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Be a person and maintain a positive attitude so that you will not be knocked down by difficulties.
Do you think that fifty years old is a hurdle? Halfway through life, one side is the past, the other side is the future.
If you have savings, a pension, and a house in the city, you have no worries about your old age.
However, many people, when they are fifty years old, are still very poor and even have to bear the pressure of a mortgage. The road ahead, where to go, there is no bottom in the heart.
Staying up, taking one step at a time, seems to be the only option.
I want to tell you that after the age of fifty, it is just a change of way of life, so that the beginning of the beginning is still too late.
02
Think differently: life is hard, but it's not without a way out.
My little aunt, when she was forty-seven, was laid off.
Fortunately, the company where the little aunt is located can still be maintained, and there is a high income, and it is not a problem for the family to eat and drink.
In March last year, the little aunt also lost her job. The family's life has fallen into an unprecedented low.
On the other hand, the son of the little aunt, who has just graduated from college, has no reliable job and cannot support his family.
In order to make a living, the little aunt and the little aunt went to Dongguan together. People around the age of fifty are not popular in Dongguan. The point is that they don't have a skill, and they don't want to work on the assembly line.
The little aunt used to work in a cotton spinning factory, and her daily work was to take care of the machine and record the data of those instruments, without any technical content. The little aunt's previous job was to carry goods, which belonged to the category of big old and rough.
There's a saying that goes, "You can never make more money than you know." ”
Fifty-year-old people, to give themselves a positioning of what kind of positioning, what are the doorways, suitable for their own development, need to think deeply, blindly toss, or randomly go to the factory to do cleaners, really too wronged themselves.
After going around several cities, the little aunt returned to the county seat, set up a stall for two months, and then made a cart, pushed a large refrigerator every day, and went to the entrance of the bus station to sell bottled water and popsicles.
One day, the little aunt did the math, and the income reached eight or nine hundred, and she danced happily. You know, she used to work in the factory and earned more than a thousand yuan a month.
An unexpected high income changed the little aunt's perception of society, and together with the little aunt, she repeatedly studied the skills of "setting up a stall".
Kung Fu pays off, and now the little aunt can constantly adjust the "direction of buying and selling" according to the changes of the seasons, and the monthly income is gradually stable.
The little aunt summed it up – in the summer, everyone needs to be cold; in winter, everyone needs to be warm. This is the need of the market. For example, ice water and watermelon can be sold in the summer, and gloves and hot tea can be sold in the winter.
Business opportunities are everywhere, the key is to see if you can catch it. How can a fifty-year-old not get rich?
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Look at life from another perspective: accept reality and innovate.
According to the convention, when a person is over fifty, he should live more and more elegantly.
People in the unit are in the second line and have nothing to do; people in the countryside will not work so hard and pay more attention to health.
However, people who have nothing have to "play their cards according to common sense", go against the tide, change their cognition, and find a new way of life.
First, accept reality, strive to integrate into society, and learn knowledge.
Man, as long as you have a skill, it is not too late to start a business at any age. Jiang Ziya, who is more than seventy years old, because of his full belly and understanding of astronomical geography, has become the prime minister and has made great achievements.
I know an old writer who, until he was sixty, was writing prose and novels. After the age of sixty, he tried to write online articles, practiced hard for more than half a year, gained a lot of fans, and his income was slowly growing.
The old writer said: "Everything is not separated from its origin, as long as you think hard, the routine is similar." ”
In any era, a skilled person will not be eliminated. The traditional carpenter can transform into a carving and become a furniture designer; the bricklayer can become an artist.
Live to be old, learn to be old. From the age of fifty, renew your wisdom, there will be unexpected surprises.
Second, be positive, adjust your emotions, and take the initiative to do something.
Fifty-year-olds, who still have to go out and look for a job, look bad, but they are not. As long as you have sunshine in your heart, then go to any unit to apply, and others will look up.
Don't say, "I'm old, I don't have any requirements for work, just sweep the floor." You have degraded yourself and are afraid to show your work experience and wisdom, which is really too much.
If you don't have a good job in your hometown, you can also choose to drift. Whatever you are afraid of, where there is money to be made, you will go wherever you go.
Take the initiative and good luck will patronize you. It is shameful to hide in the corner and cry, waiting for someone else to come to the rescue.
Third, husband and wife love, concentrate wisdom and strength, and change their destiny together.
Husband and wife are in the same heart, and the loess turns into gold.
We must not "fall down and scatter the trees", insist that husbands sing and follow women, encourage each other, and survive the troughs of life. Good love can become a "career partner" relationship.
Quarrels over money are inevitable, but don't talk about divorce. From the age of fifty, I still have to go to find a partner, really delay time, and I can't find the person I want. This is the same for men and women.
Take the initiative to work together to do things, for the best policy.
Fourth, unite the sons and daughters to find a way out of the family.
Uncle Zhang, who lived in the same neighborhood as me, went to work everywhere when he was young, and when he was forty, he opened a wax shop.
Many people will think that these things as incense candles are sacrificial supplies, which are very obscure. However, Uncle Zhang found an opportunity in it. In recent years, he has not only opened his own shop, but also brought his children to take root in this industry.
Relying on the "family chain store", Uncle Zhang's family is rich.
Many families, relying on small workshops, will not be unemployed for generations. For example, tofu workshops, traditional rice dumpling processing shops, etc.
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Believe that there is no way out.
The meaning of life lies in continuous learning and innovation. Fifty-year-old people are older, but they have more advantages in life experience, mind, and cognition of society than young people.
It is better to die than to live. People must always look for a way to live, then at any time, there will be a source of living water, gushing into life.
This way of living does not work, then turn a corner, another way of living, willow dark flowers bright.
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.