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Baby eating, drinking, Lasa sleep, every thing is a big thing, but whenever there is a problem with one thing, the mother is a head two big, but some babies can eat and drink, but it is too abrasive, what can be done?
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > does not hold or sleep, the baby turns into a "grinding little goblin", is not the right way to use the mother</h1>
The baby is now 3 months old, and it is particularly healthy to eat and drink, but the baby has a bad habit that has been plaguing the small high family, that is, the baby does not hold and does not sleep.
When the baby goes to sleep, the whole family is on the battlefield, grandma hugs grandpa hugs, grandpa hugs dad hugs, dad hugs mom hugs, it's hard to coax into sleep, but put the baby on the bed, he wakes up again.
This is a well-behaved and obedient baby, simply a "little magic star" sent down from heaven to torture this family.
< h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > analysis</h1>
I believe that many mothers have encountered such a situation, obviously when holding the baby sleeps particularly sweetly, but why as soon as you put it down, you immediately start to cry?
In fact, there are three main reasons for this situation in the baby.
The first reason is that the baby is insecure, when in the mother's belly, it has been surrounded by warmth, after birth, the environment has undergone tremendous changes, which is a very big stimulus for the baby, and some babies will be insecure.
When the mother hugs him, the baby will regain this sense of security and it will be easy to fall asleep.
The second reason is that bad habits have been developed, many parents like to circle around the baby, eager to hold the baby all the time, slowly developed, no one can not sleep.
Reason three, the baby is uncomfortable, may be flatulence, when the baby flatulence, the mother holds him, his small belly will be oppressed, easy to exhaust, so the body will be more comfortable, so the baby likes to be held to sleep.
If the baby does not sleep without holding it, what should the mother do?
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" > how to deal with a baby's "no hold, no sleep."</h1>
1. Borrow swaddles
Mom can wrap the baby up, which will make the baby feel as safe as in the mother's belly, which will increase the baby's sense of security.
In addition, when wrapping the baby, we must pay attention to the principle of tightening up and loosening, so that the baby can move the calves at will.
2. Wait until your baby is asleep before putting it down
Some mothers see that the baby has fallen asleep, they are ready to put him down, in fact, the baby at this time is still a light sleep, as long as there is a little movement, the baby will wake up.
So we might as well hold him a little longer, and when the baby is getting deeper asleep, we're gently putting him down.
3. Do not put your baby down directly
When the mother coaxes the baby to sleep, she can gently shake the baby with the lullaby, and when the baby is asleep, we can stop the action step by step.
We can stop shaking first, then hum the lullaby, put the baby on the bed, and then use the body next to the baby, stabilize and then slowly withdraw the body, and finally hum the song to leave completely.
4. Develop a new way of sleeping
When the baby sleeps, it depends on the mother's arms, and a big reason is that sleeping and being held together, we change the way we sleep.
When the baby is sleepy, the mother can provide a good sleeping environment for the baby, such as dimming the lights, reducing the noise, and then accompany the baby to lie on the bed and tap different parts of the baby until the baby falls asleep.
After a long time, the baby will get rid of the way of holding and sleeping.
5. With the help of assistive tools
Cradles, white noise, etc., can help the baby fall asleep, the mother can let the baby try more, perhaps it will help the baby to fall asleep.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > mother's parenting message</h1>
Some babies will always let the mother hold because of physical discomfort, so the mother must carefully observe, if the baby has flatulence and other situations, we must help the baby to do exhaust exercises, aircraft hugs, etc. in time, which will make the baby more comfortable.
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Does your baby fall asleep easily?