"The Son is not the fault of the Father." Parents' education of their children will deeply affect their children. If parents are responsible for their children's education, then the child is likely to become a person who understands the road. On the other hand, if parents are not responsible for their children, let their children go unchecked, and do not guide them when they do something wrong, then the future of their children is unimaginable.
When it comes to Teacher Zhang Guoli, many people may have an impression at once. Although Mr. Zhang Guoli rarely presents new film and television works to everyone. But he has always lived in everyone's sight. Nowadays, he is keen to appear on various variety shows, so he has his presence in many variety shows. Teacher Zhang Guoli had two marriages, and he and his first wife gave birth to a son, Zhang Mo. But Zhang Mo was not only exposed to his abusive girlfriend, until finally he was also exposed to drug abuse, it can be said that these two things suddenly threw away Zhang Guoguo's face.
But in addition to Zhang Mo's son, Zhang Guoguo also recognized three dry daughters, the first of which was Han Yuqin. Teacher Zhang Guoli not only recognized Han Yuqin as his daughter, but also managed her marriage and introduced Han Yuqing to Daphne's president. Since then, Han Yuqin has become a rich lady. In addition to Han Yuqin, Zhang Guoli also recognized another dry daughter, that is, Zhou Bichang. Today's Zhou Bichang has already spread all over the country, and it is also the greatest pride of Zhang Guoguo. Zhang Guoli also has a young daughter, which is a daughter that Zhang Guoli adopted with his wife in 2005. Through this, we can see that Zhang Guoli has a total of four children, and the achievements of his daughters are almost not bad, but the child Zhang Mo has become like this, which is really sad to say.
Successful parents do not mean that they can educate a successful child, success may mean that they are very capable, but they do not necessarily mean that their children must be very capable. As a parent, no matter how successful you are, you can't make up for the failure of your child's education.
1. The child's future depends on education
When a child is just born, he does not understand it, just like a blank piece of paper, so why do people with different personalities appear? That's because in the social environment, everyone receives a different education. And it is precisely on the question of what kind of person a child can become, and it is education that plays a decisive role. The reason why people are different is because they are educated differently in the day after tomorrow, which means that what kind of person a child can become in the future depends to a large extent not on the success of the parents, but on what kind of education the child receives in the early process of growth.
2. The child is a copy of the parent
As the saying goes, "Where there is a father, there must be a son." "Children are the shadow of their parents. That is to say, the quality of children's behavior is mainly the result of the influence of parental education. Children are indeed born of parents, but children are also independent individuals, so parents should give their children enough respect. Secondly, it is better to do it a thousand times, so in actual life, parents must not tell too much truth to their children, if they say it to their children, but the parents do not do it, then how should the children believe it? What parents have to do is to influence their children with practical actions, set a good example for their children, and let them perceive some truths on their own.
3. The best gift a parent can give to their children is a role model
"It is better to teach people to fish than to teach people to fish." You can give your child clothes to wear and food to eat, but if you want your child to be able to stand on their own in the future life, parents should let their children learn the reason by themselves and understand some concepts on their own. An incomplete child is enough to make the successful parents miserable, but a successful child is enough to let the father live in peace in his old age. Therefore, while young, while the child is still very young, we must pay attention to the education of the child, because the best gift parents give to the child is education.
Maybe people need to run all their lives, but don't ignore the most important thing because of running, that is, the education of children and the love of children. Don't ignore your children under the pretext of work, and your child's failure in education is the biggest mistake of parents.