On January 14, the second season of "My Little Tail" continued to air, in which the brothers were given the task of preparing their own pots, ingredients, and meals, so they had to prepare for a meal. Their first meal, they chose to go to the commissary to buy, only Chi Yi stayed to cook. He cooked porridge for everyone and cleaned up the table.
The three brothers bought snacks at the commissary, including ham, bread, and some sugar, and Yiyi, An An and Xin'er all ate very well, only Simi refused to eat porridge.
Brother Deng Zeming took a spoon to feed her, she does not eat, full of disgust, may be many parents will encounter such a problem, children usually have a habit of partial eating, encounter do not like food, they will refuse. If parents let it go and spoil their children, it is likely to cause malnutrition in their children.
At first, Deng Zeming tried to persuade Simi to eat porridge, but she was disgusted and kept watching cartoons. Therefore, Deng Zeming chose to use a threatening method to force his sister to eat porridge, and if he did not eat porridge, he was not allowed to watch animation. Simi was not threatened, and then Deng Zeming really shut down the cartoon, and Simi directly cried and protested.
Under the measures of this threat, Deng Zeming failed. So he tried several ways to communicate with his sister. One way, he told his sister that sugar had been added to the porridge, and it turned out that he was rejected.
The second method is that he said that Bibi saw who ate first, and the result was still rejected by the second.
Simi said she didn't want to eat porridge, she just wanted to eat vegetables. However, there are no dishes here at present, so Deng Zeming does not know what to do.
Here, two issues are highlighted. First, Deng Zeming did not know enough about his sister, and his cognition of his sister was still in the simple stage of coaxing, believing that he could convince the other party with some very simple methods. In fact, his sister's current cognition was beyond his imagination. Second, the result of the wrong method is that no matter what you say, the child will refuse at the first time and not listen to your words.
This problem is also reflected in the subsequent activities. Several people went to the pond to catch fish, and the sisters also wanted to catch fish, but it was so easy to catch fish in the wild, and soon Simi lost interest, and she did not want to continue, so she called her brother.
At this time, Deng Zeming came up with his method again, wanting to coax Simi to continue to catch fish in the pond, but In her current situation, Simi just didn't want to play, couldn't be interested, and any words could not play a role at the moment, so Deng Zeming still had a big problem in the process of getting along with his sister.
When he found out that this method of cajoling did not work, he gave up a little and did not know what to do. Fortunately, Nie Zening did a very good job in communication, he proposed to exchange jobs with Deng Zeming, asked Deng Zeming to change clothes, and he accompanied his sisters first.
Deng Zeming also said that when he encountered such a thing, he would be anxious. It is actually a difficult thing to accompany children, and it requires patience and knowledge to cope with many problems. And, more importantly, it is necessary to have a sense of the child's growth, otherwise there will be a big problem in communication.
This is also the concept that this show should convey to young parents, and the most important thing that needs to be quit when accompanying children is anxiety. When children encounter problems, they need the right solution, not the anxiety of their parents.