In July 2020, during a live broadcast of caring for health, a plump woman shared her experience: "At that time, I was already in danger, and if it were not for these doctors and nurses, I am afraid I would not be able to live until now." 」 ”
She was pregnant for several months and abandoned
Peng Ximei is a native of Huazhou, Guangdong, and although her family is poor, she is optimistic by nature. Every day all the people laugh and groan, and everyone who watches it likes it. He is more courteous and courteous to his in-laws and takes good care of the family. It is not difficult to see that Peng Ximei is a good daughter-in-law, and people can't fault it.
The only downside is that you have been married for a long time and have not been pregnant. Rural people pay attention to the inheritance of incense, and the mother-in-law constantly put pressure on Peng Ximei's husband to take Peng Ximei to check:
"It's 2007 now, you've been married for two years, you don't have children, it's like that, I don't see anyone." Go, I heard that recently there was a divine doctor in the next village, specializing in the treatment of women's diseases, you take her to see. ”
Peng Ximei is also very worried about the fact that she is not pregnant, so her husband has not yet opened her mouth, but she took the initiative to say that she wanted to go. The two looked around for medical treatment, and finally, after half a year of busy life, Peng Ximei's stomach bulged. The mother-in-law looked at Peng Ximei's belly and said happily: "Oh, this is great, I see, I can hold the eldest grandson in the New Year." ”
Peng Ximei and his wife are also very happy, and finally can usher in a new life, but the couple is wrenching hands to index the due date. Seeing that the due date was getting closer and closer, but Peng Ximei did not have any symptoms of the pot, and her stomach was getting more and more bulging.
It is said that october pregnancy, in fact, most of them are also pregnant for 8 to 9 months to give birth, and now, Peng Ximei has been pregnant for almost a year, but there is no sign of childbirth.
Normal pregnancy
"Strange, there won't be any illness, right?" The mother-in-law muttered, and then remembered one thing, "She has not even had morning sickness, should she have some strange disease, you quickly take her to the hospital to see." ”
Peng Ximei did not dare to delay and quickly ran to the hospital to check. After the doctor's diagnosis, Peng Ximei was not pregnant, but had an ovarian tumor, and it was already advanced. Now the treatment requires removing the tumor, which means that Peng Ximei will never be able to get pregnant again.
Hearing that she could not get pregnant, Peng Ximei decided to give up treatment, but if she did not treat, then she would only have 2 to 3 years to live. Peng Ximei held the diagnosis proposal in her hand and stood dazed at the door of the hospital. The husband threw away his cigarette butt and said a word to Peng Ximei: "I am also very tired, let's just disperse like this, I might as well find another wife to have children." ”
Peng Ximei's tears fell down, and she was kind in nature and did not want to drag others down, so she immediately agreed to her husband's suggestion. The two were speechless all the way, and when they returned home, Peng Ximei began to pack her luggage with a big belly. Before leaving, my husband said, "I'll send you." ”
"It's okay, we don't have a relationship anymore, let's go our separate ways in the future." After saying that, Peng Ximei took the luggage and left.
As for where to go, Peng Ximei had no plans. The mother's family will definitely not be able to go back, and if she goes back with a big belly, she will definitely be laughed at, and the mother in the family is not in good health and cannot withstand such a blow. So, Peng Ximei began her wandering life.
run away
Because she has a big belly, during the wandering outside, there are always well-meaning people who come to help Peng Ximei, and Peng Ximei has always been very grateful. But when asked about a few months pregnant, Peng Ximei just laughed and did not explain, she was afraid that her illness would be ridiculed if she was known.
However, with the passage of time, Peng Ximei's belly has become larger and larger, it has been two years, and there is still no sign of giving birth, and people around her began to whisper: "I saw this woman wandering outside alone in 2008, and at that time she had a big belly, I felt pitiful, and gave her a bite to eat." Now that it's been a year, why haven't they been born yet? ”
"Look at that belly, you must be pregnant with triplets."
"Even if you are pregnant with 5 twins, then it will be time to give birth, it has been so long, I am afraid that I have not suffered from some strange disease, or how can my stomach get bigger and bigger?"
In the face of these doubts, Peng Ximei had to play haha: "Isn't it necessary to be pregnant with the emperor's son for two years?" ”
Hearing this, the crowd burst into laughter.
With the passage of time, the always optimistic Peng Ximei can no longer be stretched, coupled with the growing belly, has affected her daily life, even the toilet is a difficulty, which is undoubtedly a huge blow to Peng Ximei, who loves cleanliness.
The depressed Peng Ximei walked alone to the riverside, looking at her huge belly, Peng Ximei had the idea of taking her own life. Tears fell down on a group of ants that were out foraging. The little ant held no residue larger than its body in its mouth, carefully bypassing Peng Ximei's tears, just like that, holding the food, and slowly crawling into the nest.
This scene deeply touched Peng Ximei, ants such a small animal knows how to survive well, so what reason can they easily give up their lives? No matter what, you have to live well.
For dignity, meet noble people
Peng Ximei insisted on this for another year, until the winter of 2009, Peng Ximei was finally overwhelmed. The point is that on a cold day in the waxing moon, Peng Ximei wandered barefoot on two legs, and every step she took had to catch her breath. Peng Ximei felt that her time was short, but she did not want to freeze to death on the side of the road without dignity, and the body was eaten by wild dogs.
Therefore, Peng Ximei came to a large hospital in Zhanjiang City, thinking that if she died in the hospital, she could at least be cremated with dignity. Peng Ximei stayed in the outpatient hall of the hospital for 2 months, and in these two months, she received help from many well-wishers. Due to the huge abdomen, Peng Ximei could only sit on a stool to sleep.
Peng Ximei
On December 19, Peng Ximei was snoozing when she heard applause from the hall. It turned out that Xu Kecheng, president of Guangzhou Fuda Hospital, came here for free consultation, and everyone was welcoming. Peng Ximei hurriedly picked up something and wanted to leave there, afraid that her appearance would cause trouble for the hospital, after all, the people in the hospital helped her a lot.
However, at that time, Peng Ximei had lost her self-action, and if there was no one to help her, she would not be able to get up alone. Just when Peng Ximei was in a hurry, Dean Xu noticed Peng Ximei.
It was already winter, but Peng Ximei was wearing a thin dress, looking like she was pregnant, but the degree of abdominal bulge was obviously not like ordinary pregnancy. Dean Xu, who has been practicing medicine for many years, felt a little confused, so he went forward to ask Peng Ximei: "How long has this been pregnant?" ”
Xu Kecheng gave Peng Ximei a diagnosis and treatment
Peng Ximei gasped, "Not pregnant." ”
"Then can I check it for you, I see you have trouble breathing."
Peng Ximei nodded in agreement, and President Xu lifted Peng Ximei's dress and saw that Peng Ximei's abdomen was highly raised like a smooth leather ball, and it was also covered with vicious green tendons. It seems that the difficulty of breathing is caused by the bulge in the abdomen. Because the volume of the lungs was forced to squeeze, oxygen could not be fully replaced, so Peng Ximei could only gasp continuously.
Abdominal hypertension syndrome
Looking at this poor woman, President Xu felt pity and immediately informed the hospital to arrange an ambulance to take Peng Ximei to Guangzhou for a more comprehensive examination. On December 22, Peng Ximei got on the ambulance to Guangzhou Fuda Hospital, and along the way, the medical staff were sweating, afraid that the 5-hour bump would cause any danger to Peng Ximei's life.
Fortunately, there was no major problem on the road, and after getting out of the ambulance, Peng Ximei was a little weak and was helped by the nurse to get on the stretcher car. But in front of Peng Ximei, this stretcher car is slightly thin and cannot carry Peng Ximei. So the medical staff changed a sofa into a special bed, which could afford Peng Ximei.
A huge shadow that reveals the cause
Peng Ximei sat on this special bed, pushed by medical staff to do various examinations in the hospital. After basic examination, it was found that Peng Ximei's abdominal circumference was 161 cm, and the maximum abdominal circumference of normal pregnancy was not more than 100 cm. Peng Ximei looked as thin as wood, but because of the huge abdomen, the weight reached 110 kilograms.
CT examination should be the best way to check, but the CT aperture is only 80 cm, and Peng Ximei can't get in at all. The doctor had to retreat to do the B ultrasound examination, but the B ultrasound could not detect effective information from this huge abdomen, and could only show the deep liquid dark area, and could not see any organs.
Unable to detect the condition of the abdomen, the doctor had to decide to release ascites first. Releasing ascites is an extremely dangerous operation, and Peng Ximei's ascites has been two years old, and the indicators of the body are naturally different from ordinary people.
Easily letting go of ascites is likely to cause circulatory disorders in the body and even endanger life. After discussion among the doctors, it was decided to slowly put 5,000 ml of ascites on the first day to see.
On the first day of ascites, the medical staff made all the preparations, various monitoring instruments were placed next to Peng Ximei, and there were rescue personnel on the side who were in a strict position, and the nurses injected Albumin and plasma to Peng Ximei.
The preliminary work is ready, the doctor determines the position to start perforating into the drainage tube, and soon, the yellow-brown liquid flows into the drainage bag through the drainage tube. Within 30 minutes, the drainage reached 5,000 ml, and Peng Ximei did not have any uncomfortable reaction.
Combined with Peng Ximei's reaction that day, the doctor decided to take the way of increasing ascites the next day. There is no precedent, the doctors can only slowly grope, little by little to reduce the pressure on Peng Ximei's abdomen, so as to prevent the lungs from swelling and rupture due to sudden pressure reduction.
The next day, during the ascites release, the ECG monitor issued an alarm sound, indicating that Peng Ximei had some mental insufficiency. The doctor quickly stopped releasing ascites and closely monitored the ecglyctic changes at all times. After being diagnosed, it was found that it was only because Peng Ximei's body was too weak that her heart was dysfunctional, so she decided to slow down the drainage speed. Looking at the doctor who was busy for herself, Peng Ximei was grateful.
By the third day, the cumulative drainage of 30,000 milliliters of ascites, Peng Ximei had breathing disorders. The emergency doctor on the side quickly rescued Peng Ximei.
Peng Ximei, whose life was hanging in the balance, took President Xu's hand and said weakly: "Professor Xu, thank you, but don't worry, I was originally a person who was about to die, it is really my honor to meet you, if I die, my body will be donated to your hospital for research, so as to repay your kindness to me." ”
When President Xu heard this, it was really uncomfortable. After practicing medicine for many years, President Xu has seen too many patients, and it has always been him who told patients to be strong, but he did not expect to be comforted by patients now. No matter what, we must save Peng Ximei, President Xu secretly decided.
Dean Xu Kecheng
After rescue, Peng Ximei survived the crisis, and in the following days, her physical indicators have been very stable. Drainage lasted for a total of 7 days, releasing 55,000 milliliters of ascites. Peng Ximei's stomach finally returned to normal, she stood on the scale alone, which showed 55 kilograms, compared with the previous weight is equivalent to losing the weight of a Peng Ximei.
Touching her flat belly, Peng Ximei's eyes burst into tears: "Thank you." ”
"It's not time to thank you, and then it's a tough battle, you have to cheer up." Medical staff encouraged Peng Ximei to carry out subsequent tumor treatment.
Peng Ximei after releasing the ascites
Be reborn and plant the seeds of love
Ascites was resolved, and the doctors determined the location of the tumor through CT examination, and the time of surgery was determined after the doctor consulted again. The night before entering the operating room, the nurse helped Peng Ximei wash her hair: "Start from the beginning, Sister Xiaomei, after tonight, everything will be fine." ”
On January 12, 2010, Peng Ximei was pushed into the operating room. After 5 hours of hard work, the doctor removed Peng Ximei's ovaries, uterus and part of the intestinal tract. After the examination, it was determined that Peng Ximei was suffering from serous cystic gland carcinoma, which was highly malignant and required continued chemotherapy after surgery.
With the help of President Xu Kecheng, Peng Ximei was exempted from all treatment fees. After 4 rounds of chemotherapy, Peng Ximei finally returned home. Peng Ximei, who had regained her new life, shed tears: "If it weren't for Dean Xu, I wouldn't have today." "After staying at home for a while, Peng Ximei now has a lot of strength, and she decided to help others."
Peng Ximei, who was discharged from the hospital after recovery
At the beginning, Peng Ximei wandered to the hospital to receive help from well-wishers, and then met President Xu Kecheng to rescue her. Before being discharged from the hospital, Peng Ximei promised President Xu that she would come back to the hospital as a volunteer to repay the hospital for her kindness. In fact, many people do not know that President Xu Kecheng is also a cancer patient, and when he met Peng Ximei, President Xu has been fighting cancer for 3 years.
In order to help more cancer patients, President Xu Kecheng set up the "Guangzhou Tianhe District Xu Kecheng Care and Health Studio" in June 2014, and Peng Ximei also joined it, and often told her anti-cancer stories to other patients, the purpose is to cheer everyone up and defeat cancer together.
"So, no matter what, don't give up your life." Peng Ximei said so in the live broadcast. Now Peng Ximei is no longer the thin and helpless woman she used to be, but is full of happiness.
In 2012, Peng Ximei met a fellow villager whose wife died of cancer many years ago, leaving behind two girls and a boy. Peng Ximei decided to be with this fellow villager, and the two married in October 2013, and their life after marriage was plain and happy.
Peng Ximei took the child and took a group photo with Dean Xu Kecheng
Peng Ximei regarded the three children as her own, thinking that they were the second gift that God had given her life. Today's Peng Ximei, a family of five, is very happy. In addition to taking care of her family, Peng Ximei dedicated her life to the hospital, trying to do her best to warm those who fight cancer.
If you have great love in your heart, God will not treat you badly. I wish That Peng Ximei will get better and better in the future and can warm more cancer patients with her own story.