20-year-old college students have been missing for 60 days, some people said that they had seen it in Xi'an Enyi District more than 10 days ago, and their parents wrote through the media: "I hope you forgive your parents and come back safely" "Home is always your everything, there is love in a home, the child comes back" Ten days ago, someone met similar young people in Enyi District Parents speculated that their children were watching the outside world looking for him

"For many years, my parents have worked in other places, and I usually communicate with you less, and I hope that my children will forgive me."

"The reason why today's situation has a lot to do with the fact that parents did not give you more love and warmth, and I implore my children to forgive me."

Cheng Chen, a 20-year-old college student, "disappeared" on May 9 because of emotional setbacks, and it has been 60 days since July 8. In the past two months, parents have exhausted their efforts to find the whereabouts of their sons through public security, relatives and friends, and classmates. In desperation, the family called the Huashang Daily, hoping to communicate with the child through the media platform, hoping that he would return to his family as soon as possible.

On July 8, an enthusiastic reader called the Huashang Daily and said that he had met a young man who was very similar to Cheng Chen in Enyi District 10 days ago.

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"Hello child: Mom apologized to you, now parents miss you so much, no one reaches out to help you when you need care and warmth the most. When you encounter difficulties, a person is silently bearing, which shows that you have endured a lot of pressure and grievances, as parents we can understand.

This is your rebellious period and an important stage of growth in life; you have to make the best choices rationally. Parents have had this experience. It is indeed difficult to choose, it is not easy to heal the wounds in your heart, we know that at this time you are very helpless, full of grievances and complaints can not be vented. But children you have to be strong and want to drive some. The most people in the world care about you are your parents and family, home is always your everything, there is love when you have a home.

The child is back, the whole family is looking forward to your return, hoping that the child will come home as soon as possible. Love you! For so many years, mom and dad have worked in other places, and they usually communicate with you less, and I hope you forgive. Grandparents can only do food and clothing to keep warm, learning can not give you guidance, can only rely on themselves.

But the child you are great, in the eyes of your parents you are also very good, parents are also pleased, at least learning is very conscious, did not let parents worry. Grandparents are also older and need our care, and now they are all taken care of by others. But it's not easy for them to work for you.

Everyone's life is not easy, but the idea and living method are different, which creates a complex life. Children, because you usually have less contact with your family at school and do not have rich social experience, so this aspect is relatively lacking. Although you are already a college student, your thinking and psychology are still very simple, and you still need to communicate with your family and social interpersonal communication. Make friends carefully, and work hand in hand with people with positive energy to live the life you yearn for.

Mom and Dad also go to work for this family, there are gains and losses, the reason why today's situation, and Mom and Dad did not give you more love, warmth has a lot to do with it, please forgive me. What can not be the best of both worlds, parents in order to work, let the child suffer such grievances and trauma, the heart is so sad, but these sadness is only temporary, in the future parents will redouble their return. No matter what happens to the child, as long as you go home and talk about it. Welcome my child back safely and hope everything is well! ”

Early in the morning of July 8, Cheng Chen's mother sent a letter to a reporter from The China Business Daily that she had written to her son. I hope to communicate with my son who is hiding through the media " through the air.

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On July 8, an enthusiastic reader who lives in Xi'an's Enyi District called Huashang Bao to say that she was a sanitation worker, and a dozen days ago, at about 11 a.m., when she was cleaning the road and was resting, she saw a young man walking through the Guanzhong Ring Road from south to north from Caotang Avenue. Because there were many construction sites around, but he didn't wear a hard hat and didn't look like a migrant worker, it was very hot that day, and he didn't take the bus, but walked along the road, so he attracted her attention. After getting closer, I saw that the boy was about one meter and nine tall, very lean, with a lot of gray clothes and soil, and it was too dirty to see. Just like that, he bowed his head and walked down the road until there was no trace.

Readers who hope to see Cheng Chen can contact The China Business Daily or his parents

The enthusiastic reader said that because she had seen this search notice before, she had some memory, but she did not dare to ask in person at that time. On July 8, after seeing the report of Huashang Bao again, she was almost certain that the young man she saw at that time was Cheng Chen himself who was looking for him.

When Cheng Chen's family learned of this news, they were very surprised, because Cheng Chen's "missing" place was in Gaoling, Xi'an, and the place he saw ten days later was in Enyi District. Where is the child now? If he "wanders" along the road without a destination, where should they look?

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Cheng Chen hid? Or is it an accident? At present, through the information from all aspects, the family members are more convinced that they are hiding.

Cheng Chen's family introduced that he did not carry an ID card, the mobile phone is in a shutdown state, and now it is the epidemic control period, the health code needs to be scanned in and out of the regular place, the ID card is needed for the car, and the parents infer that the child has not gone out of the province to go to the field. This shows that he is "alone" and does not have much outing. Perhaps he is also watching the outside world look for him, for this reason, the child's family specially called the China Business Daily, hoping to communicate with the child through the media platform, "over the air", hoping that he would return to his family as soon as possible.

After 2 months of running away, Cheng Chen's "disappearance" is likely to be because the female classmate was refused to eat, to which his classmates, teachers and the majority of concerners said that "when asking others to eat, there is success or failure, and it cannot be rejected and lose contact with the negative gas, which in itself is not a mature performance." Especially in the future life growth path, there will be greater resistance and difficulties, should be actively faced, so negative qi will play lost contact, there are still many places that need to cultivate themselves."

Cheng Chen's parents also said that "a 20-year-old boy, the pursuit of the desired female classmate is not wrong, it is normal to be rejected, in the face of the real situation, hiding and avoiding is not a long-term solution, brave to face the reality is the real man."

At the same time, Cheng Chen's family also began to reflect on their children's education problems, "mostly from the economic point of view, for his life, study and other aspects of communication is relatively little, especially the child's concept of marriage and love after growing up is less communication, which is also the main reason why his personality is more introverted." "Now, my parents only hope that Cheng Chen can come back as soon as possible and give each other a chance to communicate again."

It is reported that at present, the Xi'an police have intervened in the investigation and are stepping up their efforts to find it.

Huashang Daily reporter Wei Guangjing Edited by Gao Mei

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