1. Jokes about crossing the line with the opposite sex
When getting along with the opposite sex, we should pay special attention to the sense of boundaries.
No matter how good the relationship is, jokes should be measured so as not to cause people to be disgusted.
Casually using hands and feet on the opposite sex is a manifestation of extreme disrespect for the opposite sex.
In this kind of person, emotional intelligence is often very low.
Never considering other people's feelings, and getting along with them will only make people feel uncomfortable being offended.
Whether it is excessive physical contact or ambiguity in speech, it crosses the appropriate social distance between friends of the opposite sex and makes the original pure feelings deteriorate.
2. Make fun of someone else's privacy
People who joke about a person's privacy not only have low emotional intelligence, but also lack empathy.
Even some people will treat other people's privacy as a joke after tea and dinner, and if the other party is angry and turns his face, he will accuse the other party of "this joke can't be made."
In fact, it is not that others "can't joke", but that he is "joking wrong".
Everyone has secrets that no one knows, and as a friend, you should keep these secrets for him, rather than using them as jokes and sprinkling salt on each other's wounds.
3. Make fun of someone else's looks
In life, there are always some people who take pleasure in ridiculing other people's appearance:
"Look at your belly, how many months pregnant?"
"What are you afraid of when you walk at night, you look so safe."
"You're this tall, I'm afraid you don't have dwarfism."
People who like to joke about other people's looks, ostensibly to show their humor and closeness to each other, are actually eager to belittle others to gain a sense of superiority.
Because of the good relationship, I care more about what the other party says and do not want to be hurt by my best friend.
I would like to say that people with high emotional intelligence will take into account each other's face no matter how much they play, and no matter how much they do not choose their words, they will not hurt each other's dignity.
4. Make fun of someone else's family
Family is an important existence for everyone and needs to be cherished and guarded with heart.
You can complain a thousand times, but you don't allow others to say that your family is not good.
When family members are ridiculed and denigrated, it is often worse than being insulted themselves.
Therefore, friends play between each other, make trouble, and never hurt each other's family. Relationships stop at friends, and jokes should stop at friends.
People who joke about other people's families not only have low emotional intelligence, but also lack politeness and education.
Treating a friend's family, whether they are not acquaintances or have a certain amount of contact and understanding, they are not qualified to judge.
Respecting a friend's family is a kind of high emotional intelligence and the most basic education of being a person.
Jokes that lack a sense of proportion are the terminators of relationships.
No matter who you get along with, remember: don't cross the line with the opposite sex, don't expose other people's privacy, don't make fun of other people's looks, and don't tease other people's families.
Keep the "red line" of these 4 jokes, and don't be a person with low emotional intelligence in the eyes of others.
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