My colleague borrowed $100,000 from me. After the agreed time, she did not take the initiative to pay back. I asked her to pay her back. The friend said, "Why should I give it back to you?" You don't know about these three months

My colleague borrowed $100,000 from me. After the agreed time, she did not take the initiative to pay back. I asked her to pay her back. The friend said, "Why should I give it back to you?" Don't you know what happened in those three months? "I was stunned and felt wronged. Then I asked her, "Why don't you pay me back?" She patiently told me why.

My name is Wang Meili, 35 years old, is a sales manager of an advertising agency, with a monthly salary of 20,000+. Because of his high education and strong language organization skills, he has been a star on the sales list since joining the company. The company leaders valued me very much. My husband is the owner of a building materials company. With the development of urban construction, my husband's company has also had a good income over the years, and our lives are also very happy.

One night three months ago, when I was getting ready to go to bed with Lao Gong, my colleague Li Xue called. I guessed there must be something important so late, so I answered the phone. Colleague Li Xue said to me anxiously: "Beautiful sister, do you have 100,000 yuan?" I have an urgent matter, can you lend it to me first? ”

I was shocked, how did she suddenly borrow money from me? We don't know each other, so I asked Li Xue, have you encountered any difficulties? Tell me that I will see if I can help, but Li Xue has been reluctant to say, I am really worried about what will happen to Li Xue. But she never said it. Then I said I'd discuss it with my husband.

At that time, my husband was also listening to the phone, and I felt that I could lend this money to Li Xue, because Li Xue was a member of my team and had been working very seriously. She also occasionally helped me contact customers, which also led to the cooperation of several orders. And to call me suddenly so late must have been in trouble.

My husband is a calm guy. He said it was no small matter. Although we have some savings, 100,000 yuan is not a small amount. He felt that he should inquire about it and see what was going on with Li Xue. My husband's words made me half-convinced, and then I began to contact Su Qing, a colleague who had a good relationship with Li Xue.

Su Qing said that Li Xue's mother had a recurrence of an old illness some time ago, and all the money in her hand was used to buy a house, and she had no savings in her hand, and now the hospital urged surgery, but Li Xue and her husband had no money. As soon as I heard this, I suddenly understood what was going on, but I didn't tell my husband, my husband was a businessman, and he paid attention to "interests" in everything. I didn't want the borrowing to affect our feelings, so I secretly lent it to Li Xue with the private money I had saved.

Li Xue is a stubborn person. After I lent her the money, she still didn't say that she didn't have the money to see her mother, and I didn't ask much. After all, it's someone else's privacy issue.

Li Xue is very grateful to me, and in the next three months, Li Xue used his resources to introduce me to several major customers. At the time, these customers were the company's key customers. I've tried to contact them in the past, but they only recognize Li Xue. Later, after Li Xue's introduction, I developed into partners with them.

And it brings me a huge commission. In the first month alone, my salary reached 40,000 yuan, and the second month reached 80,000 yuan. In the third month, because I contacted several more big customers through those customers, my performance was directly ranked first in the group. At the time, I thought it was incredible, but it did happen.

In order to express my gratitude to Li Xue, I also specially wrapped a red envelope of 30,000 yuan for her. Li Xue did not accept. She said I was willing to lend her money and she was grateful. It was all she should have done.

One day, my husband looked over my mobile phone and suddenly saw the mobile phone text message I transferred to Li Xue. I was like a child who made mistakes and didn't dare to speak. My husband also knows that my recent client was basically introduced by Li Xue. Therefore, it is said that next time it is not allowed to be hidden, and there is something for the husband and wife to discuss together, and this time it will be forgotten. I am pleased with my husband's understanding.

But now it's been a week since the days of borrowing money. I see that Li Xue still has no intention of paying. I was a little flustered. Then I took advantage of a team building organized by the company. I want to mention it to Li Xue. For this matter, I asked Li Xuehe to eat together. Without going around, he directly talked to Li Xue about the expiration of the borrowed money.

Unexpectedly, Li Xue said to me, "Why should I return it to you?" Don't you know what happened in those three months? "I was confused. When I borrowed you money, did you thank me? Now why suddenly deny it.

I asked her, "What the hell is going on?" Li Xue said: "Your performance in the past three months has changed from the original branch first to the first in the group, and here is 80% of my credit, right?" If I hadn't introduced you to the customers in my hands, your performance would not have reached this height, right? ”

I have to admit that without Li Xue's help, it is indeed impossible to achieve this achievement, but borrowing money is borrowing money, and helping is helping. This should not be confused. If I knew that she was behaving like this, I would not have lent her the 100,000 yuan in the first place. Li Xue then said: I don't have to pay back the money, because your commission is enough to make up 100,000 yuan in these months, so I don't have to pay you back, and you will earn more in the future.

I think borrowing money is borrowing money, introducing customers is introducing customers, just like that, the two do not have to be linked, how can they be confused? I was overwhelmed.

Do you think I should keep getting this money back?

@Dashing Sensen

I don't think you have a problem getting this money back. The money was lent to her to solve her urgent needs, and Li Xue also gave a 3-month commitment to repay the money. Now that the time was up, it was her fault that she refused to pay back the money on the grounds of introducing clients. If Li Xue does not repay the money in the end, I think you can recover your loan through formal channels.

But if you think that Li Xue has indeed brought you great benefits, the value is greater than this 100,000 yuan, then you must make this matter clear, do not let Li Xue feel that he is an innocent person. It's a matter of mutual understanding. As long as everyone thinks it's okay, it's not a problem, so you still have to make your own decisions.

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