Recently, a video of a Doctor in Nanjing", "Tiger Dad", forcing his 7-year-old daughter and 5-year-old son to learn advanced mathematics and literature and literature has become popular on the Internet. While he was grumpy in teaching, he also frequently used insulting words to insult and beat children, which shocked many netizens.
And this kind of "violent ripening" education method reminds people of the former "genius girl" Zhang Yiwen.
She was 4 years old and could read a thousand words, and at the age of 10, she was admitted to college, but she was repeatedly rejected by the employer when she graduated, and finally fell into the situation of a monthly salary of only 1500 yuan.
When looking back at her life experience, it is inevitable to feel heartache and sigh: "The fall of this genius girl may have long been doomed." "So, what did she go through?
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In 2007, Zhang Yiwen was born into an ordinary family in Shangqiu City, Henan Province.
Her father, tāo, was intelligent and studious from an early age, and was quite insightful in literature, and he often compared himself to the "contemporary Lu Xun" for publishing articles critical of society.
After the birth of his daughter, Zhang Minhan put all his thoughts into his daughter.com.
At a young age, Zhang Yiwen followed her father every day from morning to night, and by the time she was 4 years old, she had already learned thousands of Chinese characters.
In the blink of an eye, Zhang Yiwen reached the age of school, and Zhang Mintao, who traveled to many places, did not find a school for his daughter that he was satisfied with, so he immediately decided to open his own private school and personally teach his daughter's knowledge.
In this way, Zhang Mintao founded a private school called "Saint Child Private School" in Shangqiu, where he and his wife taught together.
Zhang Mintao also customized a unique learning plan for her daughter, and every day, her daughter had to accept a lot of new knowledge. The cruel learning and training seems to be quite effective, Zhang Yiwen has completed all the contents of primary school when he was 6 years old, which makes Zhang Mintao and his wife have a special sense of achievement.
Subsequently, Zhang Minhan bought back the middle school textbook for his daughter and planned to let her take the college entrance examination within two years.
In order to quickly achieve this goal, Zhang Mintao only let her daughter learn the knowledge of science, and never let her daughter contact history, politics, geography and other disciplines.
Zhang Yiwen, who is only 7 years old, gets up at 5 o'clock every morning to memorize words, and then undergoes high-pressure learning training in his father's private school.
After lunch, Zhang Yiwen only had an hour's lunch break, and then she had to study until ten o'clock in the evening to rest.
In Zhang Yiwen's world, it seems that there is nothing else to do except the study plan arranged for her by her parents.
She could not play like other children, and the tense state of energy every day made Zhang Yiwen completely lose the happiness she should have in her childhood.
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Zhang Mintao never cared about his daughter's small emotions, after all, time is not waiting for anyone, in his view, learning is the first task.
After more than two years of hard work and training, Zhang Mintao believes that his daughter has reached the level of reference to the college entrance examination, and began to register for the college entrance examination for his daughter Zhang Luo.
At this time, Zhang Yiwen was only 9 years old.
Because she did not officially go to school and did not have a student registration, the registration for the college entrance examination was greatly restricted, but all this did not bother Zhang Mintao.
In order for his daughter to successfully participate in the college entrance examination, he entrusted the relationship to issue a certificate of equal education for her and successfully registered her daughter.
But unfortunately, Zhang Yiwen only scored 172 points and was not admitted to any college.
For his daughter's failure this time, Zhang Mintao was not discouraged, he analyzed the reasons, but also summed up the experience, and also sent his daughter to a college entrance examination remedial institution to make up for cultural knowledge, and decided to fight the college entrance examination again next year.
After a year of tempering, Zhang Yiwen took the college entrance examination again at the age of 10, this time, she was admitted to Shangqiu Institute of Technology with a score of 352 points, and was a three-year college.
For a time, the news of Zhang Yiwen's admission to college aroused widespread concern in the society, and the 10-year-old girl was also crowned with the title of "genius girl" and was talked about.
But more people questioned this, believing it to be hype, and even reprimanded Zhang Mintao for using his daughter as a "living advertisement" to promote his training class. What's more, after the child enters the university, a series of practical problems will come to the face, which inevitably makes people sweat for Zhang Yiwen's future.
In the face of outside questions, Zhang Mintao behaved very calmly, because he had already planned his daughter's life: "13 years old to upgrade the book, 20 years old to graduate with a doctorate, and then engage in scientific research, into a relatively high-class society." ”
So, what kind of life did Zhang Yiwen live after entering the university? Can she really go on as her father wishes?
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Zhang Yiwen, who first arrived at the university, seemed very out of place.
Due to her young age, there was a clear generation gap between her classmates and her, and everyone did not have much intersection with her, and Zhang Yiwen was always alone.
Because Zhang Yiwen has never received compulsory education systematically, her basic knowledge is not solid, and she often feels restless because she cannot keep up with the rhythm of the teacher's curriculum.
In her sophomore year, Zhang Yiwen had to transfer to her hobby animation design major due to her difficult study.
It is said that interest is the best teacher, which is not false at all. After changing majors, Zhang Yiwen performed very well in his homework. In July 2020, Zhang Yiwen successfully graduated from Shangqiu Institute of Technology.
After successfully graduating, Zhang Yiwen did not seek a good future for herself, but repeatedly ran into walls in society, and even no company was willing to hire her.
At this time, the 13-year-old could only come to her father's private school and become a training teacher, with a salary of only about 1500 yuan a month.
As for Zhang Yiwen's future path, Zhang Mintao still did not admit defeat, he vowed: "I plan to let my daughter teach primary school for two years in my private school, and then apply for an undergraduate or graduate school in animation design in English-speaking countries." ”
From childhood to adulthood, every decision Zhang Mintao made for her daughter did not take into account her feelings and opinions. But now Zhang Yiwen has her own ideas, she has become rebellious, taciturn, and even often blames her father for influencing her life.
But the terrible thing is that Zhang Mintao still does not think so, and he also plans the path of life for his 10-year-old son: he completed high school courses in three years, and was admitted to the junior class of Xi'an Jiaotong University at the age of 13...
He firmly believes in his iron-blooded chicken baby policy, but ignores the "seedling-fueled" type of education, which will bring irreversible harm to children.
The French genius Rousseau once said:
"Nature wants children to be like children before they become adults, and if we disrupt this order, we will produce some precocious fruit that is neither plump nor sweet, and which will soon rot."
"Hoping for a son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix" is the long-cherished wish of every parent.
But as parents, we must understand that children who are "slow to raise" go slowly and go far.
Every child is the seed of a flower, they have their own flowering period, but also ask parents to take care of it carefully, give sunshine, wait for the flowers to bloom! Text/Axiaono