Wen / Ba Jiu Ling
The plan of the year lies in the spring, the new year, have you made a new plan? Is it to acquire a new skill, read n books, or run every day and lose n pounds of meat?
Or, in fact, the previous year's plan, you did not complete a single one, cross out "2021", write "2022", you can be used as a New Year's plan?
Why should such a plan be established again?
The ideal PDCA Deming loop looks like this: Plan Plan—Do Execute—Check Check—Act Processing.
The real PDCA self-deception cycle is this: Plan (I want to amaze everyone) - Delay delay (to be said later) - Cancel cancellation (tired and tired) - Apologize apologize (born as a human being, I am sorry).
For the New Year, don't lie to yourself.
Recently, the minibus read a book called "Hate Things to Kill and Don't Do" (not recommended to read, just remember the title), and got a reverse idea: instead of making a plan and not being able to do it, it is better to list what you don't want to do, and then gradually clear them from life.
The author, Kanekawa Hsien-kyo, also mentions some principles:
The focus is on "whether you want to or not", not "can you or can't". For example, you "don't want" to squeeze the subway, but "can" squeeze the subway, this kind of hate but in the state of endurance will consume your passion, give up resistance will only be more and more, life will become "I did not want to do, but had to do."
If you really don't want to take the commuter train, don't think about whether you can do it or not, but think about "how to not take the commuter train".
Divide the things you don't want to do into "don't do it now" and "don't do it in the future." Today, you don't want to squeeze the subway can be completed immediately, you don't want to squeeze the subway again, but you need a set of plans, a different way of traveling, a change of residence, or a change of job - maybe you don't want to squeeze the real idea behind the subway, is not to go to work, do not want to go to work behind the other reasons.
Regularly collate your "don't want to make a list". Cross out the things you don't do anymore so you have more energy to focus on what you want to do.
This list of people who don't want to make a list may be just another kind of self-deception, but the minibus feels that it may as well give it a try. The focus may not be on executing the list, but on making the list, going through the list over and over again, reminding yourself not to let go of the "subtle incongruities."
So I asked my colleagues in the editorial department, in 2022, what they don't want to do, let's take a look
You are also welcome to be in the comments section and say what you don't want to do again in the New Year.
Author | Ba Jiu Ling | When the value is edited | Li Mengqing
Responsible Editor | He Mengfei | Editor-in-Chief | Zheng Yuanmei | Image source | VCG