"Everyone says" Chen Jing: We, together, grow up with resilience

Chen Jing

At the beginning of the new year, all kinds of dedications, messages, and New Year's Speeches arrived as promised, and many golden sentences and new words rushed in. Peking University Professor Chen Chunhua's New Year message "Resilience Growth" touched my heart and clapped my heart. Anyone's life, no matter how purple and red, blossoming and blooming, will inevitably have to experience the ups and downs of life, ups and downs, highs and lows, but more or less, light or heavy. In the face of life's ups and downs, ups and downs, we can only respond positively, grit our teeth and grow in resilience and persistence.

Hangzhou Lingyin Temple has a couplet: life can be more satisfactory, everything is only half satisfactory. This couplet language is simple and straightforward, but it contains a profound philosophy of life. In real life, everyone hopes that everything will go well, in fact, this is just a good blessing for people, this world does not meet our wishful thinking expectations, we think that happiness, even if we try our best to give everything, its whole life will not come. In a person's life, there is always unfinished knowledge, there is always a truth that cannot be understood, there is always a wish that cannot be satisfied, there are always all kinds of troubles, and there is always a cruelty and regret that cannot be escaped. As Yang Dai said: Getting love does not necessarily have money; getting money may not be able to have happiness; having happiness may not be able to enjoy health, even if you have health, you may not be able to get everything you want. In short, a lifetime is not easy, do not always live with others, do not live with yourself, we may as well go with nature, optimistic life, have a heart that will always be kind to yourself. No matter what you don't accomplish, the sky can't fall. Wait, maybe it won't change the result, but it will change the vision and mood of looking at the result. This kind of conformity is not helpless and negative, but an open-mindedness and wisdom. Just like we all pursue beauty, but the years do not spare people, getting old is inevitable, our thick hair, tight skin, vigorous passion and dreams will be taken away by the years, but we understand the beauty of life from another perspective, twenty years old live youth, thirty years old live charm, forty years old live wisdom, fifty years old live calmly, sixty years old easy life, seventy or eighty years old will become priceless treasure, such beauty does not belong to a certain age, but the whole life.

Life is as strong as it is cruel or not, just like the sun rising in the east and setting in the west, the moon's clouds and sunshine, the cold and warm of spring, summer, autumn and winter, and the changes of everything in the world, which exist inexorably in our lives, we may as well give up selectively, do not compete with life, do not twist with changes, and always maintain a courage to pursue ourselves. Su Dongpo, a well-known historical celebrity, has experienced great ups and downs, great joys and great sorrows, several times of depreciation, and upheaval and displacement, and in the face of countless unsatisfactory and setbacks, he still "looks back at the place where he has always been depressed, and returned, and there is no wind or rain or sunshine." When people reach middle age and are degraded to Mizhou, the average person has long been discouraged and thinks that life is over, but he can "talk about the old man's teenage madness", even if it is "sideburns, why bother?" "Still want to "be able to draw a bow like a full moon, look northwest, shoot the wolf." In his later years, even in Danzhou, which was isolated overseas, he was lonely, he still smiled at life, seeking pleasure in suffering, "nine deaths in the southern wilderness, I do not hate, Ziyou Qi is the best in life", never gave up the sense of responsibility for the country and the people, in Danzhou school, introduced the style of learning, became a pioneer and sower of Danzhou culture, and passed down Dongpo Village, Dongpo Well, Dongpo Tian, Dongpo Road, Dongpo Bridge, Dongpo Hat, Dongpo dialect... Transforming and creating life in his own unique way, never letting his life be filled with shadows, it is this kind of detachment that does not change into a tranquility, and the tenacity and perseverance that has endured hardships and infatuations have allowed Su Dongpo to live out of himself and live a wonderful life.

As the message says, resilience is not only a resilience to crises, but also a feature of adapting to dynamic changes and evolving. With resilience, we can calm down to eliminate interference, as far as possible to truly understand this rapidly changing era, in order to decide their own response to the attack; with resilience, we can grasp the true meaning of life, although sometimes wonderful, sometimes miserable, sometimes speechless, but as long as we live seriously, work hard, pluck up the courage to move forward, and finally can see the most beautiful scenery in the deepest despair; with resilience, we can accurately understand ourselves, when life is proud, I will not be ecstatic because of the prosperity in front of me, and I will remind myself that "I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, only because I am in this mountain." When life is frustrated and helpless, it will not be too sad, and it will remind yourself that "Xiongguan Mandao is really like iron, and now he steps forward from the beginning." With resilience, you can let yourself have a peaceful mentality, have a thunderous chest and face a flat lake, and when faced with criticism and slander, tell yourself "Who is afraid?" A rain of smoke and rain will be a lifetime"! When life is lonely and lonely, silently chant in the heart, "Is it good to ask the world?" But he said, this peace of mind is my hometown"!

Resilience is a kind of perseverance, is a kind of effort, let us face the future together, resilience growth!

About the Author:

He is a member of the Chinese Prose Literature Association, a member of the Jiangsu Writers Association, and a national second-level psychological counselor.

【Source: Yangzhou Network_Yangzhou Culture】

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