More than a week after the start of the new semester, the couple dogs on campus returned to the tree in front of the lights. Countless single dogs have only a silent covetous share.
Do you dare to love or dare to say? Or are the goddesses and goddesses too far away to even reach the thoughts? Or is it better to be single than to get rid of poverty, and to be in love is not as great as the grand prospect of getting rich?
However, after the rooftop confession of junior high school students in Japan's "Campus Madness List" swept the circle of friends, did you also have a momentary memory of the love that was strangled in the embryo?
The first to take the stage was Kubota Seidou, who was in the second year of junior high school
Can't stand the distance with the "angel" at the same table is constantly getting farther and farther: from 30 centimeters to 5:5 meters. He shouted out that he wanted to associate with the other party, but unfortunately the girl already had a boyfriend, so he had to smile and refuse.
The next to express her feelings is Hayamoto Hatsuka. She wanted to use public testimony to end her unrequited love. Shout out words to the sweetheart who has already used his girlfriend: "I want to give up the thing of liking you and put an end to this relationship." There was no silence or laughter, and the boy responded to Hamamoto with a blessing solemnly throughout the whole process, "I will cheer you on!" ”
Perhaps the most impressive boy is Tetsuki Kimura in junior high school. His love was hard to put into words, so he yelled "like you" sixteen times in a row.
There was excitement on and off the stage, but unfortunately the girl's response was only three words " I'm sorry" . When Kimura received a response, he replied, "Thank you." Turning around and getting off the stage and hugging the host, he couldn't cry.
Perhaps because of the way love is expressed publicly, almost all expressions are reciprocated. Even if the response itself has a beautiful or sad color, we can still see each other's honesty in the determined eyes and serious expressions.
There is no moral kidnapping, no silent waiting alone, and no teachers who suddenly rush out to accuse "early love". Perhaps, it is a country with such an open expression that can finally accommodate alternative photographers such as Araki Keisuke and Moriyama Avenue.
In China, the most common from small to large should be a variety of regulations. There are even "strict" schools that clarify the distance between men and women. Like the sword of Damocles, the college entrance examination hangs overhead, so any young feelings, the secrets of the opening of the love sinus are not allowed, and can only be hidden under the wide school uniform.
Did the blind suppression of early love really play a role in promoting growth due to the fear of the impact of early love on grades? The answer, of course, is no. Learning how to be responsible for others and being responsible for yourself in love and school is what really needs to be guided.
However, college students who have no worries about the college entrance examination can boldly confess their love? The way of confession that often appears on the headlines is to light a candle downstairs in the dormitory, holding flowers in his hand and waiting for the person on the heart.
However, there are always aunts, janitors, teaching directors, and onlookers who always appear in time. There will also be cases of crying and laughing because of poor preparation, such as "the boy found the wrong dormitory, shouting throughout the eight dormitories and not finding the girl he likes".
One can't help but wonder, do I really have the skill to "confess"? Many girls said that they did not want to have such a way as "candle confession downstairs in the dormitory". "It's like having to say yes in front of a lot of people."
Interestingly, when we feel that it is embarrassing to reject others in public, the former Japanese junior high school students can already generously refuse and bless.
Some people say that our national identity is introverted and shy. Just using "national identity" to cover up the thinness of behavior and mentality is an irresponsible thing.
Just think, if you can be guided by the correct concept of love from a young age, can you be more considerate of people, care about people, and find a better way to express your love, so that both parties can appreciate the sincerity and preciousness of feelings?
There are not so many estrangements caused by mutual incomprehension, self-abuse that cannot bear the choice of ending, and the pain and entanglement that cannot be put down.
As students, we didn't get a good understanding of what love is, what sex is, and what responsibility is. At the moment of marriage and children, when forced to mature, they can only panic and cover up their own lack.
Some people are lucky enough to meet the right person at once; some people can only use "slow heat" as an excuse to bear the loss of missed opportunities; and some people are unfortunate enough to be tricked into falling into the hands of criminal groups.
"There was once a sincere love in front of me, but I didn't cherish it, and I regretted it when I lost it." There is nothing more painful in the world than this. ”
Maybe we come from mountains, lakes and seas, but in the end we will be confined to the kitchen and love. Before meeting the right person, learning to love and learn responsibility is to wait for the best harvest in the journey. As Rilke says in his poem.
I don't want to get it from you
Prove the vanity of your existence.
I know: time has its own
First name, you have yours
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(The pictures in this article are from the network)