 40 — when I picked up Dream of the Red Chamber again, I could say responsibly: in my reading career, no novel was better written than Dream of the Red Chamber.

Zhang Xiaoli One-day narrative: winter vacation loneliness, fun in the bucket room - "girls' dormitory" reading trilogy

So why did you think this novel was bad in the first place? I told myself: with my ability, before the age of 40, I am not worthy of others, and I have not found that others are good. It's like a guy proposes to his girlfriend at 19 and a 5-year-old boy will never have that thought.

So my answer is, don't panic, reading is a time-consuming thing. What does literature face? It is eternal. Therefore, for a writer, composure is more important than anything else. ”

I have to say that I have a similar feeling to Teacher Bi. In college, the teacher of "Introduction to Literature" gave a lecture, and every time he took "Dream of the Red Chamber" as an example to help us understand the difficult literary theory in the book, the teacher's example can be described as easy to hand. I couldn't read Dream of the Red Chamber and couldn't empathize with my teacher. But the teacher's intoxication with "Dream of the Red Chamber" was forever engraved in my heart.

I think that even if my children can't chew on "Dream of the Red Chamber" now, if I am intoxicated with the look of "Dream of the Red Chamber" and leave an impression on them, when they grow up in the next day, their life experience will be rich, and they will also discover the beauty of the Red Chamber from all angles! Mr. Jiang Xun, a researcher of "Dream of the Red Chamber", said: Good works can trigger people's reflection and thinking on their own lives.

"Dream of the Red Chamber" is exactly such a work! And if we combine "Dream of the Red Chamber" with our lives and the youth of students to read, it is no longer a masterpiece that children cannot read.

In the 33rd episode of "Dream of the Red Chamber", Bao Yu was beaten, and this plot is all familiar to us. The reason was that Bao Yu and a playing Zi Qiguan who sang Dan horns made a private friendship, and offended the Zhongshun Prince, who had no contact with the Jia family. Just when Jin Ju jumped into the well to commit suicide, Bao Yu's younger brother Jia Huan complained that it was because Bao Yu attempted to rape Jin Ju that Jin Ju gambled and jumped into the well. The two things came together, and the father did not ask questions and beat Bao Yu.

And the reader is very clear about what Baoyu has done, and will feel that his father has wronged him. If the father really thinks from the child's point of view, he will definitely ask about the situation; but the father makes such a big fire and does not go to the facts:

One is because he has never been optimistic about this son, which can be seen from Baoyu's first birthday. Readers who have read "Dream of the Red Chamber" know that when Baoyu was one year old, this father asserted that he would be a drunkard in the future, so we cannot see his father's love for Baoyu, and his father always disciplined him.

The second reason is that the father values the face of himself and the family more than the truth. Now that I read it again, this plot is still very sobering for me, who is engaged in education work, whether it is treating children or students, when they make us angry, we must think of the plot of "Baoyu being beaten". It is not that there can be no punishment, but that it is based on the fact that the truth of the matter is clarified. This will avoid many things that cause harm to the child due to rudeness. But even so, when Baoyu was finally preparing to become a monk, he still prostrated his head to this biological father in the snow to say goodbye.

At this time, it was morning, and I was holding "Dream of the Red Chamber" in my hand, while reading, commenting on the students' reading notes in the WeChat language learning group. And wrote the words of Grandma Cai Gao in the place of annotation, the child's love for parents, came more purely!

Of course, education requires the necessary and appropriate punishment. There is no punishment at all, which will create people like Xue Pan, the "dumb overlord" in "Dream of the Red Chamber". Xue Pan's family is an imperial businessman, a typical "rich second generation", killing people is like playing. Whatever he wanted, he had hardly ever missed.

In the fourth episode of "Dream of the Red Chamber", the story of Xue Pan killing his fiancé (Feng Yuan) in order to rob a woman abducted by a human trafficker (Yinglian). As the saying goes, children who lack family education will sooner or later be "picked up" by society. Xue Pan was later beaten up by Liu Xianglian, and this meal did not seem to be in vain, and for Xue Pan, it was also "how painful to understand.". Since then, Xue Pan has changed a lot. Teacher Jiang Xun said that he never felt that Xue Pan was a bad child, but his mother had a lot of responsibility for him.

Zhang Xiaoli One-day narrative: winter vacation loneliness, fun in the bucket room - "girls' dormitory" reading trilogy

Today is the twenty-eighth day of the Waxing Moon, tomorrow is the Chinese New Year's Eve. "Dream of the Red Chamber" shows us the "New Year" of Jia Fu in the fifty-third time. The New Year goods of Jia Province were paid by the head of the Black Mountain village of Ning Province, Wu Jinxiao. The list was very long, but he complained to Jia Zhen: "It is really not good to be a year old. Jia Zhen looked at the rent plan sent by Wu Jinxiao and said disapprovingly: "It is really really teaching the New Year again." He also talked about the fact that Rong Fu had added a lot of expenses in recent years, and he could not add some silver banknote industry, but he lost a lot, "If you don't want it, who to find!" The life we live now is really "boxwood as a hammer - decent on the outside and bitter on the inside."

On the surface, Jia Fu is beautiful, but the taste is only known to their own people. In life, we will inevitably feel envious of other people's lives, especially those born with the "golden key" in their mouths. However, "if you want to wear the crown, you must bear its weight", such a truth Wu Jinxiao can not understand, but our children should understand this, there are countless bitterness behind the scenery, understand this, the children's hearts will be calmer.

Reading "Dream of the Red Chamber", to a certain extent, is also reading our lives, and the different roles we play seem to be found in "Dream of the Red Chamber". Our students' impression of "Dream of the Red Chamber" will change with the deepening of reading, at least, they will no longer think that "Dream of the Red Chamber" is just a love story of Bao Daichao.

In the high school Chinese curriculum, reading "Dream of the Red Chamber" is a requirement of the high school Chinese curriculum standard.

Zheng Jianye, lecturer of the course "Sukhomlinsky Pedagogy" of the new network teacher, has this passage in the "Walker Whisper" on January 28, 2022: It can be used as a summary of my first part.

Walker Whisper (20220128-49)

Cherish the reading of youth

Writer Xiao Fuxing said:

Reading in the season of youth is indeed the most beautiful state of life, the best preservation and beauty of youth, and the best nutrition and culture medium of youth. It helps you lay the foundation of your life and subtly affects your life.

Scholar Zhou Guoping also said:

Adolescence is a critical period of spiritual growth and a critical period for developing a reading habit, and there is an intrinsic connection between the two. Through the reading of adolescence, what one really discovers is a colorful world of spiritual life of human beings, and tastes the joy of roaming in this world. From then on, the world had an unbreakable place on the map of his life, and would constantly call to him.

Zhang Xiaoli One-day narrative: winter vacation loneliness, fun in the bucket room - "girls' dormitory" reading trilogy

In the afternoon, the daughter "earns books" period

In the Punch Card on January 4 of the New Nets Division's "Listening, Reading, Painting" course, I wrote down the following text: The title is: "Earn books" through my own skills. At noon today, in my "bucket room", I read Jin Zi Meiling's little poem "If I Were a Flower" with my girlfriend:

If I were a flower

I'm going to be a good kid

I can't talk, I can't walk yet

How can I still be naughty like this?

But if someone comes along

Say I'm a nasty flower

I'll be angry and wither at once

I still can't be a good kid

I still don't want to become like a flower

Maybe it's the page beauty of the book that attracts the child, or maybe the beauty of the text that attracts the child. The daughter said, Mom, can you give me this book? If it had been before, I would have told her without hesitation: Yes! However, at noon today, I suddenly had an idea: "No, you have to "earn a book" by your own ability, and if you can read a certain book, then the book is yours." "And I also agreed with her that I would clean up the shelves again and mark the books my daughter earned." Then put her back on the bookshelf again. Earn a copy, put one. It is said to be a whim, but it is not. Just because of the books she bought back, her daughter naturally thought it should be hers. I don't want her to think that way, I want to tell her: what you have is earned back by your labor or talent. My daughter has earned a book called "Going to the River with Gamber." Hopefully, she, and I can hold on. I insisted on buying books, and she insisted on earning books.

The second book she earned was "The Little Rabbit Who Escaped home", the third book was a "Chinese Classic Recitation - Children's Song Recitation", and the fourth book was "The Uninvited Guest of the Little Bear's Family". One of the books she is earning is "Chinese Mythology and Stories" compiled by Teacher Nie Zuoping in the new education recommended reading list. Today she is reading "Yellow Emperor Zhan Xuan You", although the reading is not fluent, after reading the "long story", she read other short stories, there is a sense of weight.

The books that my daughter read were all "acquainted" with Teacher Xiaozhou, Group Leader Lu Xuesong, Group Leader Wu Yaoda and the students in the "Listening, Reading, Painting and Speaking" course, and it turned out that all they recommended were fine.

Zhang Xiaoli One-day narrative: winter vacation loneliness, fun in the bucket room - "girls' dormitory" reading trilogy

Bedtime story time

My bedroom is called "girls' dormitory" by my husband, because both girls choose to sleep with me, which is also a place for us to read daily, although it is a "bucket room", but it is here with them to "bathe" for the spirit. Before going to bed, my daughter always likes to let me tell stories. Early in the day, I would choose to read picture books to them. From the "Listening to Reading And Painting" course, I learned a concept: picture books are read by adults to children, not by children themselves. But it's almost 10 o'clock now, and I can only turn off the lights to tell the story. Because I just exchanged "Dream of the Red Chamber" with the students in the language group, it happened to be the first time. So, I was inspired. Considering that they were young and the story needed to be simple and vivid, I told them a story of a stone falling in love with grass.

The story begins: once upon a time, the sky was supported by four large pillars. Two gods who loved to fight broke one of the pillars during a fight, and a big hole appeared in the sky. Think about it, what would happen if there were a hole in our house? Is it leaking wind and rain? The house is broken and needs to be repaired. There were holes that day, and it brought many disasters to the earth, and it was even more necessary to make up for them. At this time, a goddess appeared, and her name was Nuwa. She collected five-colored stones and refined them into thirty-six thousand five hundred and one stones, ready to make up for the heavens. When she finished making up the day, there was a stone left. This stone felt that other stones could go to make up for the heavens, but he did not have the ability to be selected, and he was very sad. So it practiced and played around. One day, it came to a fairy who was in charge of human emotions and took up a position (the attendant of the gods). When he had nothing to do, he often walked on the bank of a river (the Western Spirit River), and one day he encountered a red fairy grass (Daizhu Immortal Grass), which grew very cute, and he fell in love with this pearl grass and watered it with water every day by hand. Over time, the grass turned into a pretty girl. She wanted to thank the stone. When she learned that this stone was going to go down to the world to become a human being, she was ready to go down with it and return the tears of her life to it. It is precisely because Nuwa used five-colored stones to make up for the sky, we can now see the brilliant and colorful sunset in the evening. The story is over!

The daughter said, Mom, the mythological stories I read also have a goddess who makes up for the heavens. I said in her ear again, when you grow up reading "Dream of the Red Chamber" read by your mother, you will still meet Nuwa. As a childhood daughter, her impression of "Dream of the Red Chamber" is; the title of the book. I think that's enough.

The German writer Hesse wrote in "Reading": Everyone should start reading, understanding and loving books where he feels most natural.

This most natural place of mine comes from the picture book, from "Listen to the Reading of The Picture", from the new net master.

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Zhang Xiaoli One-day narrative: winter vacation loneliness, fun in the bucket room - "girls' dormitory" reading trilogy

Author: zhang xiaoli, 212897, Wuxiang Middle School, Changzhi City, Shanxi Province.

Editor: Li Li

Review: Li Yong

Zhang Xiaoli One-day narrative: winter vacation loneliness, fun in the bucket room - "girls' dormitory" reading trilogy

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