Who moved our "happiness"?

Once with the brothers of our time to drink a little wine bragging gossip, a meal of bittersweet, nagged to happiness, a brother suddenly asked, you say that now the house is getting bigger and bigger, eating and wearing better and better, no matter how good the conditions are almost, can afford to drive a car, at least it is worry-free about food and clothing, but why do you feel more and more that life is boring?

A stone stirs up a thousand layers of waves. It may seem like a simple question, but no matter how you answer it, you can't give a convincing and satisfactory answer.

Indeed, in the era of our birth (the seventies), materials were scarce, and people established life goals that were mostly to feed and clothe.

Over time, at some point, those goals were achieved one by one. Even some of the goals that could not be imagined at that time, such as houses and cars, were easily achieved!

Material abundance, but people feel bored, who moved our "happy" cheese?

Looking back on the decades we've traveled, it feels like it is.

In the era of planned economy, the difference between urban and rural areas is huge. But compared with the city and the countryside with the countryside, it is still about the same. The gap in poverty is very small, only the difference in occupation, there is no distinction between high and low. Rich, rich not much; poor, a few children in a family can also provide for it.

At that time, due to the limitations of regions, conditions, and policies, even if people had various ideas in their minds, they could only hold them in their hearts. Even if you occasionally engage in some speculative tricks to make some extra money, you can only hide your heart and dare not show it.

At that time, although there was a lack of materials and life was bitter, everyone's psychology was balanced, satisfied, and happy! The greatest happiness of people, especially children, is to be able to put on a new dress, make a new pair of shoes, eat a dumpling, and have a good meal!

Later, the reform and opening up were carried out, the material was enriched, people's ideas were popularized, and there were more channels for making money. Those who are bold, have many ideas, and catch up with the situation and keep up with the policy, whether it is the legal operation of honest service Tong Shu is not deceived, or the open struggle and secret struggle to seize the lack of weight and lose the public and private, in short, after a meal of operation, some people are indeed rich.

People's concepts, in this piece of wealth, have gradually changed!

The vast number of wage earners and migrant workers have also begun to gradually turn the original various "tall" goals into the most realistic goal of "making money." In the education of children, they began to take whether they can make money and whether they can make more money as the first goal of cultivating children.

Money, in the eyes of many people, has also become an important criterion for measuring a person's status and ability!

Those bosses whose assets are often counted as "tens of millions" and "billions" have become the goals that everyone pursues. People want to become the "rich generation", "rich second generation", "official second generation", stars, singers, hosts... In short, which line makes more money, where it is easy to make money, where it is eager, everyone wants to become a member of the "rich people"!

With the in-depth development of society, the pace has become faster, the competition has become increasingly fierce, the asymmetry of payment and return has become prominent, coupled with the collision of diverse ideas, the majority of wage earners and migrant workers generally feel that the pressure is increasing. It is in this encirclement that people, either actively or passively, are wrapped up all the way forward!

Although on the surface, their overall situation continues to improve with the development of society, but the voluntary forced expenditure of mortgages, car loans, education, medical care, etc., has become an eternal pain in the hearts of the vast majority of people!

Vertically, they are indeed rich, even richer than ten times, a hundred times richer; but horizontally, the vast majority of them are still at the bottom of society. Although there is no worry about food and clothing, the psychological gap is huge.

So it seems that everyone lives in the happiness seen by outsiders, but everyone does not find the feeling of happiness! Perhaps, this also includes the feeling of post-80s, post-90s, and even post-00s!

It is said that the more the society develops, the richer the material, and the more people's happiness is, how can this happiness be less and less?

Mainly people's minds have undergone metamorphosis, and the goals and directions pursued are wrong! People patronize the pursuit of material things, and desert the spiritual world!

In the era of material scarcity, people used to be full of spirits, fighting with heaven, fighting with the earth, fighting with people, and the fun was endless! At that time, people had thoughts, goals, spirits, and motivation, and they knew the meaning of life, so they burst out with great energy!

After the reform and opening up, due to the diversification of ideas, people have more regarded material pursuit as the most and the biggest goal.

And the pursuit of material is endless. With a building, you still want to change the bigger, change the bigger, and even have two sets of buildings, N sets of buildings; the car is the same, the more you change the more high-end, the more you want to change...

When he thought that his material pursuits could satisfy vanity and wanted to show off, he found that the goals he had painstakingly built and achieved were thrown several streets by richer people!

It is in this kind of inability to live with oneself, people gain a short period of satisfaction, but lose more happiness!

"A nation that worships money and power too much is not far off!" I don't know exactly where this sentence came from, but it was deafening!

In fact, the state has always had a clear understanding of the harm caused to the country and individuals by the people's deformed pursuit of materials. However, due to the lack of materials at that time, we could only focus our main energy on economic construction, but we never forgot spiritual construction!

After a rough investigation, the Communist Party of China has proposed Chinese culture as the leading culture for China's development and progress since the Sixth Plenary Session of the Twelfth Central Committee, and has always adhered to it. Especially since the Eighteenth and Nineteenth National Congresses of the Communist Party of China, with the substantial improvement of China's comprehensive national strength, the party and the state have attached more importance to cultural construction, especially to revitalize traditional culture, and build China's own cultural brand, not only to have theoretical self-confidence, road self-confidence, but also cultural self-confidence, and to gradually use socialist ideas to dominate social development and progress! This goal has a long way to go, because the transformation of people's thinking is the most difficult and biggest project!

And this project requires the participation and cooperation of the whole people. In fact, even when the whole people are pursuing economic development, there is no shortage of calm-thinking people who have been thinking, promoting and practicing our correct values. However, when the whole people pursue material things, they are ignored and ignored. Ren Zhengfei at that time belonged to people with clear minds!

And man is an animal of society, and he needs to be recognized by society through the realization of his own value, which is the value of the individual to society. Ren Zhengfei is like this, when the society is marching towards the economy, he is not blinded by material desires, he is in the pursuit of material at the same time, soberly aware of the interaction between material and spiritual, so there has always been a spirit in his enterprise, and he gradually enriched this spirit and always adhered to it, making him eventually become a banner of China's private economy, even a myth!

But we are not ren zhengfei, how can we achieve the goal of our own value?

In fact, it is very simple, that is, you, me, him, all of us, based on the post, based on reality, through the ability of labor or pay, to bring positive, positive, enlightening, and promoting things to society, no matter how big or small, are listed here.

For example, in the unit, in this post conscientiously, make achievements, drive a group of people, become the goal of others to catch up, is a manifestation of their own value; in the society, with positive energy words and deeds to influence, infect others, even if you abide by traffic rules when crossing the road, it is also a manifestation of your own value; retired, give play to the residual heat, into the community, do public welfare, clean the community, maintain order, so that the old have something to do, the old have fun, is also a manifestation of their own value; at home, the things that are not used or needed are donated. Giving it to those who need it more is also a manifestation of their own value...

Accumulate thousands of miles, accumulate small streams into rivers and seas!

"As long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a beautiful world!"

Happiness is actually quite simple. Less materialism, more spirit! Happiness will dwell in the heart! (End)

I wrote this a few years ago, and I wish the majority of friends in advance: Happy New Year, Happy Family, All the Best, Bullish! [Beer] [Beer] [Beer] [Beer] [Beer]