Confucius once said: If virtue is not worthy of the position, there will be suffering.
A person's morality and character must match their position, otherwise it will not last long.
As a representative of the national image, CCTV hosts must not only have excellent professional ability, but also have correct three views and moral concepts.
If it can't stand the scrutiny of the audience, it is doomed to be eliminated.
Every industry is a big wave, and the CCTV hosts have also changed batches of batches.
In addition to these hosts that we are familiar with now, there were actually some hosts who were very good, but later became "passers-by".
For example, xu Gehui, former CCTV host, some people say that she is "unworthy of morality", is the reason behind it really like this?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >1. He was partnered with Ni Ping, but was "dissuaded" by CCTV</h1>
In 1968, Xu Gehui was born into a strict family.
Her father was an actress, her mother was a soldier, and her parents were very strict with her from an early age.
As the saying goes: Strict teachers produce high disciples, and Strict families produce good children.
After graduating from the Affiliated High School of Beijing Foreign Chinese University, Xu Gehui was directly escorted to the English Department of Beijing Foreign Chinese University.
During college, Xu Gehui was the best in the class, and by chance, she participated in the CCTV Young Amateur Host Competition.
Even more fortunately, she won the first place.
Since then, she has stepped into CCTV and has an indissoluble relationship with the field of television.
Xu Gehui is lucky, fortunate that she can get the first place.
Because with her talent, it is not surprising to be the first side of the host competition.
Fortunately, she is not only talented, but also has a natural good face, good figure and innate affinity.
These conditions are all driving her to become a good host.
After entering CCTV, she hosted programs such as "Zhengda Variety" and "East, West, South, North and Middle", and the program effect was very good.
Among the many hosts, Xu Gehui has outstanding appearance and outstanding temperament.
The hosting style is lively and relaxed, and the most important thing is that there is a strong foundation of hosting skills.
In this way, she slowly became one of the most popular hosts in the public.
In 1995, she also hosted the CCTV Spring Festival Gala with Ni Ping, which already shows how high her status is on CCTV.
According to this trend, Xu Gehui has become an admirable senior figure in the CCTV hosting industry, just like Ni Ping.
But in 1996, Xu Gehui suddenly quit CCTV and joined Phoenix TV.
For Xu Gehui's withdrawal, there are many opinions from the outside world.
Some people say that she was poached by Phoenix Satellite TV, and some people say that Xu Gehui's private life is chaotic, and she has an improper relationship with many male hosts.
Some people also say that she fell in love with the rich, and in general, the influence was not good, and she was "dissuaded" by CCTV.
It is said that the leaders of the Taiwan Station talked to her at that time, hoping that she could take the initiative to resign, which would be good for both sides.
Of course, this is just one reason for everyone to hear.
One of the more specific reasons, no one knows why.
Excellent people can shine everywhere, leaving CCTV, Xu Gehui quickly became a "phoenix satellite TV sister".
He has hosted programs such as "Celebrity Face to Face", "Public Welfare China", and "Walking with Dreams".
From CCTV to Phoenix TV, Xu Gehui's career has been smooth as ever.
However, her love life has been criticized as always, and the word "moral unworthiness" has followed her for a long time.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" >2. Falling in love with a husband with a wife, she is pregnant and enters the rich</h1>
Shortly after the front foot came out of CCTV, the back foot married into the rich, such a story is difficult not to be told.
After leaving CCTV, in a work, Xu Gehui met a husband with a wife, this person is Ding Jian.
Ding Jian is a financial tycoon and a rich man.
The two met and hated each other late, and they talked very well, and slowly they developed feelings.
Although Ding Jian already had a wife who had been married for 13 years at that time, he was not afraid of rumors and bold pursuit of Xu Gehui.
There is no doubt that in the face of such a successful man, Xu Gehui is also in love with him.
The two have been secretly dating, and Xu Gehui is pregnant.
At this time, Ding Jian had to show his original wife.
It is reported that in order to let his ex-wife divorce, Ding Jian said to his ex-wife: "I am willing to minimize the damage and give a hundred million as compensation, I will always be your relatives and your children." "
It can be seen that she is truly in love with Xu Gehui!
After Ding Jian and his ex-wife divorced, Xu Gehui married him as he wished, and the wedding of the two was scheduled to be in South Africa, which was actually a travel wedding.
Xu Gehui once said: "Chinese weddings feel very tired, getting married is like performing on stage, we don't like it, so we decided to travel to get married, just because my parents rarely have the opportunity to travel, so I take my parents with me." ”
After marriage, Xu Gehui also gave birth to a lovely daughter.
In this way, the family can be regarded as living a happy life.
But from another point of view, Xu Gehui is a "squeeze" away from the original match, and the "little three" who has successfully ascended to the position is at least in the eyes of many people.
Later, Ding Jian also personally explained this matter, he said: "The divorce is not because of xu Gehui's appearance, my marriage with my ex-wife has already broken down, divorce is sooner or later." "
And Xu Gehui has become accustomed to the outside world's doubts about her, and she feels that it is most important to live her own life.
Although the failure of Ding Jian's previous marriage may not really blame Xu Gehui.
However, according to outsiders, on the surface, Xu Gehui is indeed a participant in other people's families, so it is still easy to cause public dissatisfaction.
Now Xu Gehui has not given up her career and is still a host, but she has put more time into her family.
At 52, she looks to be in her thirties and occasionally does public welfare.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > concluding remarks:</h1>
Some people say that Xu Gehui was dissuaded because of "virtue is not worthy of the position", and this virtue should be what everyone calls female morality.
So what exactly is female virtue? Perhaps in this era of freedom and openness, no one can explain it exactly, because everyone has the right to pursue love.
And what netizens call "moral unworthiness" may be a bit one-sided.
No matter what reason Xu Gehui quit CCTV, it is undeniable that her hosting ability is very strong.
Some people say that Xu Gehui is a stepper.
But from another point of view, she may be a brave.
She is not afraid of rumors, marries the person she likes, and expresses it generously.
Life is their own, and everyone has the right to choose the way they like to live their life.
I hope that everyone's choice can be worthy of.
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