In the TV series "Forensic Qin Ming", there is such a line: You think kindness is easy, kindness is too difficult, kindness pulls out teeth, is weakness.
Kind people always like to think about others, good people always like to tolerate and accommodate, and good people always like to complete others' grievances.
1 Kind people always like to tolerate accommodation
In the old movie "Xiyingmen", Qiangying's husband Renwen is a kind and honest person, he does not like his wife's selfishness and domineering, but the kind he does not want to have conflicts with his wife, blindly tolerates, let his family suffer a lot of grievances, and finally Qiangying feels that her husband is easy to grasp, and even made his own family eat dumplings, let Grandpa eat tortillas, Grandpa was heartbroken, denounced Renwen's weakness and incompetence, and then ran away from home, running to the small field house to sleep alone.
The kind Renwen can't bear it, beats up Qiangying, and makes a divorce, the domineering Qiangying encounters the resistance of the kind Renwen, and when she knows that she can no longer control Renwen's kindness, she also chooses to reflect on herself and admit her mistake.
So as there is a saying: kindness sometimes needs to be a little sharp.
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Good people always like to fulfill the wrongs of others
In the TV series "Burn It, Firebird", when Yanran went to college, she fell in love with Ling Kang, and once she took her boyfriend home, and her blind sister also liked Ling Kang. Yanran was in great pain.
Her sister has been blind since she was a child, and she has always given everything to her sister from childhood to adulthood, she feels that her sister is pitiful, and her favorite boyfriend should also give it to her sister? After a painful struggle, she chose to quit and fulfill her sister.
She was a librarian, met An Chengyuan who borrowed books, they fell in love, when Yanran brought An Chengyuan home again, An Chengyuan was also deeply touched by the self-pity of Qiaomei, so that Yanran misunderstood Qiaomei, the kind she felt that she could no longer bear it, bravely said it, the sister also realized her own self-pity, affected her sister's feelings, and married Ling Kang.
Perfection also has a limit, and fulfillment without principles will not only wronged oneself, but may also harm others.
Man can be kind, but don't be kind without principles, kindness without principles is cowardice; kindness sometimes requires wisdom, and unintelligent kindness is stupidity.
