You may have encountered this situation as well. Have been in love for several years, but when you talk about marriage, you are unilaterally announced to break up. Pursued for a long time, survived the "dark" student period and long-distance relationship period, met each other's parents, determined the wedding date, and finally, because of the issue of the bride price, they could not talk about it, and announced their breakup.
It was hard to find a professional job, with a happy mood to go to a new position, but I found that the work content and professionalism are completely unrelated, doing several things, holding a salary, doing repetitive and tedious work, at the beginning, the boss promised you the promised "cake", this is just a bleak "dream".
After working overtime for more than a week, according to party A's requirements, multiple versions were modified on the original basis, and when the final manuscript was handed over to party A, it was told to use the first draft.
The next morning out, passing a depression area, last night it rained still water, a car happened to come, did not slow down, splashed a body of mud...
Many people feel that life is painful, as if everything and everyone is against themselves, the whole person is "depressed" to the extreme, in fact, life is like this.
Every stage will have, every stage will have a hurdle that we feel that we can't go, and we will comfort ourselves every time, just pass this hurdle.
But when you walk by, you will find that life is like the Tang monks and apprentices in Journey to the West, there are always "monsters" who want to block the way forward. Life is a bit bitter, so we have to live sweetly!
Every day the sun rises in the east and sets in the west, which is no different from yesterday. What really makes today different from yesterday is the sense of ritual in life, and it is these small rituals that make life flexible.
For example: on a hot summer day, eat a refreshing ice cream and a small cream cake and tell yourself that life is sweet.
Planting a succulent plant or planting a few pots of green plants, under careful care, watching these small plants grow day by day, you will think that, in fact, life is very beautiful.
As long as you work hard, life will be like the plant in front of you, and the difficulties will eventually pass.
Listen to some light music, put on headphones, isolate yourself from the outside world, let the mood steal a lazy, and give yourself a vacation. Watch a hit movie, or comedy, or sadness, if it's comedy, lol, if it's tragic, cry out loud.
These emotional ups and downs exist with everyone and don't care about the eyes of others. In the story with others, slowly release your emotions, and there is no more way to release emotions than exercise.
In the process of sweating, no matter how bad the mood, it will evaporate with the sweat, run or basketball games at night, sweat in the cool wind, sweat the mood will be better.
Reward yourself to the best of your ability! Can it be a lipstick that I have wanted to buy for a long time, but I am reluctant to buy, or a handmade model? Life is already hard, so don't let yourself be embarrassed anymore. You can also have a tea chat with three or five friends...
The farther you go, the more you will find that your confidants are still so many friends, no matter how busy you are at work, remember to see each other often, chat or family.
Although the days are not good, they are still lovely. You can travel at the right time and with the right people, it can be a short distance, if time permits, take a long trip!
When you walk more and your horizons broaden, you will find that those trivial things are just a drop in the ocean, compared with the beautiful world, it is really not worth mentioning. When you want to open, you don't care about that little pain anymore.
Life is already hard, there are too many people and things that are difficult for us, so we don't have to embarrass ourselves anymore.
In fact, many times, the so-called suffering is only temporarily incomprehensible, drilling the tip of the bull's horn, and after thinking about it, you will find that the person who makes you embarrassed is actually quite cute.
It's not a big deal, when you can't get by for the time being, it's over, it's over.
Life is already hard! That's why we have to be sweet! If life is a cup of bitter coffee, add some sugar every day, and if it's still bitter, add some more. Sugar eventually masks the bitter taste and eventually becomes mellow and delicious.
I wish you, too, a sweet life!