One night in 1994, a girl had a dream:
In the dream, a handsome and elegant man came to him, and there were two words with emotional pulses: "You are particularly close to me, and you and I have met sincerely." ”
The girl woke up, surprised, and hurried to tell her father.
Unexpectedly, my father responded that he had the same dream.
The girl went from surprise to surprise: "This must be the red line that the old man of the moon has led to himself." ”
But who is the man in the dream? And where to look?
A classmate showed off the newly acquired poster to the girl, the poster was the popular star Andy Lau, the girl was stunned after reading it: "Isn't this the man who appeared in my dream?" ”
After learning that the man in the dream is Andy Lau, the girl "loves" him uncontrollably, firmly believing that he is her true destiny.
Then, the girl began to find the road of "love".
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > two pursuits: one to force and one to refuse</h1>
In the mid-1980s, When Andy Lau was all over China, two little girls had just started their education, one was Yang Lijuan and the other was Lai Wenhui.
At that time, Andy Lau absolutely could not have imagined that these two girls would bring earth-shaking changes to his life and work.
Yang Lijuan was the girl who dreamed at the beginning, when she was 16 years old.
When she learned that the man in the dream was Andy Lau, Yang Lijuan swore: "Non-Andy Lau will not marry!" ”
What is even more outrageous is that Yang Lijuan's parents, Yang Qinji, and his wife have fully supported their daughter's star chasing.
Yang Qinji only had a daughter at the age of 40, and he loved Yang Lijuan in every way, as long as it was his daughter's request, he tried to ensure that it was satisfied.
When his daughter was a few years old, she wanted to drink a newly listed drink, Yang Qinji went to buy it, but the drink was too expensive and the money was not enough, he chose to steal it as a teacher, and finally was caught by the boss and persuaded the education to give up.
As small as a bottle of drink, as large as a living person, as long as it is what her daughter wants, Yang Qinji will have to get it no matter what!
This bottomless doting has fueled Yang Lijuan's crazy behavior.
Due to the delay in going to school to chase stars, Yang Lijuan wanted to drop out of school, and her father, who was a middle school teacher, personally helped her with the formalities.
Yang Qinji also retired in advance when he was 4 years away, and went all out to accompany his daughter to chase the stars.
Yang Lijuan began to frantically buy Andy Lau's various posters, albums and movies, and the TV at home always chased Andy Lau's figure.
However, only watching on TV, it is far from satisfying, Yang Lijuan wants to see the real person, a heartfelt complaint, and believe that the other party will be extremely moved, promised life.
She began to shut herself off, not going to school, not working, not making friends.
"There is only one thing in my world looking for Andy Lau, and the others mean nothing to me." Yang Lijuan said.
In 1997, her father spent 9900 yuan to sign up for a tour group for her and went to Hong Kong to look for Andy Lau.
At that time, her father's monthly income was only more than 2,000 yuan, but this huge amount of money did not make Yang Lijuan's wish come true.
Yang Lijuan was not dead hearted, decided to plan something, and went again.
During this time, Lai Wenhui also became a fan of Andy Lau, but she took a completely different path.
Lai Wenhui understands that idol worship should not affect normal life and study.
In addition to chasing stars, Lai Wenhui in addition to learning, but also learned dance since childhood, with superior dance talent, willing to endure hardships, she was young and gently practiced a solid foundation of dance skills.
In 2002, an accompanist was absent from Andy Lau's concert, so a friend recommended Lai Wenhui.
Lai Wenhui was extremely excited, and the fans who looked up from the stage stepped onto the stage to accompany the dance, which was a great gift from heaven.
In order to get the hard-won opportunity, she practiced dancing almost every day until late at night, just to present the best dance style.
In the end, the performance was a great success.
Andy Lau saw Lai's potential and sincerely invited her to join his team.
Lai Wenhui was pleasantly surprised, but worried that his strength was not enough, he finally refused the invitation.
Andy Lau thus remembered the girl.
Intention to plant flowers and flowers do not hair, unintentional planting willow shade!
The development of many things is often unexpected, and what was originally inevitable was not obtained, but what was not wanted was unexpectedly gained.
<h1 class= "pgc-h-arrow-right" > two kinds of stubbornness: one is paranoid and the other is persistent</h1>
In 2003, at Andy Lau's concert, fan Lai Wenhui cheered in the second row.
Hua Tsai on the stage saw the girl at a glance, and at the end of the concert, he once again threw an olive branch to Lai Wenhui.
This time, Lai Wenhui did not refuse and resolutely joined the team.
Since the first time Andy Lau danced with Hera, Lai Wenhui was fascinated, and since then, no matter who invited her to dance, she refused.
On the other hand, Yang Lijuan is still struggling to find an idol.
Soon, she waited for an opportunity.
In 2004, Andy Lau went to Gansu to shoot "No Thief in the World", the two were in Gansu, which was the closest Yang Lijuan was to the idol, so in addition to eating and sleeping, she stood on the eighth floor every day and looked out the window, expecting a miracle to appear.
Standing upstairs and looking at the people you want to see, you can imagine that the odds are almost zero.
Yang Lijuan was deeply disappointed, her father Yang Qinji sold all his family property in order to let his daughter chase the stars, and their family of three had to move to a low-cost house with a monthly rent of 400 yuan.
Parents believe that as long as their daughter and Andy Lau meet each other, their future lives will be prosperous and rich.
Since then, whichever city Andy Lau goes to, they will run to that city.
Despite this, Yang Lijuan has not been able to achieve her wishes.
At this time, it has been ten years since Yang Lijuan chased the stars.
In ten years, they have been in debt.
Yang Lijuan's mother also injured her leg at home alone and was permanently disabled.
In such a situation, Yang Qinji really couldn't come up with money, so he said, "I'll go sell a kidney and make some money for you!" ”
When Yang Lijuan heard this, she only said lightly: "Can you borrow it or borrow it, after all, selling kidneys hurts the body too much!" ”
She didn't even know that her father had made this decision because he couldn't borrow money.
Yang Lijuan still has no way to chase the stars, and Lai Wenhui has been pushed to the front of the stage by Andy Lau.
In 2007, Andy Lau officially introduced his royal dance partner, Lai Wenhui, to a concert.
Lai Wenhui, 20, has become the envy of all fans.
Lai Wenhui used her extreme, emotional dance to make the concert shine.
For decades, she and Andy Lau have worked together tacitly.
Andy Lau loves Lai Wenhui deeply, and once when he sang "Love You for Ten Thousand Years", he could not suppress his emotions and shouted out to all the audience: "I love you!" ”
Lai Wenhui, as an accompanist, also looked at Andy Lau affectionately.
Suddenly, he turned his face to Face Lai Wenhui and said emotionally, "I love you too!" ”
At this time, the fans in the audience exploded the pot.
The water in Lai Wenhui's eyes suddenly rolled.
Even if she never had the opportunity to be with Andy Lau and become the sister-in-law of the stage king, she was satisfied.
But their love is not the love of men and women, but an emotion that transcends friendship and love.
After becoming famous, many people wanted to dig up Lai Wenhui with high salaries, and some companies even bid ten times to invite Lai Wenhui.
But they were all rejected by her one by one, she said: "In my life, I only give Andy Lau a dance partner!" Even if he doesn't give money, he will stay as long as he needs it! ”
The reporter was surprised and asked her, you will not be in love with Andy Lau, right?
Lai Wenhui said helplessly: Who doesn't love him?
When she first became Andy Lau's dance partner, she broke up with her boyfriend, and now 25 years later, the 41-year-old is still single.
Because she is worried that after she has a boyfriend or family, she will be distracted, so that she will not have the free time to dance with Andy Lau.
Andy Lau also once advised her to find a man who loved her to marry, and she just smiled and agreed, and there was no follow-up.
Obviously, Yang Lijuan and Lai Wenhui are very stubborn, but some are stubborn and persistent, and some are paranoid, and the results are often very different.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > two lives: one is a family that is broken and the other is respected</h1>
One day, Yang Lijuan, who couldn't stand the torment, began to go crazy and gave an ultimatum to her parents: "If I can't see Andy Lau again, I will jump off the building and commit suicide!" ”
When the father heard this, he panicked and immediately asked the media for help.
Then, the news of "father selling kidneys to help his daughter chase stars" broke out, and the media competed for interviews and reports.
Some media promised to help, but afterwards, they found an imitator of Andy Lau, which made the Yang family jump like thunder.
After that, another media outlet promised to help.
Therefore, Yang's father borrowed a usurious loan of 11,000 yuan to go to Hong Kong, and Yang Lijuan's wish to see an idol was finally realized.
On March 25, 2007, at Andy Lau's fan meeting, Yang Lijuan finally met with her idol, they took a group photo on the stage, she was so excited that she was trying to complain about her heart, and was kicked off the stage by the staff.
Yang Lijuan was extremely disappointed: "How can this be considered a meeting?" This is not what you expect? We haven't said a word yet? ”
She returned home disappointed. Subsequently, she still asked to meet with Andy Lau privately, which was rejected.
Then, the media hyped up, attracting many netizens insults.
Looking at the unsightly sarcastic words, thinking of his daughter's loss and the debt that had long been built, Yang Qinji was sad and a little breathless.
That night, Yang Qinji threw a seafarer to die in a foreign land, and left a 7-page suicide note: "Andy Lau, you forced me to die, after I die, you will see our children!" No, God forbid..."
Yang Lijuan, who learned the news, turned from love to hate to Andy Lau and said: "You must see me, this is my father's last wish!" ”
As soon as the news came out, Andy Lau was immediately swept into the whirlpool. He held a press conference and said: "I don't think people should think she needs help!" ”
There is no doubt that Yang Lijuan's request to meet cannot be realized after all.
In the end, Yang Lijuan's mother and daughter returned to their hometown in Lanzhou with their father's body after singer Yang Chengang donated 20,000 yuan.
During that time, Andy Lau received threatening phone calls many times, and fans threatened their lives and invited him to meet. To this end, he canceled all concerts and fan meetings, and even had a depressed tendency to see a psychologist.
Despite this, Andy Lau secretly helped Yang Lijuan repay all the usurious loans.
This star-chasing farce ended in a lose-lose situation.
With the stagnation of the concert, Lai Wenhui also faded out of the public eye. During this time, she rarely appeared, refused interviews, refused variety shows, and refused to collect gold in the name of Andy Lau.
She was so low-key that she could hardly search the Internet for her recent situation and news.
This year, it is 25 years that Lai Wenhui has become Andy Lau's dance partner, in addition to Andy Lau's wife Zhu Liqian, she is also a woman who has accompanied Andy Lau for the longest time, although the two have cooperated intimately, but they have not made a little scandal.
Lai Wenhui is like a tidal wave, gushing in when needed, the task is achieved, and then quietly retreats, and there is no dispute with the world.
Perhaps it is this kind of dedication and low-key personality that makes Andy Lau admire her from the bottom of his heart.
Many people said: "Andy Lau not only owes his wife Zhu Liqian a wedding, but also owes Lai Wenhui a wedding." From this, it is not difficult to see that Lai Wenhui is indeed indispensable to Andy Lau.
After the birth of his daughter, Andy Lau took his name: Liu Xianghui.
Among them, the word "Hui" is probably the best interpretation of Lai Wenhui's love.
Yang Lijuan and Lai Wenhui, two fans, finally because of their different situations, different pursuits, the final ending is one spurned, one is respected.
<h1 class = "pgc-h-arrow-right" > to disillusionment due to paranoia, to dullness due to awakening</h1>
In 2014, she appeared in the "Oriental Studio" of Oriental Satellite TV, warning people: "Don't learn from her blind star chasing, stars are not worth our waste of youth." ”
In June 2020, Lu Yu rushed to Lanzhou to interview Yang Lijuan.
13 years have passed since the star-chasing incident, how has Yang Lijuan lived in these 13 years?
Yang Lijuan and her mother lived in a low-rent house with an annual rent of 1,000 yuan, and at first she fell into a closed house due to the cynicism of the outside world.
Slowly, looking at her elderly and crippled mother, Yang Lijuan had an unspeakable feeling in her heart, and she began to regret it, regretting her stubbornness and causing her father to die.
She began volunteering at charities, going to church to be baptized in Bibles and choirs...
At the same time, because she has no academic qualifications and a very narrow employment area, she can only work as a shopping guide in the supermarket, earning more than 2,000 yuan a month in basic living expenses.
At work, she occasionally encounters some customers' finger-pointing, although she has lost, but can only accept, a long time, and get used to it.
When it comes to feelings, Yang Lijuan suddenly interrupted the conversation, she said: "I am quite satisfied with the status quo, and my biggest wish at present is to try to make my mother eat well and dress better."
Speaking of her father's death, it was precisely because of her own paranoia that Yang Lijuan burst into tears.
The most regrettable thing in life is to stubbornly insist on what should not be insisted on, and easily give up what should not be given up.
Lai Wenhui is respected by idols, and she knows what to do and what not to do from the beginning.
She understood that no matter how much she worshipped idols, she should first do her own thing well. She also understands that no matter how familiar she is with idols, she must also keep her measure and not give the other party any trouble.
And this recognition, unfortunately, Yang Lijuan did not have.
For so many years, Yang Lijuan has been defined as paranoid, abnormal, brain-dead powder...
She explained that she was magnified by the media to the point of being irredeemable, and that after many years, she hoped that the public would see her change.
However, whether it is true or magnified by the media, it is no longer important.
What is important is that the death of her father, the dependence of her mother, and the hardships of life may be enough for her to recognize reality, sort out herself, and live a good life in the present.
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【Editor| Zhiyu】