Tang Jing, a person as his name suggests, has beautiful and delicate facial features, and looks gentle and idyllic Jiangnan girl.
Since she was a child, she has been favored by the god of luck, and after her debut, from actor to producer, no matter what she does, she is quite successful, and she is a full-fledged "strong woman".
Maybe life has to gain and lose. Her career is smooth, but her emotional life is not satisfactory.
Tang Jing and Wang Xinjun had a ten-year marriage, but eventually came to an end in countless quarrels.
After the divorce, Wang Xinjun turned around and married qin Hailu, the "shadow queen", which made Tang Jing feel collapsed and depressed.
Watching her ex-husband hug the beauty, he could only hold his son and cry bitterly.
And this failed marriage also created a lifelong shadow for her.
1. Parents are cultivated from an early age, and when they grow up, they can sing and dance
In 1968, Tang Jing was born in a Kochi family and was an authentic Nanjing girl.
Her parents had two children, and in addition to her, there was a younger brother named Tang Bin.
Perhaps because Tang Jing is the eldest daughter of the family, her parents' cultivation of her is particularly "exquisite".
In the 1970s, many people couldn't eat enough, but Tang Jing's parents would send their daughter to learn music, dance and the like.
When Tang Jing was five years old, she could sing and dance, and she was a small focus everywhere she went, plus she looked beautiful and lovely, so she was discovered by the Nanjing Little Red Flower Art Troupe and embarked on the road of art since then.
Nanjing Little Red Flower Art Troupe is one of the best in the country, and has also trained many child stars and later actors.
However, it is precisely because of its professionalism that the process of learning is also very hard.
Other children are playing with toys at the age of five or six and growing up in the company of their parents, while Tang Jing has to attend classes at school during the day, and after school, she has to rush to the art troupe to learn music, dance and performance, and other art professional classes.
Tang Jing's parents watched their children run around like this every day, so after the two discussed, they simply let Tang Jing live in the art troupe, so that they did not have to run at both ends of the group at home every day.
It's just that although this is more convenient, for Tang Jing, only a few years old, it is inevitable that it is a little "cruel" to leave home alone and leave her parents to study alone.
Tang Jing lived in the Nanjing Little Red Flower Art Troupe for ten years.
And this decade, not only let her practice a skill, but also let her develop a good habit of independence and autonomy from a young age, which has a great impact on her later personality.
Tang Jing has a special love for dance and has an inexplicable love.
In the 1980s, Tang Jing, who was in junior high school, had already come out of the woods, and due to her long-term dance practice, her temperament conditions were very good, and she herself hoped to become a professional dancer and realize her dream.
But the dream was shattered before it even began.
At that time, she sharpened her head and wanted to enter the Beijing General Political Affairs Song and Dance Troupe, although her professional achievements were excellent, she suffered a big loss in height.
Because her height did not meet the relevant standards, she was not able to achieve her wish in the end.
Lost in the east, harvested in mulberry elm.
Although she did not enter the song and dance troupe of her heart, she was also photographed by some industry "bigwigs" in the process of performing, and then she was accepted into the front-line drama troupe of the Nanjing Military Region.
Because Tang Jing's own conditions are very good, coupled with her own hard work, she is very appreciated by the leaders of the drama troupe, and at the same time, she is also listed as a key training object.
Not long after joining the group, it coincided with the director Wang Qun preparing to shoot a "Marriage Notice", and the selection was repeated, and finally decided to use Tang Jing, a new face, as the heroine.
At this time, Tang Jing was the flower girl, and every smile was bright and moving, and even Fan Ming and Hou Yong could only follow her ass and be willing to play a supporting role.
Speaking of Fan Ming, she and Tang Jing also have a youthful "crush journey".
At that time, because of the cooperation with Tang Jing in "Marriage Notice", Fan Ming had a crush on Tang Jing, but because Tang Jing was too good, very beautiful, and there were many people chasing her, Fan Ming felt that he was not worthy of his own goddess, and he never dared to confess, and could only turn this feeling into friendship, put it in his heart, and silently guard it.
It was not until many years later, in a show, that the two cooperated again, talking about the topic of youth, Fan Ming said half-jokingly that he had a crush on Tang Jing, and Tang Jing, who had been friends with him for many years, also expressed surprise.
"Why didn't you say it earlier?"
"If you say it earlier, you won't necessarily accept me."
"Not necessarily!"
Time has passed, and the past is over.
Once secretly secretly in love, now it is put on the table as a joke, and people can't help but sigh.
It's gold that shines everywhere it goes.
Tang Jing, who appears frequently on screen, has long been noticed, and in 1991, she was assigned to the Beijing Air Politics Repertory Theatre, and later became colleagues and comrades-in-arms with Yan Ni, Lin Yongjian, Sha Yi and other well-known actors.
Yan Ni and Sha Yi came later than Tang Jing, and she was worried that they would not adapt and would take the initiative to care for them.
At that time, Yan Ni's dormitory had not yet been arranged, and Tang Jing took the initiative to take her to Hong Jiantao's home for a lunch break every day, and Hong Jiantao's lovers also knew it, but never said anything, but welcomed it.
In the regiment, everyone was a comrade-in-arms in the trenches, and the relationship was simple and pure.
Tang Jing has a lively and open personality, often taking Sha Yi and these newcomers to eat supper together, and sometimes the team goes out to perform together, the performance time is relatively late, the room is not enough, often big guys and men and women huddled together and slept like this.
Wherever Tang Jing went, there was laughter.
Originally beautiful, good personality, but also very intimate, Sha Yi once commented on her: "Tang Jing is not a brother and sister, but better than a brother and sister." From this, it can be seen that Tang Jing's personality is speechless.
2. Countless representative works, Wang Xinjun who "married" during the popular period
Because she was selected into the art troupe since she was a child, after ten years of studying art, Tang Jing's starting point is much higher than many other female stars in the show business circle.
After her debut, Tang Jing, whether it is drama or film and television drama, has a well-known work, even the sketches she is not a word, and has appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala many times.
1997 should be Tang Jing's most memorable year.
In the past few years, it has been a double harvest of love for her.
In her career, she has taken over a number of film and television dramas, including classic works such as "Ruo Nan and Her Children", "Mountains Don't Turn Around", "Tang Bohu", and each work is deeply loved by the audience, and Tang Jing is among the frontlines; in love, a "Song of Youth" allows her to meet her beloved Wang Xinjun.
Wang Xinjun is three years younger than Tang Jing, and his hometown is in Gansu.
Tall and rugged, he is a full-fledged northwestern person, whether it is appearance or personality.
He is a very enterprising and ambitious person, who has been staying in Beijing since graduating from the Beijing Film Academy and wants to make a career.
But the ideal is always beautiful, in fact, Wang Xinjun can only run the dragon set in the crew, take on some small roles, live a day with today and no tomorrow, and it is difficult to support himself. But Heaven let him meet Tang Jing.
When filming "Song of Youth", Wang Xinjun first noticed Tang Jing.
Ask a popular actress, who has a beautiful face, who wouldn't like it?
Tang Jing was originally a warm-hearted person, although at this time she was already a popular female star, but she did not have any star shelf, and her personality was also an atmospheric person.
And Wang Xinjun and Tang Jing are a hit-and-go, as a pure northwestern Man, Wang Xinjun's personality is also very strong, and he is a person who says nine things.
Wang Xinjun is very hard and hard working in the crew, often asking Tang Jing for various professional questions, which makes Tang Jing look at him with surprise, so every time he faces Wang Xinjun's problems, he will patiently discuss and communicate with him.
In this way, a play came down, and both sides gained a relationship.
After the release of "Youth Love Song", the response was very good, and Wang Xinjun gradually became known in the show business circle from the unknown "recruit egg".
With the increase in Wang Xinjun's popularity, the relationship between the two has also surfaced.
At that time, Tang Jing was already thirty years old, and since she was in the industry, she had been preoccupied with acting, and there had been no lace news. After the love affair with Wang Xinjun was exposed, congratulations came from around him, but there were also many voices of opposition.
The reason is that Wang Xinjun is just a poor boy with nothing, no house or car in Beijing, and no fame.
Many people feel that he is not worthy of Tang Jing, even if even his daily life cannot be guaranteed, what to do to be good to Tang Jing?
Others say that Wang Xinjun only looked at the resources and connections in her hands because Tang Jing was very popular.
In particular, Tang Jing's parents opposed the loudest voice, for this reason, Tang Jing, who has been sensible and obedient since childhood, does not know how many times she has quarreled with her parents to blush and have a thick neck, and her parents are angry enough.
To what extent did Tang Jing's parents oppose it?
The second elder saw that tang Jing's road could not be passed, so he simply worked Wang Xinjun's body.
For the sake of their daughter's lifelong happiness, Tang Jing's parents once went to Wang Xinjun himself and told Wang Xinjun to leave his daughter and not delay his daughter.
According to Wang Xinjun's tenacious personality, he naturally would not retreat, not to mention that he thought that he was not Tu Tangjing's fame or anything else at all.
This matter was later known to Tang Jing, who was very angry and had a big fight with his parents, almost to the point of breaking off family relations.
Maybe love itself is a blind, irrational thing! Many people say that marriage is a gamble, which is true, but what Tang Jing did not expect was that after ten years, she would lose nothing.
Although her parents and friends urged her to think more, Tang Jing did not listen to anyone's words, only believing her own feelings and looking at people's eyes.
And the reason why Tang Jing was able to fall is also the common sentiment of people, don't look at Wang Xinjun who looks five big and three thick, it seems to be a rough and wild man, in fact, he is a very gentle and delicate person.
During his love affair with Tang Jing, he was also very protective of Tang Jing, and it was even more important to ask for warmth.
In addition, Tang Jing's family conditions have been very favorable since she was a child, she has never valued money and fame and fortune, and she loves Wang Xinjun.
Because in Wang Xinjun she saw the spirit of hard work and indomitable perseverance, she admired Wang Xinjun in her eyes and felt that Wang Xinjun would succeed one day.
In 1999, after two years of love, the two still got married against all odds, and Tang Jing's unit gave Tang Jing a house as a marriage room, and the two finally had their own nest.
After marriage, the two had a son.
The arrival of his son made Tang Jing willing to give up everything, retreat into the background, take care of the children at home, take care of the housework, and live as a housewife.
At the same time, he also did not forget to help her husband Wang Xinjun to pull connections and find resources everywhere, concentrate on assisting Wang Xinjun's career, and be the woman behind him.
After marriage, Wang Xinjun also gradually felt the responsibility on his shoulders, and with the help of Tang Jing, he successively starred in popular film and television dramas such as "Yellow River Love", "Chinese Guards", "Top Secret 1950" and so on.
Fortunately, Wang Xinjun is also angry, and with his excellent acting skills, he has gradually gained a name in the show business circle.
Later, because of Tang Jing's relationship, Wang Xinjun also smoothly entered the Beijing Air Politics Drama Troupe, jumping from a poor boy with no one to a promising young man with a promising future, and his fame grew day by day.
It can be said that the success of Wang Xinjun is absolutely inseparable from Tang Jing's efforts and support.
On the other hand, Tang Jing, after marriage, for the sake of her family, she only takes one play a year, and she is basically not the main role.
Hu Shiniang in "The Tale of Wulin" and Li Yuqin in "Hitchhiking" are classics and unforgettable.
Whether it is a comedy role or a tragic role, she has just the right amount, although the work has plummeted, but it is all a masterpiece.
3. Do not believe in love, and turn grief into strength after divorce
Wang Xinjun is a very ambitious person, from his love with Tang Jing to marriage, he has endured too much criticism, he is eager to succeed and urgently needs success, in order to prove that he is not a person who relies on his wife to ascend to the throne, he is eager to get rid of the label of "soft rice man".
Therefore, even after having the crystallization of love with Tang Jing, he still devoted himself to his work.
The Worldly Ande Dual Perfection? Trying to fight for a career naturally has to ignore the family, sometimes Tang Jing can't see her husband once a year, there is no difference between a husband and no husband, and the big things and small things in the family are all dependent on themselves, which makes Tang Jing feel very unhappy.
Two people with very strong personalities will feel very compatible when they are in love, but after marriage, in the face of family trivia and chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, it is inevitable that they will rub their guns and go wrong.
In Tang Jing's eyes, the family and children are not only him, Wang Xinjun can fight outside regardless of his disregard, and he once was surrounded by the spotlight on the stage, but now he has to do housework and take children, daily life is how to make coarse cloth clothes convenient and how to come, and family relations are unbalanced and unhealthy.
So the little couple who used to envy others has now become a complaining couple who quarrels when they meet. In the long run, the couple's feelings have also dropped to a freezing point.
Filming outside was already very hard, and Wang Xinjun, who had a hard time returning home, had to face his wife's accusations as soon as he entered the door, which made the macho man simply unacceptable.
Instead of going home and arguing with his wife, it is better to shoot a scene outside. Therefore, Wang Xinjun began to deliberately avoid his wife, and he would never go home when he could shoot outside.
In 1999, Wang Xinjun felt that it would be painful for him to continue living like this, and Tang Jing was also very miserable, so he proposed a divorce to Tang Jing.
Tang Jing, who has an independent and strong personality, even if she still loves Wang Xinjun deeply at this time, wang Xinjun's heart is no longer in him, and she can only choose to let go generously and end the ten-year marriage.
Wang Xinjun promised his son to be raised by Tang Jing, and in order to take care of his son's emotions and not affect his son's healthy growth, the two reached an agreement privately not to announce the news of divorce, and only a few friends in the circle knew.
The long-term closed role of playing housewife, coupled with the blow of divorce, once made Tang Jing feel depressed, for a long time, she did not dress herself, nor did she look for things to do, all day is a dejected look.
His friend Fan Ming really couldn't stand her self-abandonment, so he talked to him in a serious way.
He didn't understand where the spirited, energetic and confident girl of yesteryear had gone.
Fan Ming did not comfort her in a conventional way like others, but let her learn to face herself, and he told Tang Jing very directly that losing a marriage is not nothing, but you can't lose yourself because of it.
At the same time, he also mobilized his wife to take Tang Jing out shopping and relaxing.
After listening to Fan Ming's words, Tang Jing looked at the woman in the mirror again, unkempt, gaunt, and sloppy, is this still the bright and beautiful self before?
Tang Jing realized that she could not continue like this, and she had to make changes.
In this way, under the persuasion and guidance of her friends around her, Tang Jing managed to get out of the pain of divorce and decided to pack up her mood and raise her son to grow up.
However, in 2011, the news that Wang Xinjun was about to marry Qin Hailu was widely hyped by the media.
The two had been divorcing without their son before, and the son thought that his father always did not come home because he was too busy at work, but now he suddenly said that he wanted to marry another woman, which made a young child how to bear it.
Tang Jing, who is not easy to get out of the haze of divorce, her son is her only concern and sustenance, watching her son cry into tears in her arms, Tang Jing can't help but cry with her son.
She cried perhaps because she saw her son suffer from Inner Self-Blame and Indignation in Shanghai, or perhaps because she still loved Wang Xinjun deeply in her heart.
No matter what kind of emotion you hold, this is also the common feeling of people.
Tang Jingshi has paid ten years of youth for Wang Xinjun, and she has also personally supported Wang Xinjun from an unknown person to a popular actor, and she is not ashamed of this feeling. What's more, how can there be no feelings after ten years together?
Watching a man who has loved for ten years is about to be the groom of another woman, of course, it is not a taste in my heart.
In any case, the sad days have passed.
In order to give her son a better life and set an example of positive energy for her son, Tang Jing decided to stop hurting the spring and autumn and focus on her son and career.
Due to her age, she decided to start a slow transition from acting to producer.
From the front of the stage to the backstage, Tang Jing made more efforts than others.
Producers are a controversial job, and due to many restrictions, it is difficult to do well, and there are very few producers who do well in the film and television industry. And Tang Jing is the latter.
In 2016, a "Red Sea Action" box office explosion, looking at the screen printed with "producer Tang Jing" a few big words, she knew she succeeded!
In fact, as early as "Red Sea Action", Tang Jing had produced many classics as a producer, such as "Fire Blue Blade", "Burning", "Iron Blood Brothers" and so on, but "Red Sea Action" had an unprecedented response.
Later, she produced films such as "Deep Sea Sword", and was also named "National Top Ten TV Drama Producers".
Today's Tang Jing, her figure has been blessed, and she has green silk on her head, but she still lives out her own style, and her son has grown into a very good teenager under her careful cultivation.
Although the divorce did not completely crush her, it also left an indelible hurt and shadow on her, even now she confessed that she would not consider remarriing.
It can be seen how deeply the ten-year relationship with Wang Xinjun hurt her.
But then again, career and love she at least caught a head.
Now living alone may be the best choice for her, she has been working hard for her family and lover in the first half of her life, and she should live for herself in the second half of her life!