With young people paying attention to parenting, parent-child programs are very popular. "My Little Tail 2" is a brother and sister growth observation reality show, and the four groups of guests invited by the program group are brothers and sisters with a large age difference, not father and son. This is still very interesting.
From the end of the first season to the beginning of the second season, the content shown in the "My Little Tail" program is very much in line with the current young people, and many people can see the scene when they get along with their younger siblings when watching the show, including some young parents, and they will also see some problems in parenting.
Deng Zeming and Simi are two brothers and sisters who are particularly controversial and discussed in the show. Deng Zeming is not very old, he is still a child, and he often shows his childish side in the show. When such a brother, with a small sister, in every episode of the show, the audience will see the pair of "wronged brothers and sisters" mixing mouths.
Simi is a sister with great emotional ups and downs, very willful, so the most out of the show is almost Simi, and her performance makes Deng Zeming often head-on and overwhelmed.
Lian Huaiwei, an observer of the show, said that in the show, he liked a sister like Simi the most, and her straight-forward personality was very fun. But if it was his own sister, he hoped that it was not Simi, he still wanted a sister who was more obedient and sensible.
In the eighth episode, the sisters all go to work in the vegetable garden, but Simi stays in the house watching TV, and Deng Zeming calls on her to participate in the sisters and work together. However, Simi completely refused, and asked his brother for ham sausages, such a decision made Deng Zeming very angry.
He accuses Simi of not understanding things, and even the 2-year-old heart has gone to work in the vegetable garden, but Simi is still here, which makes him a little angry. The brother constantly blames Sime, causing Simi to cry and tell Her mother about Dunze.
Deng Zeming did not compromise, he sternly told Simi that this time he would not coax her, because to do wrong is to do wrong. Then, he ignored Simi and went to work alone.
At that time, the host Xie Nan and several observers were not very satisfied with Deng Zeming's handling, thinking that he should not lose his temper with his sister, thinking that he was a little anxious, and pointed out that the communication between him and his sister was not completed, so there would be problems.
In fact, Deng Zeming has made many attempts in communication with his sister. At first, he said to Simi, "My sisters are out there, do you think you'll feel better?" But Simi clearly didn't want to pay attention to him.
Then, he persuaded his sister to go to work and said, "You go and help them, okay?" He said this to inspire her sense of responsibility and accomplishment. But Simi simply refused.
He added, "How nice it is that you went to play with them," which was meant to relax her, not "to work," but to "play with them."
After that, Deng Zeming had no way to persuade her well, and Simi refused the whole time, which was not Deng Zeming's problem. If Deng Zeming continues to be by her and compromise with her, then Simi's willfulness will succeed, which is not a good thing for her own life.
For children, they have a period of rebellion, that is, no matter what their parents say to him, he refuses, very willful. If the parents come from the child's nature, it seems to be love for the child, but in fact, it boosts his temper and is not conducive to his physical and mental development.
Deng Zeming's handling method this time, although there are also flaws, but on the whole, it has played a good effect. After staying in the house for a while, Simi knew that her brother was angry and would not let go of her behavior this time, so she took the initiative to come out and talk to her brother, and finally cried and apologized to her brother.
This shows that Deng Zeming stuck to his principles and succeeded, making Simi realize his mistakes and letting her know that willfulness could not solve the problem. The parenting thinking triggered by this dialogue is very worthy of parents' reflection and learning.