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Confucianism has such a concept, self-cultivation and family rule the country and the world.
This is similar to "see yourself, see heaven and earth, and see sentient beings" in "A Generation of Grandmasters". People, only by doing a good job of themselves, can they achieve greater causes and harvest extraordinary.
How can we achieve "self-cultivation" and how can we achieve "seeing ourselves"? Everything needs to start with "cultivating the mind."
As a person, you should cultivate your own mentality, and then improve your moral cultivation, and then reach a higher realm. The key to cultivating the mind is to be "quiet."
How "quiet" you can be, then how much blessing you can have.
There are too many people in this world, impatient, always like to ascend to the sky one step at a time, or become famous overnight. In this way, how can they cultivate themselves, possess wisdom, and achieve something?
We look at the old rivers and lakes in the workplace to know that they do things without leaks, are particularly calm in their daily lives, and are not affected by general emotions at all. How can a person like this not make a difference?
To know whether a person is mature or immature, we only need to see if he understands "jing".
People who can really "be quiet" to the extreme, and even achieve "static braking", are often not ordinary people, and will eventually go smoothly throughout their lives and be stable until they are old.
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There is a kind of maturity called "jing".
In modern society, there are many people who want to become bosses and do not want to become employees, but they do not know what is the gap between themselves and their bosses. In this way, it has caused people's blind confidence.
For example, in the face of a big event, or in the face of changes in the market, I believe that ordinary people's hearts will be particularly anxious, always uneasy, and even lose their temper. And who is the boss? It is still like a spring breeze, and there is not a single change.
This is what Su Xun talked about in the "Heart Technique", for the sake of the way, we should first cure the heart. Tarzan collapses in front of the same color, elk is happy on the left and does not look at the moment, and then it can control the interests and harms, and can wait for the enemy.
People who have achieved great things can generally calm their hearts, no matter what they encounter, they will deal with it calmly, calmly and calmly, and there will be no slightest emotional change. At this time, they can naturally think of good countermeasures and easily defeat the enemy.
The gap between employees and bosses lies not only in ability, but also in the human heart.
By the same token, compare a young man to a middle-aged man. Why are middle-aged people more down-to-earth and young people doing things more pompous?
Because of a "quiet" word. Mature people will think about the future and will also do things in combination with reality, just like the flow of water, the thin water is long, gradual, and not too urgent. On the contrary, the more immature young people always want to ascend to the sky one step at a time. This is where the gap lies.
Therefore, whether a person is mature or not depends on whether he can "calm down" or not.
03
Static will make you get rid of internal friction and be more efficient.
In recent years, there is such a term - internal friction.
The self has emotional internal friction, the workplace has the workplace internal friction, the society has social internal friction, and the inner volume has internal friction. In the face of internal friction and many problems of life, what should we do? That is "calm response".
A student who is almost a college entrance examination, his inner drama is particularly sufficient, and the personal pressure is also very large. At this time, he will naturally think wildly, and even have a psychological depression.
A staff member who is busy with promotions and salary increases always hopes to be promoted and raised tomorrow, giving himself too high expectations. At this time, the greater his hope, the greater the disappointment, which will affect his mentality and efficiency in his future work.
So, we need to think about the question, why do we think wildly, why do we get the mindset affected by success or failure?
In a word, because we are all too anxious to succeed, we all think it is better to get ashore as soon as possible and get rich as soon as possible. It is such a mentality that will kill many people.
If the student's heart is not calm enough, then his mentality will not be too good, and the efficiency of reading will be very low. If the staff's heart is not calm enough, then he is easily crushed by setbacks and does not have the opportunity to meet success.
Sometimes, being too fast is not a good thing, but the beginning of inefficiency. Life is like a long run, he moves forward slowly and calmly, he runs fast at once. So who will win the final victory? The results are predictable.
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Jing is the embodiment of a person's vision.
There is a saying that "fight for a long time without a moment." ”
You are better than others today, but you have provoked a lot of enemies, then you will eventually lose more than you lose. You choose to make a fortune in a muffled voice, and the still water flows deeply, then you will make steady progress and reduce unnecessary contradictions.
Modern people especially like to compete for a moment, which is not their problem, but the problem of the overall environment. People, it is better to have a long-term vision.
People who have read history know that it will never last long to become bigger and stronger at once, just like the Qin Dynasty and the Sui Dynasty, all of which died in the second life. In this way, it is not a good thing that people rise up too quickly.
The so-called "things must be reversed". What we can do is to maintain a calm heart, and then step by step, not to seek speed, not to be anxious, but to take steps as a camp, with stability as the mainstay.
No matter how brilliant the fireworks are, it will be a matter of time. No matter how calm the water flow is, it is a problem for thousands of years. This is where the gap lies.
Zhuge Wuhou believed that quietness should be cultivated and thrift should be cultivated.
People should not be fireworks, have no vision. And it should become a blue sea, running endlessly, and calm as a mirror, always moving forward, never being discovered. In this way, he will turn indisputable into a must, and achieve something extraordinary at some point in the future.
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