In 2004, 42-year-old billionaire Ding Jian fell in love with the host Xu Gehui, and he had a showdown with his wife: "I met my soul mate, give you a hundred million, take 2 children with me, let's divorce!" The wife struggled to keep: "The son is only 5 months, can he not divorce?" Ding Jian had already made up his mind: just said a word in the wind!
Xu Gehui was born into a famous family, she is a native of Beijing, the father of the famous artist Xu Fuyin.
After graduating from middle school, she was sent to the English Department of Beijing Foreign Chinese University, who knew that fate had taken a turn and made her a famous host.
In 1991, CCTV held a host competition, 23-year-old Xu Gehui participated in this competition, her sweet appearance and strong ability to control the field impressed all the judges, directly gave her a high score for the first place.
This competition changed Xu Gehui's fate.
She successfully entered CCTV, and successively co-hosted variety shows such as "Zhengda Variety Show" and "Twelve Studios" with Ni Ping, and became famous for a time.
In 1996, Xu Gehui left CCTV to develop phoenix satellite TV, and with her outstanding talent, she won numerous awards and became a big man in the hosting industry.
In 2002, during a hosting trip, Xu Gehui was introduced to Ding Jian, a financial tycoon who was 3 years older than her.
Ding Jian is the founder of AsiaInfo, not only gold, but also talented. He has three degrees from the University of California, Peking University and the University of California.
At that time, Ding Jian was attracted by Xu Gehui's appearance, and Xu Gehui was impressed by Ding Jian's knowledge.
Originally, Lang's "cai" female appearance was also a good combination, but Ding Jian already had his own family and was a husband with a wife. His wife, Xiao Hua, had just conceived her second child.
This disgraceful underground love affair lasted for more than a year, and in 2004, Xu Gehui became pregnant, and Ding Jian finally decided to show his wife a showdown.
Ding Jian's wife is a talented woman from Peking University, with outstanding ability, and has worked hard with Ding Jian in the world. After giving birth, in order to support Ding Jian to start a business, he silently retreated to the family, raised the child, and took care of his parents.
On the one hand, there is a wife who suffers together, and on the other side is a woman who can walk side by side with him, Ding Jian did not hesitate to choose the latter.
Xiao Hua, his wife, looked at the man in front of her in shock, in disbelief, crying and trying to keep it: "Don't you think about two children?" ”
Ding Jian said in a serious tone, "I'm sorry, I've found a soul mate in my life." I am responsible for her, I am affectionate with you, and I am in love with her. I am willing to minimize the damage and can give you a hundred million compensation, you and the child are my lifelong relatives.
Xiao Ye, who had no choice but to agree to divorce, took the child who had not yet been nursing, and greatly reduced to 2 million US dollars in child support, and left abroad.
In this way, Xu Gehui, who was pregnant, finally held a luxurious wedding with Ding Jian in South Africa and picked the fruits of victory. A famous digital screenwriter specifically posted a satire:
"Holding a beautiful face, dragging a few more foreign words, twisting the small waist, kicking open the door and robbing people...!"
Xu Gehui said that when Ding Jian confessed to her, she rejected the other party: "I have no right to love you, because you have a family." ”
After marriage, being a full-time wife is her dream, but after getting married, she suddenly repented and wanted to have her own career.
Therefore, after giving birth to a child, Xu Gehui returned to Phoenix SATELLITE TV as the host of "Celebrity Face to Face".
Xu Gehui gave the argument that Ding Jian did not need women who did housework at home, and it was better for them to go out to eat together.
Xu Gehui said: "My family's expenses for so many years are all my payment, and I rely on the money of Phoenix Satellite TV to support our family." Dou Wentao asked doubtfully, "Then where is all the money your husband earned?" ”
Xu Gehui said: "I never care about his money, my value is self-sufficiency. Dou Wentao couldn't help but complain: "I've seen stupid, I've never seen such a stupid." ”
Since then, Xu Gehui has gradually reduced the number of times he appears in public. Once, when someone interviewed Xu Gehui and asked her how she viewed the rumors of interfering in other people's marriages, Xu Gehui replied lightly: not only to do a good job, but also to marry well.
Later, Xu Gehui posted on the social platform that my relationship with my husband's ex-wife has never been tense, on the contrary, the two of us get along very well.
Unfortunately, although the parties accepted Xu Gehui, the public can never forget that a public figure who has been arguing with them all day has become a third party.
In the face of doubts, Xiao Hua also stood up for Xu Gehui, "We divorced because of personality incompatibility, and have nothing to do with Xu Gehui..."
However, after marriage, Ding Jian still did not change his style, and from time to time there would be rumors, and even the news of divorce. Many people ridiculed Xu Gehui as "stealing is not reliable after all." ”
However, Xu Gehui did not fall behind, and was also rumored to be involved in the relationship between Lu Yu and Dou Wentao many times.
Every relationship, we all hope that each other can be absolutely loyal, not cheating, not concealing, Xu Gehui's successful marriage is destined to be based on the tears of Ding Jian's original wife, I don't know if Xu Gehui once had a trace of guilt.
There is no doubt that from the perspective of career and talent, Xu Gehui is a very good host, and countless facts have proved this. But we should realize that talent and character are two different things, and they cannot be compared.
Xu Gehui said that she was not looking for a rich man, but a companion whose soul resonated.
Yes, they have found a soul mate, but what about Xiao Hua?
She gave up her own work to help him do his career and help him take care of the elderly when Ding Jian was most bitter, and the result was that?
And Xu Gehui was already with Ding Jian when Ding Jian Xiaohua was not divorced, is this moral?
There's nothing wrong with pursuing the love you want, but please don't cross the moral line!
Without everything later, Xu Gehui would probably have achieved something on CCTV.
It is said that love does not come first, but marriage should be courteous and shameful. Unfortunately, there are many people who do uncomfortable things in the name of love.
The funny thing is that Ding Jian once said: "What is most needed in marriage is responsibility, men should be responsible, and women should be kind." For Xu Gehui, maybe he has fulfilled the responsibility of a man, but for his ex-wife and their children, can Ding Jian be ashamed?
