People who go home for the New Year are lucky, and the peace of this year, from the moment they step into the door,
It's completely confirmed.
To describe it in warm words, this is a gift of fate, a reward for a year of hardship.
And if you understand with realistic experience, the matter of going home for the New Year, in today's era of fading taste,
It has become an inseparable, but not exciting, but also not exciting life scene:
On the one hand, we are pleased with the peace of mind within our homes.
On the other hand, we also begin to find ourselves out of place with this world.
It has become an irrefutable and unexplainable fact.
I haven't seen it in a year, and everyone has something to say in their hearts.
The words in everyone's heart are often words in the words.
Back home, around relatives and friends, chanting blessings, but more,
Still care about whether you are doing well or not,
Your good is not what they want and need to be good.
A few calls to the New Year not sooner rather than later, greetings that are not easy to see in a year,
The polite inquiry behind this would rather just understand the scene words for the sake of understanding.
During the New Year, the festivities in the circle of friends seem to be naturally hot to the sky,
In this warm and somewhat heart-wrenching picture and congratulations, Panbi,
It has also become a kind of conspiracy with a shell of good wishes.
Some people say, Oshima, do you think too badly of people?
In the New Year, everyone is happy and happy, why bother?
In fact, once people are lively, it is easy to compare, which has long become a well-known secret.
It's like some people, from birth, their parents take it out and compare,
If you live well, you will get praise, but at the same time you will bear more pressure for these praises.
If you have a bad life, some overt and covert criticism will follow, and whether you receive it or not will not affect the fragmentary thoughts of those behind you that cannot be stopped.
So this leads to a phenomenon:
We are willing to understand the parents who can't talk endlessly with a kind eye, but at the same time we don't want to let ourselves participate in it, because there are some things we have to laugh to accept, if we don't laugh, we will appear to be small-minded and mean, but those really despicable ideas are often hidden in these laughter, we can't break, because if it is broken, it will often be eaten back, and because of the influence of customs and habits, in this season that requires people to be happy from the heart,
Any kind of "not harmonious enough" sound will be infinitely amplified.
This is why more and more people, in addition to greeting their families when they return home, there is nothing to communicate with their families, and they can't finish talking about it without salty words, but after talking about it for two sentences, they are more willing to go back to the house to brush their mobile phones and do what they like, because everyone understands that some topics, they are the protagonists, but they are also dramas, on the stage of this topic, they must consciously please the "audience", because there is more than one place in the play, and the contest between the play and the play, It is the audience's oral talk:
There is nothing to say, not indifference, but I don't want to say too much, talking about my own difficulties, talking about my own hardships, talking about the sufferings that only I can understand if I have experienced them.
So instead of talking, it's better to laugh,
Understand or not, and there is no need to talk deeply.
Admittedly, we don't need to think everyone is so bad.
But we must not ignore the lack of friendliness and quality in the group because most of them are good people.
Maybe we know who they are, maybe everyone knows,
But the traditional idea of forgiveness and forgiveness makes most people choose to forgive:
"It's the New Year, and it's lively."
I do not want and have no right to criticize people for choosing to be tolerant and understanding on the occasion of the Spring Festival, because of their joy and friendly choice,
But those who choose to be alone outside the lively atmosphere,
I believe that in their hearts, they also hope that this year can be peaceful and festive:
When the kindness of most people makes the world look perfect enough,
Whether it's a lively reunion or a solitude,
They're all in their own way.
Go and savor this "hard-won" Spring Festival.