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Hunan Satellite TV once had a reality TV show called "Metamorphometer", and I once watched it all without landing.
Admittedly, this is a highly conflicting reality SHOW.
On the one hand, the manic brother and the cruel little princess in the city, on the other hand, the left-behind brother in the countryside and the sister who bears the heavy burden, these children with great contrasts are arranged by the program team to live together.
Whether there is a potential script or not, just thinking about it, doesn't it feel exciting?
Therefore, every time this reality show is updated, it will set off a heat of discussion and crusade!
As a veteran of the Morphometer, I have deeply found that no matter who the Transfiguration guests in each issue are, what their personalities are, where they come from, and what their family conditions are, it does not affect a fact that cannot be hidden:
Most of the children from the city are numb, confused, and indifferent to the future;
And those children from the countryside are extremely eager for the future, extremely yearning, full of expectations.
In fact, this is not only in this show, in reality, this is also a place where many parents are deeply worried but powerless:
Why are so many children, so young, have no thoughts and expectations for the future?
It was only recently after reading the book "From Birth to Independence" and seeing Dr. Liu Liang's narration that I understood that all this had a cause and a result.
Dr. Liu Liang mentions the example of Xiaoxi in the book.
Konishi has been out of school for more than half a year, and he locks himself in his room almost every day, except for playing games and eating and sleeping, and has no interest in anything else.
His parents were anxious, and when asked why he didn't want to go to school, Konishi replied "it's not interesting"; when asked what he wanted to do in the future, Konishi replied "I don't know".
The parents scolded and persuaded, and the reason was also told, but Xiao Xi still did not have any changes, and even said, "q I am like this in my life, the big deal is not to live, it does not matter!" ”
In fact, compared to Konishi, the city protagonist in "Metamorphometer" is even more:
For example, "Tong Brother", fighting, skipping school, clubbing, running away from home; the only purpose of communicating with parents seems to be to "kill" them fiercely; on the show, they also beat up the camera...
They
Not enthusiastic about anything!
Don't want anything!
Don't want to do anything!
Nothing matters!
Use the legendary "four voids" to entertain the present, mix up the days, get by, do nothing...
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="43" >01 Premature intellectual development and excessive learning pressure</h1>
If you look at the family growth experiences of children who are "four empty", you will find that they have experienced excessive intellectual development in their early years.
When peers are playing happily, they are forced by their parents to attend various training classes and learn various abilities, and most of their childhood memories are learning, examination, and examination
If children are compared to a battery and their enthusiasm for learning is compared to battery power, then premature and excessive intellectual development will greatly deplete their power, so that their learning motivation account is overdrawn in advance, and by the time of puberty, their power has long been depleted.
As a result, many children lose their expectations for school and the future, and become a "hollow heart disease" patient who does not want anything.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="81" >02 The joy of growing up is deprived</h1>
Some parents are not satisfied with themselves, some are not satisfied with their professional status, some have been treated harshly by their parents since childhood, some have suffered too much from life, and some are dissatisfied with their partners...
In short, in the end, his anxiety and dissatisfaction with life were transformed into expectations that the child could not bear, all transferred to the child.
And what these children feel from their parents is urging, anger, frustration, indifference, etc., no matter how much they do, in the eyes of their parents they are always not good enough.
Children do not have the satisfaction of growing up, can not experience the joy of growth, so it is naturally difficult to look forward to the future.
<h1 class="pgc-h-arrow-right" data-track="82" >03 Lack of life experience and survival crisis</h1>
Like in the metamorphosis meter, many children from the city, they have not had the actual experience of lack of food and clothing, they can not deeply appreciate the hunger and embarrassment caused by material scarcity, and without the experience of hunger and frost, it is naturally difficult to appreciate the bitter heart of their parents.
There is no sense of embarrassment, sense of crisis and desire, of course, there is no desire or demand, and it is less active in school and the future.
Based on these three points, "deformation" has played a role to a certain extent.
Children in the city children have suffered a lot in the countryside, eating badly, living badly, not having to play, when they experience material scarcity, they more or less know how to cherish.
Away from their parents, living in an unfamiliar environment, dealing with strangers, do not have to carry so many expectations and pressures, but make them actively or passively integrate into the environment to experience.
Once there is experience, there will be a harvest, and once there is a harvest, there will be a sense of satisfaction and achievement.
So, I guess that's what this show was designed for.
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