"I've made the mistakes that a lot of men all over the world do."
In 2000, Jackie Chan said this "classic quote" at a press conference.
The wrong name is "Wu Qili" and "Wu Zhuolin".
These two men, one was his lover and the other was his illegitimate daughter.
From this day on, they all became a stain on his life.
Wu Qili, who wants to force the palace to ascend to the throne, "the bamboo basket hits the water empty",
Jackie Chan directly shouted to cut off his extramarital affair with Wu Qili and vowed never to recognize their mother and daughter.
From birth, Wu Zhuolin laid the foundation for his life of abandonment.
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Wu Qili is also a child who grew up in a single parent environment.
When she was one year old, her parents divorced and she was raised by her mother.
Wu Qili's mother is Zheng Liming, a career-oriented strong woman.
The failed marriage made her blame her daughter for all her mistakes.
She even said evil words to her daughter, "No one wants you to be a ji." ”
Wu Qili has not been very close to her mother since she was a child, and the relationship between the two is estranged.
She hated her mother, but she couldn't do without her,
I couldn't imagine that in a few decades, she would become a mother like her mother.
When she was young, Wu Qili had long legs and a beautiful face, and just graduated from high school, and won the championship in the "Miss Asia" beauty contest.
Although there are doubts about her champion having a shady scene, it is her mother who is behind it.
But this does not affect her from "holding a beautiful crime".
She has starred in "Heroes of Central", "Winner is King", "Two Houses and One Wife", "Flying Girl", "92 Call Girls" and other films and televisions.
As a newcomer, Wu Qili's acting road can be described as smooth.
If it were not for the fact that she had to "die", Wu Qili's career may be unlimited.
But she is arrogant, playing a big card in the crew, casually arriving late and leaving early,
A newcomer, the pomp and circumstance is more than some big-name artists,
The people in the crew complained bitterly, and forced to do so, ATV banned her.
A good card, but it was played by yourself.
Career is like this, and so is feelings.
Before meeting Jackie Chan, she and Ye Yuqing's nephew, Ye Chongren, the general manager of Feitu (the predecessor of the Emperor) Records, once developed to the point of cohabitation.
But all this stops at the emergence of Jackie Chan.
Wu Qili and Jackie Chan met at a party,
One is a young girl with a flower face and a moon, and the other is an international superstar with a successful career.
When the two look at each other, their feelings are out of control.
Wu Qili filmed very late every day, the stars hung all over the night, and there were only a few lights on the road.
Jackie Chan sat in the car, holding Wu Qili's favorite supper in his hand, quietly waiting for her to finish her work.
Every morning, as soon as Wu Qili opened her eyes, Jackie Chan had already packed breakfast and waited downstairs.
Jackie Chan invited the crew to dinner, Wu Qili did not arrive, and no one could move chopsticks.
Wu Qili's favorite dishes he kept in mind,
As soon as Wu Qili came, the first thing he did was to wait for Wu Qili to eat.
Jackie Chan held a party in the company, and he appeared with Wu Qili.
The party was full of big people with heads and faces, and no one dared to leave the scene early.
Only Wu Qili left without a word because she was tired,
Jackie Chan also carefully asked her, is it uncomfortable to leave so early?
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Such thoughtfulness and gentleness appear almost every day.
The fierce attack comparable to the "overbearing president" is rarely resisted by girls.
Not to mention Wu Qili, who has lacked love since childhood.
Therefore, knowing that Jackie Chan has a family, she still ran to Jackie Chan like a "moth to the fire".
Although Jackie Chan has a wife Lin Fengjiao, he is like "a wild wolf that is raised in herding".
Even his son Fang Zuming couldn't see him a few times.
In the whole decade from 2004 to 2014, Fang Zuming only ate with his parents once.
Not to mention Lin Fengjiao, his wife who was guarded day and night.
The day after Jackie Chan married Lin Fengjiao, he regretted that the two were married to Fengzi.
Jackie Chan has always felt that Lin Fengjiao has calculated herself,
The two were married for 18 years, and he never gave Lin Fengjiao a single property.
All the festivals, he used to accompany Wu Qili.
The two spent Christmas, Mid-Autumn Festival, and birthdays together.
Jackie Chan's pampering made Wu Qili gradually lose herself.
She wanted to hold this man in her hands completely,
Instead of being photographed in the same tour, you can only use the excuse of "brothers and sisters of the opposite sex" to refute the rumors.
Watching Jackie Chan shut up and not mention marrying himself back to the door,
Wu Qili finally used a faint move,
She wanted to be like Lin Fengjiao, "the son depends on the mother", forcing the palace to ascend to the throne.
In 1999, Wu Qili openly announced in an interview that the father of the child was Jackie Chan.
She wanted to rely on this to hold Jackie Chan tightly in her hands,
Unexpectedly, it was self-defeating and pushed Jackie Chan into Lin Fengjiao's arms completely.
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Wu Zhuolin was a mistake from birth.
Her mother only regarded her as a tool to "force the palace",
I want to use the power of public opinion to force Jackie Chan to obey.
Jackie Chan was really happy when he first learned that Wu Qili had a child.
But not happy that Wu Qili bore children for him,
Instead, he wanted to divorce Lin Fengjiao.
He thought in his heart that as long as Lin Fengjiao scolded himself, he would justly file for divorce.
But Lin Fengjiao not only did not scold him, but also comforted him,
"You first appease others, don't hurt people, don't let people hurt us, you want me to stand up, I can stand up at any time."
Lin Fengjiao, who did not play the card as expected, instantly confused Jackie Chan.
His wife's generosity made him feel guilty, and it was only then that he realized, "How can I be so bad!" ”
After planting a pit on Wu Qili's side, Jackie Chan felt more and more about his wife's difficulty.
In 2000, Jackie Chan said the scumbag quote that "men all over the world will make mistakes", and after breaking off relations with Wu Qili's mother and daughter, he returned to his wife Lin Fengjiao.
In order to make up for his wife's difficulties, Jackie Chan changed the beneficiaries of his will to the names of Lin Fengjiao and his son.
In the depths of her heart, she truly accepted Lin Fengjiao's mother and son,
As for Wu Qili's mother and daughter, they were pulled into the blacklist and had no contact.
Men are much tougher than women.
How could Wu Qili not have thought that her mother's tragedy would repeat itself in her own body.
The sweet words of the past are like a big joke.
In the seventh month of Wu Zhuolin's pregnancy, Wu Qili's amniotic fluid broke.
She thought she was urinating incontinence in the barbershop,
The hazy sky pressed against her heart,
She lay in the hospital room for a full 48 hours.
Wu Zhuolin was not full-term when he was born, thin and weak like a cat who could not scream, curled up in an incubator.
The doctor told Wu that the child may not survive.
But Wu Zhuolin still stubbornly survived,
Although no one welcomed her birth.
Jackie Chan is determined to clear the relationship with their mother and daughter,
Zheng Liming brought the mother and daughter back to Shanghai.
Zheng Liming was angry about her daughter's stupidity, and she couldn't turn a blind eye to her daughter.
Just like many years ago, she still spilled her anger on her daughter.
Wu Qili had no money and could only come to her mother every month to ask for living expenses.
Zheng Liming slowly sprinkled the money on the ground and let Wu Qili pick it up one by one.
When Wu Qili bent down to collect the money, Wu Zhuolin watched quietly from the side.
But Wu Qili did not bend her spine at this point.
She learned to start her own company and do business.
Little by little, he escaped his mother's control.
Her reflex made Zheng Liming furious.
In the last six months of Wu Qili's departure from Shanghai,
Every day, the house is locked and a chair full of thick debris is topped,
Because Zheng Liming often runs with a kitchen knife in the middle of the night,
Forced Wu Qili with a knife to find Jackie Chan.
Wu Qili did not want to, so she took a kitchen knife and slashed everywhere.
The mother and daughter hugged each other tightly and sobbed quietly.
In 2015, Zheng Liming died unexpectedly, but her nightmare-like impact on her daughter was far from dissipating.
"Happy people use childhood to heal a lifetime, and unfortunate people use a lifetime to heal childhood."
Wu Qili resented her mother, and involuntarily became a mother-like person.
She sees her daughter as the only spiritual pillar.
The love for his daughter was almost crazy.
Until Wu Zhuolin was 9 years old, she had to carry her daughter to the toilet.
When Wu Zhuolin was 11 years old, she also had to dress her daughter herself.
She sent her daughter to an aristocratic school in Shanghai, and the annual tuition fee was more than 100,000 yuan.
Just like the mother firmly controls her own life, she also firmly controls the life of her daughter.
There is no room for resistance.
When Wu Zhuolin was 6 or 7 years old, he was greedy and disobedient.
Wu Qili grabbed her daughter and beat her, and the fight was not finished,
I also want my daughter to put a thick copy of "Ci Hai" on her head and can't put it down.
Wu Zhuolin had to top it for more than two hours.
If Wu Qili is not satisfied, she will also use the belt to directly pump her daughter's thighs and ass.
She also has strict requirements for her daughter's schedule.
If Wu Zhuolin had not slept more than 11 o'clock, Wu Qili would take a thick piece of paper and let Wu Zhuolin keep writing "I don't sleep", and Wu Zhuolin would be beaten as soon as he stopped, and he would write until 5 a.m. the next day.
Wu Qili, who has not felt what love is since she was a child, naturally cannot love her daughter normally.
And Wu Zhuolin's injuries since childhood are far more than that.
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Parents can choose whether to have this child or not,
Children can never choose whether or not to have this pair of parents.
For Wu Qili, if she can choose life, she will definitely not want her parents.
At school, she barely talked about her origins.
When she was a child, she also innocently asked her mother why everyone else wanted a father, only herself did not?
Wu Qili tried not to let the grievances of the previous generation continue to the next generation.
She told her daughter, "You have things that others don't have, don't compare them with others." ”
But some things are doomed to be unavoidable.
Even though Wu Zhuolin was silent about her parents, she was still known as her illegitimate daughter.
The label "illegitimate daughter" itself represents disgrace,
Doomed to the fate of Wu Zhuolin being bullied at school.
She was scolded as a "wild breed without a father", and she was dragged to the mouth of an alley where no one noticed, and countless punches and kicks fell on her.
She didn't know who to turn to,
She desperately left more than 30 scars on her wrists,
Her mother thought, "Maybe it's popular for kids right now. ”
When Wu Zhuolin was 16 years old, he learned to smoke and drink with his mother.
She had no friends and no sense of security.
When she first tried to make herself sha, she was still an adult, but she had already looked down on life and death.
"I left to make life better for those around me."
In recent years, there have been more and more negative news around Wu Zhuolin.
But behind the "problem girl" is not the birth of one tragedy after another.
Wu Zhuolin first learned to resist in 2015,
In the silence, she first reported to the teacher that she had been bullying her classmates for a long time.
He went to the police station to report his mother's inhuman abuse.
"Calling the police is really stupid, but it's the bravest thing I've ever done."
It was the first time she had learned to borrow external forces to protect herself.
After Wu Qili was arrested, public opinion was in an uproar.
Only the next day a reversal occurred, wu Qili came out of the police station, and she was very troubled by her daughter's rebellion.
She blamed everything on Wu Zhuolin's upbringing and blamed her for making friends who were inconsistent.
In 2017, Wu Zhuolin called the police again to arrest his mother because he was intimidated.
Wu Qili asked her to take medicine, and she did not want to eat it.
The mother and daughter argued loudly, and between the emotions,
Wu Qili shouted loudly, "If you don't take the medicine, you might as well die." ”
So Wu Qili was once again invited to the police station.
In 2018, the mother-daughter affair was once again involved in the police station.
The person who called the police this time became Wu Qili, on the grounds that she was locked in the house by her daughter.
In fact, she had not seen her daughter for too long and wanted to find her.
In this regard, Wu Zhuolin just said coldly, she needs to see a doctor.
Obviously, they are mother and daughter, but they have still come to this point.
Every dispute between mother and daughter will become the talk of the media.
When Wu Zhuolin ran away from home for the fourth time,
Wu Qili once held a media reception to watch,
In front of the camera, her face is haggard, telling her thoughts about her daughter.
She kept calling her daughter home, begging her daughter to forgive her mother.
But Wu Zhuolin already has his own "real family" by his side.
A being who is not related by blood, but is more intimate than his relatives.
On October 6, 2017, Wu Zhuolin openly announced on social media: "I'M GAY (I am in love with Xingxing)".
Before, she may still be looking forward to the love of her parents,
But her parents' day-to-day indifference was enough to wipe out all her hopes.
Wu Zhuolin lived with his lover,
Her lover is called Andi, an Internet celebrity,
After the two were together, Wu Zhuolin took on the responsibility of the two.
His girlfriend was unemployed and had no job, so Wu Zhuolin dropped out of school to work to support the family.
Jackie Chan and Wu Qili did not teach her responsibility,
She learned it without a teacher.
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Zhuo Lin said that she had done this with Mommy because she had always wanted to meet with Her Father, even if it was only once, she was already satisfied, but Elaine (Wu Qili) had always objected, and Zhuo Lin said that if Mommy agreed, she would obediently concentrate on reading after that. But Elaine resisted, the two mothers and daughters often quarreled over this matter, and Zhuo Lin began to rebel and did not have the heart to study. ”
Wu Zhuolin's rebellion may be related to Jackie Chan, or it may have nothing to do with Jackie Chan.
Although the role of father did not appear in her life, it has always influenced her life.
When I was a child, I was bullied because of the identity of the "little dragon girl",
Intimidated by good friends, torn up textbooks, taken to the alley and beaten.
She had no father to rely on, and could only confide in her mother, but her mother would only tell her to be strong.
But being strong didn't alleviate her pain.
Sometimes in the middle of the night, she will also cry without controversy, thinking why she is Jackie Chan's daughter?
Jackie Chan was a pain she had always been reluctant to mention.
The first time she fell out with her mother was the first time she talked about her titular father.
"It's just that he is a father who is related to Jackie Chan, but in his own growth process, he is not her "father", thinking that raising you is the most important." ”
In the shadow of "Little Dragon Girl", she did not even dare to talk about her favorite movie-related major.
Because she was afraid that everyone would think wildly.
Jackie Chan never acknowledged their mother and daughter in front of the media.
She also avoided Jackie Chan as a stranger.
"Seeing him on TV is just a stranger and won't tell me it's my dad!" , will only say that Jackie Chan (Jackie Chan) is an actor. ”
The father and daughter have been "at peace" until 2018.
Desperate, Wu Zhuolin and his girlfriend posted a video called "Looking for Answers" on social platforms.
As soon as the video was posted, it went viral on the Internet.
This is the first time wu Zhuolin has admitted in front of the media that she is Jackie Chan's daughter.
"Hello, I am Jackie Chan's daughter."
She and her girlfriend wandered the streets of Canada under bridges, and this was the first time she had asked for help from her so-called father.
It was also she who was trying to get another identity for herself.
Jackie Chan once again appeared on the cusp of public opinion,
But for this daughter who humiliated himself, he still chose to turn a blind eye.
"I know I'm sorry for this daughter, but her mother is such a person, and I really don't know what I'm going to do with this daughter."
For him, the "little dragon girl" is just a stain on his life.
In the indifference of the father and the paranoia of the mother,
Wu Zhuolin took his girlfriend Andi's hand and entered the palace of marriage.
Some people say that after the video was issued, Jackie Chan did not sit idly by, and Wu Zhuolin can have a peaceful and happy life now, all of which are secretly operated by Jackie Chan.
However, the news has not been confirmed, and no one knows whether it is true or false.
Maybe it's "tiger poison doesn't eat children",
Now Wu Zhuolin has finally lived a peaceful life with his lover.
epilogue
Every child wants to be the proud presence of their parents,
But not every child can be so lucky to be the treasure of their parents.
Wu Zhuolin's father is international superstar Jackie Chan, and his mother is the winner of Miss Asia.
But she has become the "problem girl" that people call her.
Dropped out of school four times and ran away from home, cut his wrists, sent his mother to the police station twice, and lived with minors...
From the time when her mother was expecting "the son is precious by the mother",
She was born unblessed.
Fortunately, the tragedy of the mother did not continue to her.
Neither parent had learned family responsibilities, but she had learned them.
After disappearing from the media camera, Wu Zhuolin has been staying by his girlfriend's side.
Wu Zhuolin, who learned to reconcile in love, also had a reconciliation with his mother.
There is no doubt that Wu Qili is deeply in love with her daughter,
It's just that her mutilated childhood, tragic love, didn't make her understand what true love is.
But now Wu Zhuolin is no longer alone after all.
Even if they are rejected by their parents, there is still one person who is willing to leave and not give up.
This is probably the happiness that Wu Zhuolin most yearns for.